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Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
How would you define yourself?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Sub
30  (29%)
Dom
11  (11%)
Top
1  (1%)
Bottom
1  (1%)
Switch
36  (35%)
None of the above
25  (24%)
Total votes: 104
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
definitely sub although I would like to explore what that entails some more
07/12/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I am myself, there is no Sub or Dom in my dictionary.
07/12/2012
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
None of the above.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
im not a labels kind of gal
07/12/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Myself, but closest to dom
07/13/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I think definitions can be silly. They can confine, but they can also make play a bit easier. I like to switch. Which is think can be good to know.
07/13/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
How would you define yourself?
Most likely sub.
07/13/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I'm a masochist.
07/13/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
None of the above.
07/13/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
Dom. I enjoy bottoming from time to time, but I do not enjoy submission.
07/13/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
How would you define yourself?
can go either way depending on mood
07/13/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
top is good
07/13/2012
Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
Most of the time I self identify as a heavy bottom...but with my most recent partner I've been topping a bit. Switching things up can be fun.
07/13/2012
Contributor: authorzero authorzero
I'm definitely more of a Dom.
07/13/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
none of the above
07/13/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
selective switch?
07/14/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
How would you define yourself?
I'd say switch because although my men are mostly submissive, I'm tired of being in charge all the time.
07/15/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
Nada... I'm just there and do whatever.
07/15/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
How would you define yourself?
A switch.
07/15/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I'll switch but i prefer being a sub
07/16/2012
Contributor: Gamotria Gamotria
Dom
07/16/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
i selected none of the above because i identify as a "sub" with a lower case "s" and your list only includes "Sub".
07/16/2012
Contributor: Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
Dom, when we are out in public we are equal. In the house though, I am controlling.
07/16/2012
Contributor: pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
super subbie, i love my Sir!
07/16/2012
Contributor: NM47 NM47
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
How would you define yourself?
I can be a switch, top to bottom depending. Not really a dom or sub, though given the right situation, I could probably switch in that respect as well.
07/19/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
just kinky!
07/20/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
Switch, but depending on who I'm with I'll claim the title of sub or dom.
07/21/2012
Contributor: Calypso05 Calypso05
Definitely sub
07/22/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'd define myself as kinky switch depending on our moods.
07/22/2012