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Contributor: Getalife7 Getalife7
I've heard some odd ones, what is your safe word or phrase?
02/20/2013
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Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
My safe word is banana. I originally started using it as a spinoff from a skit that I had watched once, back in the day!
02/22/2013
Contributor: Getalife7 Getalife7
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Originally posted by Mitzuki
My safe word is banana. I originally started using it as a spinoff from a skit that I had watched once, back in the day!
Some how ours ended up being poptarts lol
02/23/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
We haven't really made an official safe word, but I've told him it's lawsuit. We mostly just go with if I'm freaking out or screaming too much, he needs to take it down a notch.
02/23/2013
Contributor: Sir Sir
I do not generally have safe words with people. They are a false sense of security. I do have safe signals, however, and I'm generally not a jerk, so I can tell when someone's ready to stop. They merely need to say "No, I'm done," and I'll get the picture, even in some of my more extreme play.

Another thing that I've told people to do is grab my leg. It is a good safe signal because usually, I'm not being touched during a session.
02/23/2013
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
Quote:
Originally posted by Getalife7
Some how ours ended up being poptarts lol
Poptarts! Oh gosh I love totally random safewords!!
02/24/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by Getalife7
I've heard some odd ones, what is your safe word or phrase?
don't have one. ooops! :X
02/25/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Zebra. lmao
02/25/2013
Contributor: Devilish Asian Devilish Asian
Pumpkin
03/01/2013
Contributor: His scarlett His scarlett
Our safeword is "Paris".

Because that was where we were supposed to go on honeymoon, and six years after the wedding we still haven't managed to go on honeymoon! We plan it for our tenth anniversary now.
03/02/2013
Contributor: jennifur77 jennifur77
The boring "yellow/red"
03/03/2013
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
Daffodils
03/04/2013
Contributor: bronzelotus bronzelotus
Pineapple. (We love Psych.)
03/05/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
chocolade pudding
03/06/2013
Contributor: A Good Girl A Good Girl
Angels
03/08/2013
Contributor: Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
Quote:
Originally posted by Getalife7
I've heard some odd ones, what is your safe word or phrase?
stop! its as simple as that though he usually knows when to slow down or ease up
03/08/2013
Contributor: lolisadist lolisadist
We usually make up a new one every week since it's usually for humor purposes. It ranges from anything from food names to wild animals. But that's just for the light stuff so we never use them. Our official safe word is "Zero"
03/09/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
kiwi
03/09/2013
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
In our community we use colors. Green- go, Yellow- hold on/switch toys, Red- stop the scene. However, at our party the other day I said pink for harder
03/20/2013
Contributor: Teddixox Teddixox
We tend to just make signals, I'll tap him on the leg rapidly a few times and he gets it. He's pretty much game for anything and we talk and re-evaluate our limits often.
04/01/2013
Contributor: ChloStick ChloStick
It varies between super heros. I'm fond of Hulk, personally.
05/25/2013
Contributor: lilswitch lilswitch
Haven't played in real life yet but I was talking to someone a while ago and he made me pick one for when we do meet. I picked "amygdala". I learned in psych class that it's the fear center so I thought it was fitting.
05/26/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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We have the word "Bork" picked out, but we've never actually used it and likely never will. It arose as a joke, but if we ever actually did need one, we both know to take it seriously.
05/26/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
We use "pineapples." However, it tends to get used in more non-sexual situations than anything. We tend to wrestle a lot when we're just messing around and if he's pinning me down and tickling me, I'll yell "pineapples" as my way of tapping out.

In sexual situations, usually just saying "ouch" or "stop" is enough. He knows me well enough to know when I'm being serious and when I'm just saying "no" or "ouch" in a joking way.
05/26/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
We use our safe word "peanut butter" only if needed. Normally the "don't be a jerk" does enough.
05/30/2013
Contributor: GingerSpice GingerSpice
"enough" lol
05/30/2013
Contributor: JRabbits JRabbits
"triple ripple ice cream".... or maybe it was "triple ripple fudge ice cream."

Believe it or not I was given that safe word before getting a tattoo. It had nothing to do with sex/play, lol.
06/09/2013
Contributor: SickOnSin SickOnSin
Quote:
Originally posted by Mitzuki
My safe word is banana. I originally started using it as a spinoff from a skit that I had watched once, back in the day!
Bambi. Rough Cut by Mari Carr. It's from there. I totally get the taking it from something else.
06/12/2013
Contributor: pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
Pineapple...spur of the moment pic
06/13/2013
Contributor: FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
My safe word is safe word.
06/20/2013