Are you involved in your local BDSM community?

The New Intimacy
  • Sitewide Sale — Enjoy Up To 85% OFF Now

Are you involved in your local BDSM community?

 
 
Updates
Forum search
ashaxmarie ashaxmarie
Are you or have you been involved in your local BDSM community?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, I am currently or have been involved in my local community.
AndroAngel , stars , qqqqqqqqqqqq , Sir , ashaxmarie , Haiku , Pixel , padmeamidala , RosesThorns , allinonekid , Kitka , biancajames , Diabolical Kitty , GoddessEden , solita , moments-in-time , ac0313 , TheSinDoll , Girl Deviante , GirlOnGirl , VelvetDragon , BloodHound , Defiledpixxy , Jewelweed , Gracefire , Miss L , mariedoll
27
I don't know if there is a local community.
aliceinthehole , pinkcupcakes , Purple Feathers , gnat , Princess-Kayla ♥ , Kkay , Errant Venture , JRabbits , K101 , slynch , geliebt , Love Bites , Darling Jen , LavenderSkies , allinonekid , Sinfully , WhoopieDoo , Jon S , ColorMeCute , bunnygrl , woodsdragon , solita , ellejay , dks210 , Loriandhubby , hall5885 , SubmissiveMommy , TransMarc , blackadeezee , Phantom2291 , Sima-pusya , Robespierrethecat , chicmichiw , table38792
34
I've never lived somewhere with a community.
Ghost , Sohotdinosaur , ViVix
3
I have no interest in being part of a BDSM community.
K101 , married with children , Darling Jen , Mr.Zombie , JGrey , stlouisxxx , her angelness , ~miss senora~ , mlgrant , The Curious Couple , dks210 , Loriandhubby , sexxxkitten , hall5885 , AmberBayta , Zandrock , kinksters , mdnght , table38792
19
I used to be involved but am not anymore.
CoffeeCup , TwistedTruth , solita
3
I attend/have attended munches/discussion groups.
AndroAngel , qqqqqqqqqqqq , Sir , ashaxmarie , Haiku , Pixel , Kitka , Diabolical Kitty , GoddessEden , solita , moments-in-time , ac0313 , TheSinDoll , Girl Deviante , GirlOnGirl , VelvetDragon , Jewelweed , Gracefire
18
I attend/have attended demos or trainings.
AndroAngel , qqqqqqqqqqqq , Sir , ashaxmarie , Haiku , Pixel , Kitka , Diabolical Kitty , moments-in-time , ac0313 , TheSinDoll , Girl Deviante , GirlOnGirl , VelvetDragon , Jewelweed , Gracefire , Miss L
17
I attend/have attended play parties.
Sir , Haiku , Pixel , Kitka , TwistedTruth , Diabolical Kitty , GoddessEden , solita , moments-in-time , ac0313 , TheSinDoll , GirlOnGirl , Gracefire , Miss L
14
What the hell are you on about, woman?
Other
cheetahpita , Haiku , Pixel , hyacinthgirl , ohgeez , submissive.sweetheart , Ms. N , WhoopieDoo , Ivy Wilde , GoneBabyGone , Allstars316 , 131231e43 , Dixiemomma , hall5885 , ScarletFox , TransMarc , k3 , Strider , novanilla , Missmarc , Gracefire , Miss L , Gdom
23
Total votes: 158 (93 voters)
Poll is closed
09/12/2011
  • Mix & Match 3 Luxury Toys For $100 Only
  • Mix & Match 3 Luxury Toys For $70 Only
  • Mix & Match 3 Luxury Toys For $50 Only
  • Get 3 Toys For 60% Off
  • Save 85% On Selected Items. Limited Quantity
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
AndroAngel AndroAngel
I'm involved in my community and I love it.
09/12/2011
qqqqqqqqqqqq qqqqqqqqqqqq
I love my community. They are the best friends that I have ever made.
09/12/2011
Purple Feathers Purple Feathers
Sadly, there really isn't much of a community here to be part of. =(
09/13/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I don't think there's a community around here. I don't think I'd be open enough to attend one anyhow.
09/13/2011
Kkay Kkay
Not sure if there's a scene here. It's a kind of small town, by a college town.
09/13/2011
Taylor Taylor
I've only been to one event here, but I would like to be more involved.
09/13/2011
cheetahpita cheetahpita
Other? I know there's a local community here, but I haven't been involved or attended anything yet.
09/13/2011
Haiku Haiku
I'm not only involved in my local and regional communities, I'm part of running a group in my town.
09/14/2011
Pixel Pixel
I'm a very active part of the local community. I go to at least one munch and party a month, as well as various demos.
09/14/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by ashaxmarie
Are you or have you been involved in your local BDSM community?
I've been very involved my local bdsm community. I've gone to all the local bdsm places around Vancouver and also hosting a local munch. I haven't gone in a while though. I miss it and hope to go back to a Halloween play party next month.
09/14/2011
RosesThorns RosesThorns
I just moved to a new area, but I am getting involved here and have been involved in the past with other local communities.
09/14/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
I don't even know if there is such a community in my area
09/15/2011
JRabbits JRabbits
I live pretty much in the boonies so I don't think we have a community. . . unless you count me and my SLUT paddle just running about slapping people on the backside for the fun of it. Than in that case I attend weekly and I'm the presidant. . . it's so lonely being the only person in my BDSM community.
09/15/2011
K101 K101
We don't have one and I wouldn't be interested. My partner and I wouldn't do well in a group situation. EF is about as far as we go with sharing our intimacy and that's different. I prefer getting my info online and from people I know and trust, but I would just join a group. One reason is because if we did have one in my area, it'd be VERY different and probably nobody in my area even knows what BDSM is and hell, I already get called a whore on my blog! Lol. I guess some of the younger people around here are judgemental and they love to target anybody who is open about things like this. I'd be dead! Lol. Besides that, I like being open and talking about it, sharing experiences, but the people my age or younger wouldn't make it possible in my area.
09/15/2011
geliebt geliebt
I don't know if there is much of a community where I am. I would sort of like to be part of it, if there was one, but I'm fairly intimidated by the idea. I'm a little apprehensive about opening up to people anyway, and I don't know if I like the idea of sharing this side of myself with people in a face to face setting.
09/17/2011
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
Most of my college friends are part of the local kink scenes. However, I'm generally so straight-laced and serious that the news that I had a sub was one of the biggest bombshells to hit our group since a lesbian friend announced her boyfriend (she likes women and him sexually - all other men are not okay).

