Hi all,

New user to this forum. We're a straight couple into pegging, and are looking for some harness help for our double-ended dildo, the Nexus Sr (link). For our single-ended dildo, Tantus Curve (link), we are using a corsette harness like this one link

While this works well and looks sexy on her, it does not do well on the double-ended Nexus. We're looking for a harness which would look nice on her, yet provide a solid grip on the dildo to where should could get really into it without worrying the dildo may pop out, or that the angle doesn't feel right. When she gets going, I want her to be able to give it as hard as she wants.

From many reviews I have been reading, it seems like the SpareParts Joque (link) would be a good fit, as it would sit lower on her hips. Since it's just fabric with a few straps, just curious for any experiences on this. Does it really hold double-ended dildoes well in place?
I noticed the SpareParts Sasha (link) this week, which also looks incredibly sexy. Would this be a similar harness and a similar experience compared to the joque? One is listed as a double-ended harness, the other as a panty-style harness.

Just looking for some personal experiences and hope we can find a harness that would work well for the toys mentioned. If other harnesses would be recommended for our purposes, please let us know.

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We have both the Joque and the Nexus Sr. and they work fine together. We don't have the Sasha so I can't really comment, but I would imagine it would also work. Because the O rings in these harnesses are covered in cloth, it can be a little tricky getting the dildo in. It takes a few minutes to wiggle it through and in place. The other drawback for me is that there is no access to her privates. My personal preference is the Vegan Commando, and my wife currently prefers the RodeOh in terms of comfort. less

The Joque holds the dildos in place extremely well, especially dildos close to the 2 inch diameter range, the "O-Ring" is placed in a great manner where it will stay in place, helping hold the Dildo in it's place. The Sasha looks extremely sexy, but I would think that the Joque would hold the dildo in place better as it looks like there are more straps to hold everything in place. less

I don't know that the Sasha would work well for this. I think it -could- but it would be pretty awkward. It runs pretty small, so there's REALLY not a lot of room in there for a double ended dildo--unless you purposely ordered up 2-3 sizes (no exaggeration). The fabric that sits against the skin on the inside can be moved out of the way, but this design is so all-encompassing that you have absolutely no wiggle room if the same doesn't natural work with your body IN the harness. Finally, the O-ring isn't adjustable in any way and it's pretty stiff. 1.5" dildo is going to be your perfect size, so if you want bigger or larger, I'd suggest going with something else. Although I've never used a double ended dildo in a harness, I think it would be easier with adjustable straps. less