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How do I become the supreme Dominatirx?

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Contributor: QueenMother777 QueenMother777
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I've been interested in being a dominant female in the bedroom for a long time, but could never find the a partner who would let me do it. My husband is really secure and thinks it would be fun, but I have no idea where to start. Please give me your suggestions and share your stories with me. Thank you.!
07/28/2012
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Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
1st I would discuss limits with your husband, and don't cross them. Write items down on paper & try them, start slow. Would you 2 be against fem dom? apply make up on him. dress him in your clothes, tie him down and sit on his face. Spankings, slapping, tickling, hair pulling, have him call you mistress and when he doesn't light punishment.
Have a safe word. Let him be the dominate at times and see what he does. Just enjoy it.
07/28/2012
Contributor: 3TLOVER 3TLOVER
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
1st I would discuss limits with your husband, and don't cross them. Write items down on paper & try them, start slow. Would you 2 be against fem dom? apply make up on him. dress him in your clothes, tie him down and sit on his face. ... more
i agree!!!
08/02/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I think you need to discuss what he wants. Having a dom/sub relationship can exist in many forms. Some like bondage. Some like masochistic punishment. Some like financial submission. Some like age play or pet play. A dominatrix ultimately is there to make her sub happy. As is the sub. Just talk about what type of submission you both want him to do.

I would start personally with bondage, some spanking, and maybe a gag.
08/02/2012