Soooo~ ever been whipped which a chain?
Chain Whipped Anyone?
03/11/2011
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I whipped my girlfriend with a semi large necklace chain once. It didn't break the skin but left some nice looking welts.
03/11/2011
I don't think chain whipping would quite be my thing, probably a bit too intense for my comfort level
03/12/2011
My sub is sensitive to textures. It might be fun if the chain isn't too thick or I don't use too much power.
03/12/2011
That sounds extremely painful. I might try it once. LOL
03/12/2011
I'd be too wary of it breaking skin.
03/12/2011
Yeah, make sure you partner knows what they're doing. Hurts like a bitch, and it can break skin.
03/12/2011
Being whipped with a chain is not my idea of a good time.
03/12/2011
I see I'm the only one that voted a flat out "Yes" so far. lol
03/12/2011
I'd like to!
03/13/2011
We had a woman doing demos on chain flogging here once. I got a taste of it, and loved it.
03/15/2011
I'd like to!
04/30/2011
Never had it done, but some of the chain floggers I have seen have piqued my curiosity... >.>
05/01/2011
I love paddles and few whips but never a chain!!!
05/02/2011
Ouchie! That one is beyond my threshold.
05/06/2011
I am really not into BDSM. I think I can maybe understand the role playing of it? Its just never occurred to me that being tied up or whipped or something along those lines would be fun let alone a sexual turn on.
I've had a guy give my ass a little slap during sex, and I guess in the heat of the moment it added to my excitement. But I could never just be like, "oh! spank me!" so it that sense I could not even imagine wanting my butt beaten with a chain! That would not only hurt like hell it would cause serious damage!
Honestly I can't even imagine being interested in or sexually wanting a man if I knew he WANTED to slap me, or whip me with a chain or whatever-the title of this thread really made me wonder about this
Now I am sure some of the girls who go for this stuff have their reasons and maybe make sure the guy knows there are boundaries, but it still seems scary to me. And not like maybe taking a exciting risk that can make sex more thrilling, but like, just scary, as in something I totally avoid, and a type of man I would never be involved with.
I've had a guy give my ass a little slap during sex, and I guess in the heat of the moment it added to my excitement. But I could never just be like, "oh! spank me!" so it that sense I could not even imagine wanting my butt beaten with a chain! That would not only hurt like hell it would cause serious damage!
Honestly I can't even imagine being interested in or sexually wanting a man if I knew he WANTED to slap me, or whip me with a chain or whatever-the title of this thread really made me wonder about this
Now I am sure some of the girls who go for this stuff have their reasons and maybe make sure the guy knows there are boundaries, but it still seems scary to me. And not like maybe taking a exciting risk that can make sex more thrilling, but like, just scary, as in something I totally avoid, and a type of man I would never be involved with.
05/11/2011
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People involved in impact play nearly always DO have boundaries or what are called "Hard Limits." When one talks to one's Dom(me) one discusses things one likes, things may want to try and also things one simply won't or can't do, the latter is the "Hard Limit." Limits may also change as the relationship progresses or when one is with different people, depending on the trust level. We also have something called a "Safe Word" which either sub or Dom(me) can use to stop or slow down the play if either is uncomfortable or thinks things need to be re-evaluated.
Originally posted by
Brianna91
I am really not into BDSM. I think I can maybe understand the role playing of it? Its just never occurred to me that being tied up or whipped or something along those lines would be fun let alone a sexual turn on.
I've had a guy give my ... more
I've had a guy give my ... more
I am really not into BDSM. I think I can maybe understand the role playing of it? Its just never occurred to me that being tied up or whipped or something along those lines would be fun let alone a sexual turn on.
I've had a guy give my ass a little slap during sex, and I guess in the heat of the moment it added to my excitement. But I could never just be like, "oh! spank me!" so it that sense I could not even imagine wanting my butt beaten with a chain! That would not only hurt like hell it would cause serious damage!