Though, I'm not really comfortable enough to attend parties. I don't have any sexual interest in any of my friends, and seeing them in sexual situations would make me uncomfortable.
09/17/2011
CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
I used to be involved, but one day before an event I found myself seriously considering having a tshirt made that said "No you CAN'T tie me up and I'm not interested in girls!" In the hopes that I could maybe have an interaction with some one that didn't involve me actually saying those exact things out loud more than once.

I was so disgusted by the realization that I was actually considering wearing a sign so people would stop "forgetting" that I am dominant and straight. I decided I didn't want to have anything to do with it anymore.

Not that there is anything wrong with being sub or switch and bi or lesbian. I'm just not. And I really should have been able to say "this is how I am" and have the majority of people accept that. But they didn't. I ended up feeling like there was something wrong with me. My experience was that a lot of kinky people are even more close minded than most vanilla people.

I live in a populated enough area that I'm sure I could find some different groups, but I'm not really interested, right now.
09/18/2011
ohgeez ohgeez
Quote:
Originally posted by ashaxmarie
Are you or have you been involved in your local BDSM community?
I am aware of it, just not involved.
09/18/2011
submissive.sweetheart submissive.sweetheart
I know there is a wonderful community around me, however I am not currently involved. Not sure if I ever will be, and while the idea is somewhat appealing to me, mainly because I am so proud to be my Daddy's slave, I am not sure if I ever would act upon that, since I am a very private person. In the end though the real choice about joining will be Daddy's, and I know he is more on the private side as I am.
10/03/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by ashaxmarie
Are you or have you been involved in your local BDSM community?
No
12/06/2011
JGrey JGrey
never was and never will... it is kinda personal for me
12/06/2011
Kitka Kitka
Yep, Daddy and I usually attend the munches and play parties with demos in our area.
12/08/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
I don't even know if there is a community in my area.
12/08/2011
Ms. N Ms. N
The "Local" community is about two and a half hours away, so no.
12/08/2011
WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I'm not but I'm interested.
12/08/2011
biancajames biancajames
Quote:
Originally posted by ashaxmarie
Are you or have you been involved in your local BDSM community?
Yes, but I participate selectively, as there are many drama llamas about!
12/10/2011
her angelness her angelness
wasn't aware those existed.
12/10/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I'm not involved, but I am curious.
12/10/2011
glassdoll glassdoll
Quote:
Originally posted by ashaxmarie
Are you or have you been involved in your local BDSM community?
I've gotten involved in my local community in the last ~4 months I think, and I absolutely love it. I can't go to the parties since they do them at a bar and I'm not 21 yet but the munches are awesome. Connecting with other kinky folks and getting to talk to them face to face is so, so, so much better than reading pages and pages of online junk.
12/10/2011
Total posts: 64
Unique posters: 63
Top