What is the best Strap-on Harness?

Contributor: Pegaholics Pegaholics 09/16/2011

I'm wondering if anyone thinks there is a better harness than the Joque Double Strap Harness? If so, which one is better and why? I'm always open to new toys!

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Contributor: Pegaholics Pegaholics
I want to have full control when I'm taking my man's ass. Which one works the best?
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Sir , Ghost , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , stars , pinkcupcakes , potstickers , zracer , ToyBoy , dv8 , Breas , Howells , Paladin Fantasys , The Curious Couple , -BillD , carenautilus , Jon S , stlouisxxx , Kayla , Diabolical Kitty , toxie m , Mew , Cherrylane , Katastophy , eeep , Midway through , PassionCpl , Bignuf , pleasurehunter , Jammin14580 , HannahPanda , NightKat , lcl169 , Anjulie , Funtastic , Liz2 , Graniteal , Apirka , xGOLDx , smashthepatriarchy , fufucat , 425shark , LavenderSkies , Caus , EvilHomer , Various , Jake'n'bake , DreamWolf , True Pleasures , hall5885 , mmmmm , Rey , unfulfilled , animepanda89 , mpfm , BlooJay , Bittenflame , Falsepast , Dixiemomma , pestilence , Lovely Jubblies , Zandrock , brevado , JackNit , Stinkytofu10 , Ganconagh , SecretKinksters , Missmarc , padmeamidala , reyna(: , sexxxkitten , Dreaus , deltalima , Ouroborean , Melan!e , Mikemanz , damnbul12 , hhh , lovebites , Andrew1992 , PropertyOfPotter , no longer here , tunacan75 , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , wildshores , spiced , KeroWolf , kdlt
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Rawhide , kawigrl , cheesewizz , theavocadopit , Robespierrethecat , Cat E.
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Beck , LoveBug721
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bibeatrice
1  (1%)
Total votes: 96
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Of those probably the Jocque. Wonder Woman is nice, but a bit stiff.
09/16/2011
Contributor: Paladin Fantasys Paladin Fantasys
I answered Joque, but we have a blue one (hers) and a pink one (mine). She pegs me and I give her uninterrupted, stay hard as long as necessary intercourse.
09/16/2011
Contributor: Paladin Fantasys Paladin Fantasys
Oh yeah, the form 2 clitoral hugger works great in the Joque pouch for stimulating my penis while vaginally "pegging" her. Her pink Joque holds the O2 Revolution, Vixskin Outlaw, and Tantus Curve equally as firm. My blue Joque easily handles the Vixskin Goodfella.
09/16/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
The Joque is the best in terms of construction and newbie friendliness IMHO.
09/18/2011
Contributor: Pegaholics Pegaholics
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Originally posted by ScottA
Of those probably the Jocque. Wonder Woman is nice, but a bit stiff.
We've always wanted to try the Wonder Woman. Despite being stiff, would you recommend it?
09/18/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Out of the group you gave, I would go with the Wonder Woman. I've known them to be plenty flexible. Adjustable and easy to clean as well. And it looks sexy as hell.

Don't see any leather harnesses on there... are you ruling them out for a reason? Leather is my ideal material for a harness: strong, sexy, and only gets better with age.

I really don't get the Joque's popularity, besides the fact that it was one of the earliest harnesses on the market. Yes, it is well built and comfy, but plenty of harnesses are well built and comfy for way under $100. In my opinion, it is way overpriced (it's not like nylon and velcro cost all that much) and the overall look is bulky and a dealbreaker for me. Plus I am way skeptical that the pouch is going to stand the test of time- more likely it's gonna stretch out like a swimsuit. Give me a nice O-ring anyday.
09/30/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Rawhide
Out of the group you gave, I would go with the Wonder Woman. I've known them to be plenty flexible. Adjustable and easy to clean as well. And it looks sexy as hell.

Don't see any leather harnesses on there... are you ruling them out ... more
Joque is actually rather new - Wonder Woman predates it.

I like the Aslan Vegan leather - nice, soft and easy to take care of.
10/02/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
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Originally posted by ScottA
Joque is actually rather new - Wonder Woman predates it.

I like the Aslan Vegan leather - nice, soft and easy to take care of.
Sure, it wasn't the first, but how new is "rather new"? Just curious, because the Joque was one of the first harnesses I ever laid eyes on. Granted, I'm young. Aslan has been around since 1992 but it took longer until they really penetrated the mainstream. It seems like the Joque took less time to become widely available.
10/02/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Scratch that, found it- Joque was introduced in 2005. So about 6 years give or take. Weird though, since the product itself looks like it's from the 80's.

Alright, the Joque is newer than I thought, but I stand by the rest of my critique.
10/02/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Rawhide
Out of the group you gave, I would go with the Wonder Woman. I've known them to be plenty flexible. Adjustable and easy to clean as well. And it looks sexy as hell.

Don't see any leather harnesses on there... are you ruling them out ... more
"Leather is my ideal material for a harness: strong, sexy, and only gets better with age."

I agree. I have checked out many other harnesses in the stores and I prefer leather as well. The Joque didn't feel sturdy to me. I am a bigger gal, and I prefer something that is not stretchy material, if it stretches how stable can it really be?

