I LOVE dirty talk, and recently discovered that I like to be called names like "slut" and "whore" during sex. What's funny is, I'm not slutty at ALL. I'm very committed and have had a limited number of partners. I guess it's part of the fantasy and excitement. Who else likes to be called names?
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I think we may be odd here, but neither my hubby or I likes "dirty talk". Not with each other OR in porn we watch. We both find it a turn off. Neither of us can understand how degrading names for your lover is a turn on??? It makes no sense to us at all. Glad it works for those who enjoy it, but to us it remains a mystery.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
I LOVE dirty talk, and recently discovered that I like to be called names like "slut" and "whore" during sex. What's funny is, I'm not slutty at ALL. I'm very committed and have had a limited number of partners. I
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I LOVE dirty talk, and recently discovered that I like to be called names like "slut" and "whore" during sex. What's funny is, I'm not slutty at ALL. I'm very committed and have had a limited number of partners. I guess it's part of the fantasy and excitement. Who else likes to be called names?
08/21/2011
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This is SUCH a "to each his or her own" subject. Amazing. However, when I read the "I melt" part, about you obviously ENJOYING being called "slut and whore"? Please explain. No kidding. I am completely LOST trying to understand this. I am a woman, and my husband loves me. We enjoy a great sex life and a pretty kinky one at that, I guess (nothing is off limits, between the two of us..at all). I am a very oral gal, I love anal..etc. However, those are not names associated with "nice" things. They are, in my mind, insulting terms. How is it that "you love it so much"? HONEST QUESTION...from one woman to another, please explain what YOU are thinking when he calls you this? I am trying to learn what OTHER woman are thinking here...cause I "just don't get it". Obviously I am in the minority too..as it seems a LOT of woman DO enjoy this.
Originally posted by
Princess-Kayla ♥
I love it so much. He's called me a slut and a whore before, and I melt.
08/21/2011
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Thank you. Glad I am not TOTALLY alone in this. Other woman seem to really be turned on by it, and I completely don't understand it. More then any other thing about human sexuality, this has me totally confused and baffled and I am willing to admit it!
Originally posted by
Screen Door
I don't really feel like that would be a turn on. I like the names like "hon" "honey" the pet names, but being called "slut" "whore" would probably be a complete turn off.
08/21/2011
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May I respond even though I'm not KaylaJJ?
Originally posted by
Bignuf
This is SUCH a "to each his or her own" subject. Amazing. However, when I read the "I melt" part, about you obviously ENJOYING being called "slut and whore"? Please explain. No kidding. I am completely LOST trying to
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This is SUCH a "to each his or her own" subject. Amazing. However, when I read the "I melt" part, about you obviously ENJOYING being called "slut and whore"? Please explain. No kidding. I am completely LOST trying to understand this. I am a woman, and my husband loves me. We enjoy a great sex life and a pretty kinky one at that, I guess (nothing is off limits, between the two of us..at all). I am a very oral gal, I love anal..etc. However, those are not names associated with "nice" things. They are, in my mind, insulting terms. How is it that "you love it so much"? HONEST QUESTION...from one woman to another, please explain what YOU are thinking when he calls you this? I am trying to learn what OTHER woman are thinking here...cause I "just don't get it". Obviously I am in the minority too..as it seems a LOT of woman DO enjoy this.
The best way I can explain it is, when I'm in that "mode" with my husband, I know it's not reality. He would NEVER call me those names in every day life. So I feel like I can trust him enough to play with it during sex. He doesn't mean it and it's just a fantasy, like my fantasy of us being slave and mistress. I do NOT condone any kind of mistreatment of black people (obviously) but the idea is hot to me. Being subordinate really makes me hot, and namecalling can be part of it.
08/21/2011
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I really love it, but to be honest my current partner is one of the first people I've been with who's been on board with doing it and ISN'T creepy about it.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
I LOVE dirty talk, and recently discovered that I like to be called names like "slut" and "whore" during sex. What's funny is, I'm not slutty at ALL. I'm very committed and have had a limited number of partners. I
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I LOVE dirty talk, and recently discovered that I like to be called names like "slut" and "whore" during sex. What's funny is, I'm not slutty at ALL. I'm very committed and have had a limited number of partners. I guess it's part of the fantasy and excitement. Who else likes to be called names?
08/21/2011
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The thing is.. it's not mean at all. It's almost an endearing thing between some D/s couples. Being called his slut is one of the most amazing feelings ever. It's a positive word. If my mom called me a slut.. it'd be mean. It's slut with a different meaning. It's probably the most loving things he could say to me...and now you probably think I'm insane. He's not REALLY calling me a slut like you are thinking. I wish I could explain it better!
Originally posted by
Bignuf
This is SUCH a "to each his or her own" subject. Amazing. However, when I read the "I melt" part, about you obviously ENJOYING being called "slut and whore"? Please explain. No kidding. I am completely LOST trying to
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This is SUCH a "to each his or her own" subject. Amazing. However, when I read the "I melt" part, about you obviously ENJOYING being called "slut and whore"? Please explain. No kidding. I am completely LOST trying to understand this. I am a woman, and my husband loves me. We enjoy a great sex life and a pretty kinky one at that, I guess (nothing is off limits, between the two of us..at all). I am a very oral gal, I love anal..etc. However, those are not names associated with "nice" things. They are, in my mind, insulting terms. How is it that "you love it so much"? HONEST QUESTION...from one woman to another, please explain what YOU are thinking when he calls you this? I am trying to learn what OTHER woman are thinking here...cause I "just don't get it". Obviously I am in the minority too..as it seems a LOT of woman DO enjoy this.
There is also an element of excitement to degradation like that for some people.
08/21/2011
I'm a woman and don't usually like to be called names (except Mistress), but when my male partner is feeling submissive, he loves being called names. He likes being called my slut, whore, bitch, slave, etc. He just really likes being dominated by a strong woman, and he has a thing for humiliation.
We're not full time D/s, and I don't usually call him any names unless it's clear he's in the mood for it.
We're not full time D/s, and I don't usually call him any names unless it's clear he's in the mood for it.
08/31/2011
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I like to be called names sometimes.
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
I LOVE dirty talk, and recently discovered that I like to be called names like "slut" and "whore" during sex. What's funny is, I'm not slutty at ALL. I'm very committed and have had a limited number of partners. I
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I LOVE dirty talk, and recently discovered that I like to be called names like "slut" and "whore" during sex. What's funny is, I'm not slutty at ALL. I'm very committed and have had a limited number of partners. I guess it's part of the fantasy and excitement. Who else likes to be called names?
08/31/2011
