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Doms and Subs in Relationships?

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Contributor: FreedominBondage FreedominBondage
Who's the dominant one in your relationship?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
My boyfriend is the dominant one.
27
My girlfriend is the dominant one.
6
50/50
24
Total votes: 57 (54 voters)
Poll is closed
08/07/2012
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Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
My husband is the dominant one.
08/07/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
I am the dominant with my girlfriend.
08/07/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Depends on what we feel like.
08/07/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Neither of us are especially dominant./
08/07/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
My boyfriend is my dom.
08/07/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
My girlfriend is the Dom.
08/07/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Neither of us. We're not into D/s.
08/07/2012
Contributor: elli elli
We switch off
08/07/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
I'm the dominant and she's the sub
08/08/2012
Contributor: Ouroborean Ouroborean
My partner and I are both non-binary identifying, but he's the sub in our relationship.
08/08/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Quote:
Originally posted by Ouroborean
My partner and I are both non-binary identifying, but he's the sub in our relationship.
Yay non-binary representation! My primary partner is non-binary, as am I, and we're both switches.
08/08/2012
Contributor: Midnightsun327 Midnightsun327
My Husband is the Dom. We are a 24/7 Gorean triad with a second female who is also a slave, like me.
08/08/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
I'm submissive so my bf is the dom.
08/08/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
We are both not dominant haha. It is odd, but works
08/08/2012
Contributor: Phantom2291 Phantom2291
I'm the dom, but she's wanting to be a bit more, o my vote might change to 50/50 eventually
08/08/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
We're not 24/7, but I'm never the sub.
08/09/2012
Contributor: Crimsonia Crimsonia
Quote:
Originally posted by FreedominBondage
Who's the dominant one in your relationship?
My Husband is the Dominant person.
08/09/2012
Contributor: snarknemesis snarknemesis
Sometimes I'd like to be the dominant one though.
08/10/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
i'm in a lesbian D/s relationship. i'm female and my Mistress is, as well.
08/10/2012
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
Im dominate outside of bed and submissive in bed.
08/10/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
about equal
08/10/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I am a switch, so I've been dominant, equal, and a sub. Currently I'm a sub, which I had never been previously.
08/11/2012
Contributor: Kwumii Kwumii
He is usually the dom, but on occasion he likes to switch things up and I don't mind with that!
08/11/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
I am the female and am generally the dominant one.
08/11/2012
Contributor: itismedi itismedi
Quote:
Originally posted by FreedominBondage
Who's the dominant one in your relationship?
My husband is the dominant one. Mr. Boss of Me, Bossy Pants, or Sir (but only if he can hear me)
08/12/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
My boyfriend. He's Daddy.
08/12/2012
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
My husband is the dominant one.
08/12/2012
Contributor: Suzie Suzie
I am submissive, so my hub is Dominant one.
08/13/2012
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
My husband is dominant.
08/13/2012