List of Beginning Items

Contributor: nyc cpl nyc cpl
... and dont forget safewords
07/21/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
Quote:
Originally posted by dancingduo
I see a lot of threads on how to get started with BDSM. Frankly, I see a lot of equipment questions. I wanted to get the communities thoughts on what items would be the best (in your opinion) for a couple to consider when starting to enter into the ... more
blindfold
08/01/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by dancingduo
I see a lot of threads on how to get started with BDSM. Frankly, I see a lot of equipment questions. I wanted to get the communities thoughts on what items would be the best (in your opinion) for a couple to consider when starting to enter into the ... more
cuffs
08/01/2013
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
I forgot to select blindfold. I'd say, first cuffs and blindfold, then a light whip. Have fun!
08/01/2013
Contributor: romandraws romandraws
Depends on what you're more curious about. I started with cheapo handcuffs (and rough play). Blindfolds are a good starting point, too. Honestly, pick what is most appealing, make sure you and your partner know how to get out of them safely and swiftly. Have fun! =)
08/27/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I love starting out with just some plain rope and went from there!
08/27/2013
Contributor: cmm cmm
leather cuffs that are chained together, a blindfold, and a riding crop.
09/12/2013
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by dancingduo
I see a lot of threads on how to get started with BDSM. Frankly, I see a lot of equipment questions. I wanted to get the communities thoughts on what items would be the best (in your opinion) for a couple to consider when starting to enter into the ... more
ropes definitely
10/27/2013
Contributor: Miss L Miss L
Out of all of them bondage tape is probably the easiest to use. Just ot be on the safe side keep a pair of EMT shears nearby whenever you're doing bondage (well, unless you're using metal).
10/28/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Quote:
Originally posted by dancingduo
I see a lot of threads on how to get started with BDSM. Frankly, I see a lot of equipment questions. I wanted to get the communities thoughts on what items would be the best (in your opinion) for a couple to consider when starting to enter into the ... more
I think the best way is to try what's already in your closet (ties and blindfolds with shirts, etc) to see if you like it. Once you know you like it - restraints and light impact play !
12/10/2013
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
A typical neck tie is the best place to start. You can use it as fabric cuffs.
12/10/2013