Aslan makes quality gear and their lifetime warranty is awesome! We love our Pink Candy Minx. It fits perfectly and is incredibly comfortable; I always feel confident when I am wearing it and while it is in use.
10/02/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
My girlfriend loves the Joque. Comfortable & stays put for her to get off while pegging me.
10/08/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I want the shorts.
10/08/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Pegaholics
We've always wanted to try the Wonder Woman. Despite being stiff, would you recommend it?
It's a nice harness, secure, and quite pretty. One note - is can get a bit chilly if you don't warm it up first, but that's true of most harnesses. One thing I did notice is that the two-point O-ring attachment makes it a bit more difficult to put in rings that are much smaller or larger, but for smaller toys you can always feed it through the harness hole.
10/08/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
We have the shorts & it isn't sturdy enough, the dildo goes many different directions. Then we got the Joque & really like it.
10/30/2011
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
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Originally posted by Pegaholics
I want to have full control when I'm taking my man's ass. Which one works the best?
Spare Parts Joque out of those choices
10/30/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
wonder woman or the joque
01/20/2012
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I have both the Spare Parts and Aslan Leather, both the jock type. Both are very stable a feel great as well.
01/26/2012
Contributor: Caus Caus
I'm really interested in the Joque.
03/12/2012
Contributor: Various Various
Joque
03/12/2012
Contributor: theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by Pegaholics
I want to have full control when I'm taking my man's ass. Which one works the best?
05/23/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
the joque, quality is great and it's very sturdy
05/28/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
The joque
06/25/2012
Contributor: Lovely Jubblies Lovely Jubblies
Joque
07/24/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
We have the Aslan Jaguar and it works great.
07/24/2012
Contributor: JackNit JackNit
I want to get one of the spare parts harnesses.
07/24/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Pegaholics
I want to have full control when I'm taking my man's ass. Which one works the best?
SpareParts joque harness (Black)
07/24/2012
Contributor: reyna(: reyna(:
spareparts!
07/24/2012
Contributor: Ouroborean Ouroborean
Joque, all the way.
08/01/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
I'd go with the Spareparts joque!
10/30/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
go with the joque
10/30/2012
Contributor: Andrew1992 Andrew1992
Quote:
Originally posted by Pegaholics
I want to have full control when I'm taking my man's ass. Which one works the best?
The joque is amazing. No questions.
11/05/2012
Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
We enjoy our Joque, but really love our Jaguar.
11/29/2012
Contributor: hanjonatan hanjonatan
i'm looking forward to trying the joque for the first time very soon, but for now we really love the rodeoh.
11/30/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
My wife loves her Joque. It's comfortable, easy to adjust, sexy to look at. To the point of your question, the control is excellent. She says she can almost pretend the toy is a part of her when she's using it in her Joque.

We're also looking into the Minx (not on your list, but made by Aslan, the same company which makes the Wonder Woman) because of the aesthetics and the great reviews we've read on here.
12/04/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
Most of those look the same.
12/04/2012
Contributor: bibeatrice bibeatrice
I like the jaguar the best.
02/25/2013
Contributor: Pegaholics Pegaholics
I want a harness that will give me an orgasm while I take my man's ass! Which harness works the best for this?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Ghost , stars , pinkcupcakes , potstickers , zracer , dv8 , Howells , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , The Curious Couple , Breas , carenautilus , Jon S , ToyBoy , Diabolical Kitty , toxie m , pleasurehunter , lcl169 , Anjulie , Graniteal , Apirka , Jake'n'bake , DreamWolf , hall5885 , unfulfilled , BlooJay , Falsepast , brevado , Stinkytofu10 , SecretKinksters , Missmarc , sexxxkitten , deltalima , Mikemanz , no longer here , wildshores , kdlt , spiced , damnbul12
38
HannahPanda , EvilHomer
2
Total votes: 40 (40 voters)
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Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Pegaholics
I want a harness that will give me an orgasm while I take my man's ass! Which harness works the best for this?
SpareParts joque harness (Black)
07/24/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
spare parts joque
10/30/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
My wife says the Joque is the best for this of the ones she owns. We haven't tried the others yet.
12/04/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Pegaholics
I want a harness that will give me an orgasm while I take my man's ass! Which harness works the best for this?
SpareParts joque harness
02/25/2013
Contributor: Pegaholics Pegaholics
All things considered, which strap-on harness is best for pegging action?
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Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by Pegaholics
All things considered, which strap-on harness is best for pegging action?
Buzz Me Tender. Has two vibrators that are just right for clitoris.
09/18/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
My Spareparts Joque - hands down. It works fantastically, hugs my curves perfectly, and is so comfy!
10/08/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I want to try the new RideOH
10/08/2011
Contributor: lcl169 lcl169
I love my Spareparts Joque, and it comes with two little pouches on the inside (above and below the o-ring) for bullet vibes!
01/20/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Aslan Jaguar.
07/24/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
I have the joque, and can't say anything bad about it. Owned it for 4 years, and it's always been great!
07/24/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
gotta be the joque
10/30/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
Of the ones we've tried so far, my wife and I vote for the Joque. We may change our opinion after trying the Aslan Minx, but I'll have to get back to you on that!
12/04/2012