I am gearing up to buy my very first harness and I am torn about which harness I want to purchase.
The SpareParts Joque looks super comfortable and will definitely hold all the dildos I currently own and am interested in purchasing for the future. But the fetishist craves leather and wishes the balls of realistic dildos could be on the outside.
The Jaguar leather looks supreme and it appears to be one of the better harnesses for pear shaped girls, who might be interested in letting the straps scoop up over the hips. But I hear the snaps can be a hassle and I worry about pinching the balls on realistic dildos if I sit it behind the leather.
The Commando I would buy in a heart beat if it weren't for the latigo leather and the shedding. It's minimalist and it looks like it can accommodate just about anything. But alas, it's not the luxurious leather that the jaguar is made of.
What's a girl to do? Which one would you prefer and how do these pros and cons weight out in your mind?