Dominant or Submissive/Male or Female

Contributor: Winifred Winifred
I was just curious how many females vs males are the dominant ones when it comes to BDSM play. Are you a dominant male/female or submissive male/female?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
(Female) Dominant
14  (20%)
(Male) Dominant
9  (13%)
(Female) Submissive
41  (59%)
(Male) Submissive
5  (7%)
Total votes: 69
Poll is closed
11/13/2012
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Contributor: GRL2289 GRL2289
I love being submissive. When my man takes control of sexy time, it gets me really turned on!
11/13/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
I am very submissive.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Kilot Kilot
I switch but I'm primarily top heavy so I went with that option.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
we take turns
11/13/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
Femme and dominant, mostly. But I switch around sometimes.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Winifred
I was just curious how many females vs males are the dominant ones when it comes to BDSM play. Are you a dominant male/female or submissive male/female?
(Female) Submissive
11/13/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Female switch!
11/13/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Male dominant
11/13/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Winifred
I was just curious how many females vs males are the dominant ones when it comes to BDSM play. Are you a dominant male/female or submissive male/female?
I'm not sure, I think it's even.
11/13/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
i'm female and submissive, but a lesbian. i could never submit to a man.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
I'm a female submissive, although I could be dominant for another woman, but never for a man, I like dominant men
11/13/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I'm a female Dominant.
11/14/2012
Contributor: butts butts
No options for us switches?
11/14/2012
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Psst, you missed the switch option. Voted as female dom but I'm a switch really.
11/14/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
We're not into power play, just sadomasochism.
11/14/2012
Contributor: KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
Quote:
Originally posted by Winifred
I was just curious how many females vs males are the dominant ones when it comes to BDSM play. Are you a dominant male/female or submissive male/female?
I love being submissive but there are times that i like to take control =D
11/15/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Female submissive here!
11/15/2012
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
Female and submissive, but only in bed.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Winifred
I was just curious how many females vs males are the dominant ones when it comes to BDSM play. Are you a dominant male/female or submissive male/female?
(Female) Submissive
11/15/2012
Contributor: Nyx (Under the Covers) Nyx (Under the Covers)
Female dominant
11/15/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Winifred
I was just curious how many females vs males are the dominant ones when it comes to BDSM play. Are you a dominant male/female or submissive male/female?
I wouldn't say I'm submissive, but I like having pain inflicted on me
11/16/2012
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
Female and Dominant.
11/16/2012
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
Im a switch on occasion but mostly dom.
11/17/2012
Contributor: kaywhy63 kaywhy63
Quote:
Originally posted by Winifred
I was just curious how many females vs males are the dominant ones when it comes to BDSM play. Are you a dominant male/female or submissive male/female?
Ive been a submissive male for more than 20 years and in a good relation ship but to keep it fun we switch we have differing levels of enjoyment she tends for the soft i harder
11/17/2012
Contributor: Winifred Winifred
I wouldn't say I'm dominant exactly, but I like to tie my man up =] It's so sexy to do whatever I want to him or myself and not let him touch his dick.
11/25/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
I can be either, but I enjoy being submissive the most.
11/25/2012
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
Usually I would call myself I switch, but I prefer to submit. And I can't really call myself a switch in good conscious because I know it's not really dominating I enjoy, it's being a sadist. But then again, I consider those two things to be at the same end of the spectrum... it's just important to me to make a distinction.
11/26/2012
Contributor: Strider Strider
Alllll of the above!
I'm Bi-gender and a switch.
11/29/2012
Contributor: brandi2009 brandi2009
Quote:
Originally posted by Winifred
I was just curious how many females vs males are the dominant ones when it comes to BDSM play. Are you a dominant male/female or submissive male/female?
I love it when a guy takes charge!
05/05/2013