Do you prefer being in control only in the bedroom? For most things? Or for everything in life?
                    
                    
                    In Control?
                    03/05/2011
                
				
				
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                        I'm pretty much in control when I am at work, but I like to take turns with control in the bedroom.  I like to be dominant some nights, submissive others
                        
                        
                        03/06/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I am submissive in sexual situations, but for the rest of my life I have to be in control and on top of things.
                        
                        
                        03/06/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I like to switch it up, being in control is great sometimes, but sometimes submission is really great.
                        
                        
                        03/06/2011
			        
			        
                
                        In life: very in control, in the bedroom: very submissive
                        
                        
                        03/10/2011
			        
			        
                
                        We switch it up. In and out of the bedroom.
                        
                        
                        03/11/2011
			        
			        
                
                        During most situations in life, I'm very much in control, but when it comes to BDSM... I'm very much the subbie.
                        
                        
                        03/12/2011
			        
			        
                
                        We share the control in and out of the bedroom.
                        
                        
                        03/20/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I always like to be in control of my main life but sexually, I like a Master to have control!
                        
                        
                        03/21/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I control the house but I prefer he controls the bedroom.
                        
                        
                        04/16/2011
			        
			        
                
                        Voted for my guy.  He gets the final word on practically everything.  Granted, he only brings this up when he has an objection.  He's less controlling out of the bedroom, but still is the dominant one.
                        
                        
                        04/17/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I like being in control of most things in life in general. I'm a bit of a control freak.  But in the bedroom, I usually like it better when my man takes control. Of course, I like to reverse the roles, but I enjoy it more when he's more aggressive and I pretty much just let him do whatever he wants.
                        
                        
                        04/17/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I am a sub in the bedroom but outside the bedroom my husband and I are fairly equal. I will make the final decisions but not before talking to me for the big things.
                        
                        
                        04/20/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I love to control some things all the time.
                        
                        
                        04/20/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I love it when my husband takes total control in the bedroom.  I still try to top from the bottom though.  He keeps encouraging me to take total control now and then.  He might be sorry once I finally do.
                        
                        
                        04/21/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I like to control EVERY SINGLE THING in life.
                        
                        
                        04/21/2011
			        
			        
                
                        Dominant in the bedroom, neutral everywhere else. Them's the breaks, innit?
                        
                        
                        04/21/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I am in control at home
                        
                        
                        04/25/2011
			        
			        
                
                        My husband is in control in and out of the bedroom.
                        
                        
                        04/28/2011
			        
			        
                
                        With the field I work in, a women has to fight for her place in the kitchen it's still very much a boy club. So I come off as someone that takes charge and is dominate. But at home and in the bedroom I am very submissive. I think it's more because I only choose to give up control to one person and that's K.
                        
                        
                        04/29/2011
			        
			        
                
                        i dont prefer to be in control in the bedroom.. but out i do prefer to be in control in most cases
                        
                        
                        04/29/2011
			        
			        
                
                        In both actual life/relationships and in bed I switch back and forth depending on my mood and my partner. Generally I'm more often dominant in relationships but submissive in bed, but it's still pretty split down the middle.
                        
                        
                        06/16/2011
			        
			        
                
                        Just in the bedroom.
                        
                        
                        06/22/2011
			        
			        
                
                        its a 50/50 thing go's both ways
                        
                        
                        06/28/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I'll be honest I can be pretty bossy, but when it comes down to it I can also be really submissive and I like the guy to be in control.
                        
                        
                        06/28/2011
			        
			        
                
                        In the bed I'm quite controlling, and outside of the bedroom I don't mind others doing what they want - as long as they do what I think is best 
                        
                        
                        06/28/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I'm a control freak by nature.  It's the role where I feel safest and most comfortable, however exploring my submissive self and expanding it outside of the bedroom has been challenging and an incredible journey as well.
                        
                        
                        07/01/2011
			        
			        
                
                        She's pretty well always in control, but it takes a special/fun turn when we hit the bedroom. 
                        
                        
                        07/19/2011
			        
			        
                
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                        I am never in control. my Master is. 
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Kaltir
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Do you prefer being in control only in the bedroom? For most things? Or for everything in life?
                                        
                                    07/19/2011
			        
			        
                
                        i really don't like having control. i'm so much more at ease when i have a partner i trust to have control.
                        
                        
                        07/19/2011
			        
			        
                
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