Sex Fact: Five Types of Dominant Women

Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I don't really fit any of those roles. I think I'm more of a prison warden.
10/10/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by Beck
I choice Goddess, but I am all except the nursemaid. Hey, I have to change enough diapered ass with two babies.
I mean *I choose
10/10/2011
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
I'd say the governess is the sexiest.
10/10/2011
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
I'd say I'm a combination of Goddess and Amazon tbh. I couldn't really categorize myself as only one.
10/10/2011
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I'm a cross between Governess and Goddess, with a sprinkling of sensual dom in there.
10/10/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I'm a Valkyrie - mix between Amazon, Goddess, and Queen (Also, I'm of Scandinavian descent )
10/11/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Kayla
In “The Mistress Manual”, the author describes five different types of Dominant women. Each type of woman has their own style of domination. They are:
Nursemaid – Tends to tease and chastise her diapered partner
Governess – Tends to spank and ... more
I like Goddess personally.
10/20/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I dominate very sparingly, but when I do it tends to go along the lines of Goddess It sure works for me!
10/20/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Honestly, none of these fit my style of "dominance." I don't really have a particular style I guess. I demand things because he likes it and it's fun, but m demands are in the sexual department. Lol. We definitely don't fit the sissy, nursemaid, etc. descriptions. Neither of us enjoy acting like a baby while the other is the "keeper" or guardian. I'm always the spankee and LOVE it, but we don't take it so far as to him pretending to be a parent.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Hibangel Hibangel
I'm a Goddess whos partner was raised by a Queen. *sigh* Tough retraining him..
10/20/2011
Contributor: DaniLynRose DaniLynRose
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Originally posted by carenautilus
Dunno, I'm not really sure there's a need to categorize dominance like that. What's more, I'm not sure it's helpful. All of those sound like me, or at least speak to some of me. These kinds of dominance do not exist in their own ... more
I agree.
10/20/2011
Contributor: DaniLynRose DaniLynRose
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Originally posted by carenautilus
Dunno, I'm not really sure there's a need to categorize dominance like that. What's more, I'm not sure it's helpful. All of those sound like me, or at least speak to some of me. These kinds of dominance do not exist in their own ... more
I agree..do we really need to be put in small boxes? I like to be free to just be.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
not a big fan of any of them
10/20/2011
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
None of the above. Meh.
10/20/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
I feel like I am mostly a Goddess then, but also have aspects of others.
10/31/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
i'm definitely a Goddess...with a little bit of Amazon
11/19/2011
Contributor: Cherry21 Cherry21
none of those really. i dont fit in
11/20/2011
Contributor: GoneBabyGone GoneBabyGone
Everything but nursemaid really, but generally I cycle between Goddess and Amazon.

However with a submissive male (mine is switch) I tend to act more like a queen.
12/05/2011
Contributor: solita solita
I completely agree that saying that there are only five types of dominant women is useless at best and harmful at worst. There are as many types of dominance as there are dominant people! If I had to put a word to what I am, I'm a Princess. I'm a bossy, spoiled little girl who likes hurting people a widdle too much.
12/29/2011
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
My dominant side is a bit more fluid, depending on the sub. I have been the goddess with some guys, governess with others, and on rare occasions, the Amazon or queen with others. Perhaps the nursemaid as well, but without the diapering bit. That doesn't work for me.
12/29/2011
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
I chose Goddess but can be a Queen sometimes too
12/29/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
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Originally posted by Angelica
A little mix of all of the above, depending. I am a switch though so I am not always in dom mode :]
Same here
12/29/2011
Contributor: BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
I strive just to consistently become a Queen! LOL Practice, practice, practice.
12/29/2011
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
I'm switch but when I'm in the mood to be the dominant one I'd have to say I'm a cross between "Goddess" and "Nursemaid"
..actually my bf started calling me his Goddess even before we ever discussed anything kinky. 0_o
Kinda...odd.
12/30/2011
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
I think the one I'm closest to is Amazon. I like to be ACTIVELY dominant, not just sitting there and demanding things.
12/30/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
None of those really fit my Dominant side, actually. ^^; I have had mine described as a sadistic little girl who shouldn't be given pretty dolls to play with... ;]
12/31/2011
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
I've read this before. I own the book. Not really sure if I fit into any of these.
01/13/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
I didn't realize you could box in doms. I guess I'm a mix of all of them, especially nursemaid and goddess.
02/17/2012
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
I guess I'd say Goddess...but I'm really not all that dominant.
02/17/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
In “The Mistress Manual”, the author describes five different types of Dominant women. Each type of woman has their own style of domination. They are:
Nursemaid – Tends to tease and chastise her diapered partner
Governess – Tends to spank and ... more
If I had to choose, I'd probably be a hybrid of Governess / Amazon.
03/07/2012