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Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
There seem to be a ton of the "who wants to tie who up" polls floating around; I've answered two today.

This isn't a discussion about being a dominant, top, switch, submissive, or bottom, but feel free to fill that in a post if you'd like to add a little more to your answer.

I know I'm going to leave some level out, but it will be by mistake, and feel free to add it via post.

So... How kinky are you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm not.
7
I'm interested but I haven't taken any steps to do anything about it.
25
Interested - haven't told my partner
9
My partner and I play - but only a little in the bedroom
120
I/ I & my partner and I belong to a local community and we're learning
24
I'm answering my own questions - To an extent :)
41
I'm pretty sure I know what I'm doing, I'm at a good place. I still need to learn more.
112
I've taught some of my craft to others - passed down knowledge
43
I know what the fuck I'm doing.
50
Total votes: 431 (292 voters)
Poll is closed
02/13/2012
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Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I like to think I'm pretty kinky
02/13/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I like to think I'm pretty kinky
get it, girl
02/13/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I consider myself slightly kinky.
02/13/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
There seem to be a ton of the "who wants to tie who up" polls floating around; I've answered two today.

This isn't a discussion about being a dominant, top, switch, submissive, or bottom, but feel free to fill that in a post ... more
Definitely some kink, but only in the bedroom
02/13/2012
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
My partners and I are all very active in the scene, and we indulge in some forms of edgy play. I know what the fuck I'm doing.
02/13/2012
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
I can get pretty kinky. I'll try anything- well almost anything lol
02/13/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I'm a little kinky in the bedroom. I don't want a 24/7 thing or anything like that.
And I think I know what I'm doing. I still learn a few things, but I've got it down for the most part.
02/13/2012
Contributor: her angelness her angelness
i'm up for almost anything.
02/13/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
we play hard in the bedroom, but not in the community
02/13/2012
Contributor: elli elli
Pretty kinky, but I'm not part of the community.
02/13/2012
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
Pretty kinky with my hubby. He corrupted me.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
There seem to be a ton of the "who wants to tie who up" polls floating around; I've answered two today.

This isn't a discussion about being a dominant, top, switch, submissive, or bottom, but feel free to fill that in a post ... more
We are both kinky, however everyday we seem too get that much kinkier. It's not a bad thing.
02/14/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Quote:
Originally posted by Wildchild
We are both kinky, however everyday we seem too get that much kinkier. It's not a bad thing.
It's not a bad thing at all.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
As long as you play safe, it's all about varying degrees of kink and what gets you mileage.
02/14/2012
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Well, it really depends on what you're considering "kinky." What's the yard stick here? I mean, what may be personally kinky for me may seem like vanilla sex to somebody else.
02/14/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
Medium kinky, but the problem with kinky is it a totally variant word. What one person may see as kinky another may do as an everyday act. What i perceive as kinky could be totally different then what you see.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Amelia Stone Amelia Stone
Okay so this is a hard one for me. See William and I play a little bit. I want to try some more things but he seems to get weirded out when I look online for information. Whenever I bring things up in bed then he's all for it but it's like learning about things creeps him out (Which is William I mean all gungho! ... but no map) so I've been feeling nervous about trying new things.
02/14/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
I voted a few of these answers as I'm less experienced than my partner(s) are/have been.
I do teach some as I'm part of my Husband/Dom's demos on shibari. Mostly I instruct those being tied up that they will have to have patience and how not to kill themselves in a panic.
I love the community around BDSM, or at least the people we have met so far.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by sweetiejo
Medium kinky, but the problem with kinky is it a totally variant word. What one person may see as kinky another may do as an everyday act. What i perceive as kinky could be totally different then what you see.
Ditto, and agreed. I consider myself "medium" as well.
02/14/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
I'm open-minded.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Pinkie Pie Pinkie Pie
I'm kinky, but I haven't told my partner how much.
02/15/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm not that kinky, but I'm more kinky than my husband.
02/15/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
There seem to be a ton of the "who wants to tie who up" polls floating around; I've answered two today.

This isn't a discussion about being a dominant, top, switch, submissive, or bottom, but feel free to fill that in a post ... more
. I still need to learn more.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Bebela Bebela
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
There seem to be a ton of the "who wants to tie who up" polls floating around; I've answered two today.

This isn't a discussion about being a dominant, top, switch, submissive, or bottom, but feel free to fill that in a post ... more
I feel I may be a lot kinkier than my partner so I'm still in a bubble of curiosity
02/15/2012
Contributor: DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
Depends but i'm pretty kinky
02/15/2012
Contributor: Nerdydyke Nerdydyke
I'm pretty kinky, but relatively inexperienced since I'm rather new to the scene. I do tend to try a lot of things, and my friends do introduce me to a lot of things pretty often.
02/16/2012
Contributor: MAy86 MAy86
I want to get more into the BDSM, but my boyfriend does not. He is willing to handcuff me, but that is about it. I asked him about gags and he said I was going to far with the dominatrix stuff. So what if I want to me manhandled. If he doesn't step it up. I might have to find some one who will.
02/17/2012
Contributor: Mistress Jezebel Mistress Jezebel
My partner and I are both really kinky.
02/17/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
I find the 'scene' interesting, but also a lot to take in, and possibly not everything I want (but a neat place to visit).
02/17/2012