My SO will be buying her first harness soon and I was looking for suggestions as to what dildo we should get. I'm looking for something generally non-realistic (although something slightly realistic like the Mistress is fine) and around 1.5" (maybe up to 1.75") in diameter. Thanks in advance for any help you can give! I'm really looking forward to this!
Feelings about feeldoes? I'm thinking about getting a Feeldoe or a Share just for fun. My partner isn't into pegging but sometimes I just wish I had a penis (hehe). Has...
Rode on top my first time during pegging, AMAZING! Honestly it was one of the best orgasms I've ever had. If you've never tried this before please do it! We used a Spareparts harness and a Tantus Buck.
Liberator shapes for anal/pegging I'm interested in the possibility of using a Liberator shape for anal sex/pegging and wanted to see what the EF community thought. My initial thought.
Do you use a feeldoe without a harness? We have never used a harness with our for pegging and it works great for us. Most reviews and post we find on the feeldo express the need for a...
My SO will be buying her first harness soon and I was looking for suggestions as to what dildo we should get. I'm looking for something generally non-realistic (although something slightly realistic like the Mistress is fine) and around 1.5"
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My SO will be buying her first harness soon and I was looking for suggestions as to what dildo we should get. I'm looking for something generally non-realistic (although something slightly realistic like the Mistress is fine) and around 1.5" (maybe up to 1.75") in diameter. Thanks in advance for any help you can give! I'm really looking forward to this!
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My wife pegs me about once a week. It is fantastic for both of us. Here is some advice: The maximum diameter dildo that is comfortable for me is 1 3/8 inch, but 7 inches long is fine. Anything larger in diameter hurts even with lots of lube. We tried Vibrating Leo(1 1/2 inch diameter) and I couldn't take it. We love silicone dildos. The Vibrating Mistress(1 3/8 inch by 6 inches) is our favorite. My wife also likes to masturbate with it. Another dildo that we enjoy is Vibrating Leisure(1 1/4 inch diameter and 7 inches long). We also enjoy a double dildo Nexus Jr.
It is important that the harness have a pocket for a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. We use Buzz Me Tender and Bend Over Beginner harnesses.
Our favorite position is with me on my back with my legs drawn up - that way I can really take in the max length. Not a fan of girth though, and this position isn’t good for bulky dildos. Also, in this position, she can easily reach my penis for a handjob.
For the best prostate stimulation get one with a curve in it. Three nice ones are the Tantus Curve, Comet or G-Spot (the last two are the same, just different colors). For a first toy don't get anything with much texture.
When you do get one I'd say do make sure it's 1.5" diameter or bigger and 6-7" insertable length (remember that it's not all going inside, there's about an inch or more of space between your bodies during use). Wider toys are stiffer and find the prostate better, and longer toys don't fall out during thrusting.
If you like the Mistress, you might like the Raquel. It's Vixskin, which is a wonderful material, is non-realistic, has a nice curve, and it's 1 5/8" in diameter and over 7" insertable. Having tried many different materials now, Vixskin is hands-down our favorite.
My new favorite is the Amor. And we are currently using The Heavey duty leather harness. I like a little smaller dildos than the other people on here though.
My SO will be buying her first harness soon and I was looking for suggestions as to what dildo we should get. I'm looking for something generally non-realistic (although something slightly realistic like the Mistress is fine) and around 1.5"
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My SO will be buying her first harness soon and I was looking for suggestions as to what dildo we should get. I'm looking for something generally non-realistic (although something slightly realistic like the Mistress is fine) and around 1.5" (maybe up to 1.75") in diameter. Thanks in advance for any help you can give! I'm really looking forward to this!
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Lux fetish is reasonably priced <40 with a leather harness that actually stays in place when thrusting. Dildo is similar to a Tantus and so satisfying. It is around 1.75 " at the head but with some warm up it will slide it in easily.
My new favorite is the Amor. And we are currently using The Heavey duty leather harness. I like a little smaller dildos than the other people on here though.
You use the Amor anally? The Fun Factory toy? I adore mine vaginally, but its grippy micro-texture made me think it would be too rough for anal.
And yes, those of us that like shorter and/or slimmer toys seem to be the minority!
John444
