Gender/Dominance

Contributor: RavenInChains RavenInChains
I have a strange preference. I identify mostly with submissive and I'm female. However I can only be submissive with men. So I do a little bit of switching to a dominant position with other females.
12/09/2012
Contributor: ASpiritedSlut ASpiritedSlut
I am a female dominant, though I sometimes bottom during sex.
12/10/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I am female and I primarily dominate in sex, but my current partner is a dom in our sex, so I sub for him. However, even when I sub, I'm a bratty sub.
12/13/2012
Contributor: FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
Female- I'm a lesbian, and my partner & I are both switches. However, I'm the sub and she's the domme about 80% of the time.
12/16/2012
Contributor: aluminummm aluminummm
femme switch!
12/25/2012
Contributor: samanthas samanthas
Female and...not entirely sure yet. I need to explore more.
12/25/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
female switch with some preference towards submission
12/25/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Male sub
12/25/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
We have talked about playing with D/s, but haven't yet. I really wish my wife were more dominant in the bedroom.
12/26/2012
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
I'm sub most of the time but i like being dom sometimes depends on mood
12/26/2012
Contributor: Andrey2052 Andrey2052
I'm male and a switch.
02/13/2013
Contributor: Aubrey M Aubrey M
I'm female with dominant tendencies, though depending on the partner I might switch. Really depends on who I'm with!
02/13/2013
Contributor: xscorpiox xscorpiox
I'm submissive
02/13/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
I am a female who tends to be more submissive, but I am a switch. Probably a 70/30 split.
02/13/2013
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I'm female and submissive.
02/19/2013
Contributor: SecondStory SecondStory
Genderqueer and switch, although I have a submissive play partner so I tend to be more dominant.
02/24/2013
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
Quote:
Originally posted by Bebela
I'm a good, loving dom most of the time. But I feel like if my bf was more dominant I could be such a good little sub... *sigh*
I'm in the same boat
02/25/2013
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
Quote:
Originally posted by NightKat
I never realized how few males are on Edens until I saw this post! Male submissive, but I'm the main toy provider in my relationship. More boys need to get into getting their partners toys!
Agreed! Good on ya NightKat.
02/25/2013
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
Quote:
Originally posted by MaryExy
Female, I'm a bratty sub. Any fighting or top-like comments you get from me are me trying to get you to show who's boss
>.> and here I thought I was weird for doing this with my boyfriend lol. He doesn't usually get it and it's hard to explain that your trying to goad someone into toping you.
02/25/2013
Contributor: mdnght mdnght
Female switch
02/26/2013
Contributor: Alatariel Surion Alatariel Surion
I'm polygender and while I am *technically* a switch, I have always been drawn toward and have been dominant with all of my partners.
03/04/2013
Contributor: smlove smlove
Quote:
Originally posted by FleurDevereux
I'm curious as to the trend in dominance/ submissiveness between men and women. This is referring to mostly in the bedroom, but please post unique situations and let us know.
I'm more passive to my partner rather than submissive. but I will only sub to her, and she will only sub to me. Otherwise we either dom everybody else that wants it, or we're neutral.
03/04/2013
Contributor: lolisadist lolisadist
Male and I tend to be dominant but once every blue moon the submissive in me comes out to play
03/11/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
I feel like I've seen stereotypes of dommes over guys and guys dom'ing girls. I've also seen poly relationships where it's one guy and multiple girls, or one girl and multiple guys but never girls domme'ing girls, guys dom'ing guys, 1 girl + multiple girls, etc.
03/12/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I'm female and mostly submissive.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Female-definitely a switch
03/18/2013