I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his body, like using his legs to hold down my arms for instance. We never use restraints like handcuffs. What do others prefer?
BDSM without bondage?
10/25/2012
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I like all of these! Just depends on the mood.
10/25/2012
i like being restrained. i specifically like having wrist restraints i can pull on. But i also like having to restrain myself sometimes. i like being put in a position and told to stay there and doing so no matter what my Mistress does. i enjoy the challenge of it and the reward of impressing my Miss and earning Her praise when i do well.
10/25/2012
I like restraining and like using force to do it. My sub hasn't had any complaints yet
10/25/2012
it all depends sometimes its nice to get tied down but more often then not its nice to just get pushed around a bit, but I like doing most of the pushing even though im not strong
10/25/2012
Bondage can be a lot of fun, but I find that being thrown around and restrained manually puts me into subspace a lot faster.
10/26/2012
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It depends.
Originally posted by
novanilla
I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his
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I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his body, like using his legs to hold down my arms for instance. We never use restraints like handcuffs. What do others prefer?
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10/29/2012
i like all of these, so it depends on the mood.
10/29/2012
I like them all.
11/06/2012
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I like all of these.
Originally posted by
novanilla
I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his
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I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his body, like using his legs to hold down my arms for instance. We never use restraints like handcuffs. What do others prefer?
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11/08/2012
I like them all, though I think I'd prefer it if my partner restrained me with his body more. He doesn't do it often enough!
11/08/2012
Why not have it all?
11/13/2012
All of its good nice to have it all so you can keep mixing it up.
11/17/2012
It really depends. Most of the time I like the restraints.
11/17/2012
I like all of the above.
11/17/2012
Since I'm physically stronger then my current partner she can't really hold me down that successfully and I like being tied up anyway but if I had a partner who was stronger then me I might like it both ways.
11/18/2012
I like restraints.
11/19/2012
Variety!
11/19/2012
Ooh. I love it all. I love being bound by my husband or with rope, ties, etc.
12/08/2012
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i like restraints a little better, but both are good
Originally posted by
novanilla
I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his
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I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his body, like using his legs to hold down my arms for instance. We never use restraints like handcuffs. What do others prefer?
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12/08/2012
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I like all of these
Originally posted by
novanilla
I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his
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more
I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his body, like using his legs to hold down my arms for instance. We never use restraints like handcuffs. What do others prefer?
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12/08/2012
Since I can remember I always fantasized about being restrained with the person's body weight on me and them holding me down and me being helpless. Whenever I see a photo or video of someone restrained with ropes, it sort of takes the fantasy out of it for me, it almost doesn't make sense to me maybe. I like to fantasize of someone taking another person on the spot, restraining them with their body on the spot, it seems more realistic/natural that way maybe? Almost like the guy is so wild with desire that he can't even think even less think of using ropes or handcuffs, instead just taking you right then and there and holding you down! YEAH!
I still like all the options though.
I still like all the options though.
12/09/2012
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This is exactly what my partner and I do probably 90% of the times we have sex! I'm with you.
Originally posted by
lilacviolet
Since I can remember I always fantasized about being restrained with the person's body weight on me and them holding me down and me being helpless. Whenever I see a photo or video of someone restrained with ropes, it sort of takes the fantasy out
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Since I can remember I always fantasized about being restrained with the person's body weight on me and them holding me down and me being helpless. Whenever I see a photo or video of someone restrained with ropes, it sort of takes the fantasy out of it for me, it almost doesn't make sense to me maybe. I like to fantasize of someone taking another person on the spot, restraining them with their body on the spot, it seems more realistic/natural that way maybe? Almost like the guy is so wild with desire that he can't even think even less think of using ropes or handcuffs, instead just taking you right then and there and holding you down! YEAH!
I still like all the options though. less
I still like all the options though. less
12/13/2012
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I like all of these
Originally posted by
novanilla
I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his
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I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his body, like using his legs to hold down my arms for instance. We never use restraints like handcuffs. What do others prefer?
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12/13/2012
I am a female top, to a much larger male bottom, so most of my play is mental. He could physically overpower me if he wanted to, but he is rendered unable through our play. That is my favorite type of restraint, though we do use traditional bondage sometimes as well.
12/13/2012
It's much more of a challenge for him to hold still while I inflict pain.
12/26/2012
I like the idea of restraints but.. Im still not sure about how i will feel about restraints in practice!
01/03/2013
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I like all of these
Originally posted by
novanilla
I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his
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more
I used to think bondage was my favorite part of bdsm, but now as a sub I much prefer when my partner, who is much stronger than me, can throw me around and move me wherever he wants, and if he does restrain me, I'd much rather it be with his body, like using his legs to hold down my arms for instance. We never use restraints like handcuffs. What do others prefer?
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01/03/2013
I think rope work can be really beautiful, and sometimes I think it's too bad when I'm the one prettily tied up, because often I can't see its beauty unless a picture is taken (i.e. if a harness is most intricate from the back).
For that reason, I think it's sometimes cool to see it done on someone else, but I adore the attention I get when someone else rope ties me.
I'm pretty bad at remembering ties, so I don't like trying to tie others. I think it would be so amazing for me to finally get good at it, though. I consistently ask for rope for Christmas and my birthday and haven't gotten any yet. I think I'll just have to get some on my own sometime.
While rope tying isn't hot to me exactly, it does impress me greatly, like if you can rope prettily, I will definitely respect you more. Actually, even if you just know rope facts or how to take care of rope, that'll impress me.
I think black/ leather cuffs can be extremely attractive, like don't turn me on, but they make whoever's wearing them look so much more amazing. I think collars are often pretty cool, and can enhance someone's appearance. I'm not too into ankle restraints because I never look at people's ankles really.
I don't think it's necessary for my relationship to have bondage in it, but it could enhance it greatly/ act as a magnet for me to want to get to know someone better by the fact that they like it
For that reason, I think it's sometimes cool to see it done on someone else, but I adore the attention I get when someone else rope ties me.
I'm pretty bad at remembering ties, so I don't like trying to tie others. I think it would be so amazing for me to finally get good at it, though. I consistently ask for rope for Christmas and my birthday and haven't gotten any yet. I think I'll just have to get some on my own sometime.
While rope tying isn't hot to me exactly, it does impress me greatly, like if you can rope prettily, I will definitely respect you more. Actually, even if you just know rope facts or how to take care of rope, that'll impress me.
I think black/ leather cuffs can be extremely attractive, like don't turn me on, but they make whoever's wearing them look so much more amazing. I think collars are often pretty cool, and can enhance someone's appearance. I'm not too into ankle restraints because I never look at people's ankles really.
I don't think it's necessary for my relationship to have bondage in it, but it could enhance it greatly/ act as a magnet for me to want to get to know someone better by the fact that they like it
01/04/2013
I like to be able to make my subs stay in place with a command no need for restraints ... though they are fun
04/05/2013
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