Condoms love or hate?

Contributor: BuckeyeMan BuckeyeMan
I hate condom's that is why I'm glad I'm married and don't have to worry about it.
02/17/2011
Contributor: Happy Camper Happy Camper
I seem to actually prefer condoms. I enjoy the sex more.

It goes beyond safety and has to do with the peace of mind I get when my partner and I are using them. I also find that lubed condoms help without being messy. I'll be honest, my partner and I are a little lazy when it comes to lube during sex, but if we didn't use lubed condoms I'm not sure we could get away with it as happily.
02/17/2011
Contributor: RammaJamma RammaJamma
I hated them until we started using Crown "Skinless Skin" condoms. They're the best we've found. Anything else pales in comparison.

We had to switch back to Trojans when we ran out of our Crown's one time, it was so bad I had to make him stop.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Scarlette Scarlette
Safety reasons, most definitely. If Im on birth control, we're in a serious relationship, and we're both tested negative for any nasty STD's then the condoms stop.

I just love the feel of a man with nothing on him!
03/05/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I dont like condoms and neither does my husband. We used them the first few times when we 1st started having sex but we stopped and havent used them since. Right now we arent worried about protection
03/06/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I will ALWAYS be safe... but The Husband and I never wear one. We are fluid bonded.
03/06/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
Hate them, but for safety reasons, use them with any lady except my Primary (Poly relationship). She is on the pill and I am fixed so no worries about babies. She uses them with anyone else for safety and birth control reasons.
03/30/2011
Contributor: idunshire idunshire
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Originally posted by RammaJamma
I hated them until we started using Crown "Skinless Skin" condoms. They're the best we've found. Anything else pales in comparison.

We had to switch back to Trojans when we ran out of our Crown's one time, it was so bad I had to make him stop.
I love Crown!!! We buy them in bulk online because they're so amazing (and cheap).



I don't understand all the condom hate here! Maybe it's the ease of mind since it's been drilled into my head HAVE SEX WITH A CONDOM, but I've never been bothered.
03/30/2011
Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
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Originally posted by sugarOne
Do you girls enjoy having a man that wears condoms or do you just do it for safety reasons?
Good question
03/31/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
all about Saftey
03/31/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I actually don't mind condoms, but don't use them as I only have sex in a dedicated relationship, but back in my single days it was every time. Although I did use them after my kids were born while breastfeeding was going on as she had been off the pill and didn't want to mess with it while she was dealing with a newborn.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Ratito Ratito
I don't like, but it is necessary
04/27/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Hate them (and think I may be allergic to most of em'.), but if not with a long-term & trusted partner, they have to be used.
04/28/2011
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
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Originally posted by RubenesqueAna
I loathe condoms. I hate how they feel, I hate the loss of intimacy, and they seem to dry me up a bit, which annoys me as I hate lubricant. Plus I like tasting my own juices on a penis and I refuse to stick a condom-clad penis in my mouth. Bah.
I completely feel you on this. Plus, it almost kills the mood.
04/28/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Not a fan. I'm in a monogamous relationship and on BC so luckily, I don't have to worry about using them.
04/28/2011
Contributor: RomeroB RomeroB
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
Do you girls enjoy having a man that wears condoms or do you just do it for safety reasons?
We dont use any. We have been together 12years. We used them shortly after our son was born. But once I got my iud we havent used any since.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Brianna91 Brianna91
I don't like how they feel in my pussy or my ass. And I do like cum. So I voted NO I hate them
04/28/2011
Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
Hate them but I am married and trying, so we don't need em.
04/28/2011
Contributor: Miss Zombie Miss Zombie
I hate them, but we use them for birth control only.

They suck in so many ways. I love the intimacy of skin-to-skin, but it just isn't time for a baby.

SOON though!
04/28/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I'm not a fan of them, but given that I'm polyamorous and have more than one male lover, it's a necessity. I'm only fluid bonded with my Sir and one other at the moment.
04/29/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
I hate them with a passion, mainly because I am allergic to the spermicide on them, I have tried lamb skin and polyurethane ones but they feel so thick you lose sensation.



I only use condoms for safety reasons which discounts lamb skin ones since they do not prevent STD's. Thankfully if I am making love with my husband I don't need to use anything at all.
04/29/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I hate them, you can definitely feel the difference. For safety reasons they're great, but I'm happy that my husband and I don't have to worry about that anymore.
04/29/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
If it wasn't about contraception I wouldn't wear them, but it's not that simple. I used to haave MANY problems with them, sometime it just didn't work, I lost it when I had to put it on.. Something has changed. Now I buy them in bulk, give them to friends etc. I find them very good when it comes to cleaning the stuff up, afterwards. It's very convenient. It was a long run testing them and finding the one that feels good. I don't have much against them nowadays, ok it lessens the sensations a bit but it doesn't matter that much. Once the heat gets through I can forget about I even have one on.. It's a mindset guys find very hard to accept and get used to. I'm a guy and I rather wear them and get used to them than to hit my girl's body with hormones. I have it like this: if my girl haven't taken pills yet, I don't ask her to do it. If she wants then ok, but there was even a case when she had the presription but I told her don't buy it.. Just because. My first gf had DVT because of nuvaring so that's why I fear them. In any case I'll be with a new girl and she already taken the pill without problems I'd say forget about condoms. But until then, they are part of my life. Also I wouldn't recommend taking the pill if you don't have sex every other day or daily. It's just not worth it (not the money side, the effect on the body side).
04/30/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
I hate condoms with a passion, but until my wife gets back on bc we're stuck with them. She's not a fan either, but apparently she doesn't dislike them enough to get her to move up her appointment to get a new pill prescription...
05/08/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I don't hate condoms, but I don't like them. My fiancee and I use them so she doesn't get pregnant though.
05/08/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
hate the way they feel , hate the way the smell!
05/09/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
Do you girls enjoy having a man that wears condoms or do you just do it for safety reasons?
my Master hates condoms and that was a big reason for him to get his vasectomy so we didn't have to use them anymore other than with poly partners. I always use a condom with anyone other than Master that I'm with.
05/09/2011
Contributor: uu uu
I like them.
05/09/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Quote:
Originally posted by sugarOne
Do you girls enjoy having a man that wears condoms or do you just do it for safety reasons?
I hate them! i've been with the same partner for almost 7 years so we dont use them! they only come out if something is off with my birthcontrol or whatever.. but if i was to have a new partner, i would agree with using them!

As for my boyfriend, he wouldnt waste the money he HATES them! he becomes this kid when i bring them out, He starts pouting.
05/09/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
Tolerate for safety but don't like them
05/17/2011