Honestly I can't even imagine being interested in or sexually wanting a man if I knew he WANTED to slap me, or whip me with a chain or whatever-the title of this thread really made me wonder about this
Now I am sure some of the girls who go for this stuff have their reasons and maybe make sure the guy knows there are boundaries, but it still seems scary to me. And not like maybe taking a exciting risk that can make sex more thrilling, but like, just scary, as in something I totally avoid, and a type of man I would never be involved with. less
I've had a guy give my ass a little slap during sex, and I guess in the heat of the moment it added to my excitement. But I could never just be like, "oh! spank me!" so it that sense I could not even imagine wanting my butt beaten with a chain! That would not only hurt like hell it would cause serious damage!
Honestly I can't even imagine being interested in or sexually wanting a man if I knew he WANTED to slap me, or whip me with a chain or whatever-the title of this thread really made me wonder about this
Now I am sure some of the girls who go for this stuff have their reasons and maybe make sure the guy knows there are boundaries, but it still seems scary to me. And not like maybe taking a exciting risk that can make sex more thrilling, but like, just scary, as in something I totally avoid, and a type of man I would never be involved with. less
Some people who use small chains in sensory play don't actually use them for impact, but for tickling, teasing and dragging across the skin.
There are a good number of kinksters and D/s and M/s couples and players on Eden. Read and learn. It may not be your thing, and that's fine. Everyone is entitled to what turns them on or off. But, many people enjoy the soul melding effects of certain types of B&D and/or S&M play.
I know personally, nothing turns me on like a Dominant man.
05/11/2011
no thank you
05/12/2011
I think that would probably go beyond my limits.
05/13/2011
I like a good spanking and some welts occasionally but this seems too far out of my comfort zone.
05/17/2011
I'm not sure I'm masochistic enough to handle that. *flinch*
05/17/2011
Awesome idea.
05/17/2011
I have been looking for one for quite awhile. Not really for impact play though, but more for temperature play and I suppose maybe some really "light" impact play.
05/17/2011
That sounds like too much pain for me. I'm good with leather.
05/17/2011
No, but that sounds like it would be fun to try at least once.
05/18/2011
Noooo! I would not be turned on by that. My partner would not be turned on by whipping me with something so harsh. That's just too extreme for our taste. We don't get off to hurting each other or pretending to hurt each other. Othre spanking toys are more for us.
05/18/2011
Noooo! I would not be turned on by that. My partner would not be turned on by whipping me with something so harsh. That's just too extreme for our taste. We don't get off to hurting each other or pretending to hurt each other. Othre spanking toys are more for us.
05/18/2011
I did... once
06/04/2011
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Not yet, no. Curious about it, given my lover's fondness for chains. Though I think he'd use them differently.
06/04/2011
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Well said. I've used chains before for various affects, and whipping is only one option. In itself there are so many methods and degrees of impact that it doesn't always have to be considered extreme.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
People involved in impact play nearly always DO have boundaries or what are called "Hard Limits." When one talks to one's Dom(me) one discusses things one likes, things may want to try and also things one simply won't or can't
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People involved in impact play nearly always DO have boundaries or what are called "Hard Limits." When one talks to one's Dom(me) one discusses things one likes, things may want to try and also things one simply won't or can't do, the latter is the "Hard Limit." Limits may also change as the relationship progresses or when one is with different people, depending on the trust level. We also have something called a "Safe Word" which either sub or Dom(me) can use to stop or slow down the play if either is uncomfortable or thinks things need to be re-evaluated.
Some people who use small chains in sensory play don't actually use them for impact, but for tickling, teasing and dragging across the skin.
There are a good number of kinksters and D/s and M/s couples and players on Eden. Read and learn. It may not be your thing, and that's fine. Everyone is entitled to what turns them on or off. But, many people enjoy the soul melding effects of certain types of B&D and/or S&M play.
I know personally, nothing turns me on like a Dominant man. less
Some people who use small chains in sensory play don't actually use them for impact, but for tickling, teasing and dragging across the skin.
There are a good number of kinksters and D/s and M/s couples and players on Eden. Read and learn. It may not be your thing, and that's fine. Everyone is entitled to what turns them on or off. But, many people enjoy the soul melding effects of certain types of B&D and/or S&M play.
I know personally, nothing turns me on like a Dominant man. less
06/04/2011