EdenKink - Fetish Etiquette - Thursday, December 22nd, 2011 @ 8pm ET

Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Hey, I'm here early for once.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
Hey, I'm here early for once.
Hey AA! Glad you could make it.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I'm a few minutes early. Working on some tutorials too
12/22/2011
Contributor: luna[KM] luna[KM]
Howdy
12/22/2011
Contributor: Tagmstr Tagmstr
I'm really excited for this!
12/22/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Got my tea. Hi, everyone!
12/22/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Grab your drinks and your seats and make a bathroom run! I've got coffee, eggnog (with and without alcohol), hot chocolate and candy canes to go around. That jolly old elf left a surprise for a few of you in that bag over there by the tree! And ... more
leeets DEW IT.

12/22/2011
Contributor: winterseve winterseve
Hi everyone!
12/22/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by winterseve
Hi everyone!
hey you! hows it goin?
12/22/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
leeets DEW IT.

Aww you find the cutest little illustrations
12/22/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Aww you find the cutest little illustrations


12/22/2011
Contributor: winterseve winterseve
It's going. Didn't get the gingerbread started, but I'm getting my whole family into ideas for it. I just finished wrapping all the presents.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Rarity Rarity
Oh no, I won't be able to stay for tonight's meeting.

Have lots of fun!
12/22/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by luna[KM]
Howdy
Luna! So glad you could make it! Miss you lots. Hopefully our free time will match up sometime soon!

I bet you'll have lots to say on this subject. Feel free to jump in whenever you like. I'd love to hear about your experiences.
12/22/2011
Contributor: luna[KM] luna[KM]
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Luna! So glad you could make it! Miss you lots. Hopefully our free time will match up sometime soon!

I bet you'll have lots to say on this subject. Feel free to jump in whenever you like. I'd love to hear about your experiences.
Yeah, thought that if I wanted to talk to ya Rayne I'd have to stalk you!
12/22/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Rarity
Oh no, I won't be able to stay for tonight's meeting.

Have lots of fun!
have a great weekend then!
12/22/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
leeets DEW IT.

Hey you! Happy holidays to you, too! I wanted to thank you for your part in the holiday EdenGivesBack project. You rock my socks. <3
12/22/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Hey you! Happy holidays to you, too! I wanted to thank you for your part in the holiday EdenGivesBack project. You rock my socks. <3
ooh so glad it warmed your ! i'm just glad EF gave me the opportunity to do it. EF is AWESOME.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
I'm here! Made it.. kinda. I'll be in and out.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Welcome to everyone who's here! Glad you all could make it. I know it's tough to find time, what with Christmas coming up this weekend. We'll give everyone a couple minutes to get settled and then get started. You ready?
12/22/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by luna[KM]
Yeah, thought that if I wanted to talk to ya Rayne I'd have to stalk you!
Lol. Hopefully after the holidays things will settle a bit. We'll see!
12/22/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Welcome to everyone who's here! Glad you all could make it. I know it's tough to find time, what with Christmas coming up this weekend. We'll give everyone a couple minutes to get settled and then get started. You ready? ... more
Yep! -^^-
12/22/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
Ready!
12/22/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Welcome to everyone who's here! Glad you all could make it. I know it's tough to find time, what with Christmas coming up this weekend. We'll give everyone a couple minutes to get settled and then get started. You ready? ... more
I think I'm ready!
12/22/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I celebrated yule yesterday, going to do giftsmas with the family. I have plenty of time though.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Vanille
Yep! -^^-
You have a new picture! I love it!
12/22/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I was slow on the potatoes and my brother didn't notice our grill was out of propane, so mom and dad went back to bet and we're thawing some old casserole... so I've got til the wild rice heats up
12/22/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I'm here - partly - on Skype with my son who lives 3 hours away....but lurking...sorta.

I'm here more to learn than to contribute.
12/22/2011
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Hi you guys! It's time for another EdenKink meeting!

This month, based on your vote, we're going to discuss fetish ettiquette in and out of the home. This ranges from kink events and munches to rules and rituals within your own relationship.

Before we start I want to make perfectly clear that I am not the authority on this subject. I've never been to a munch, kink club or event. I have, however, done a lot of research and have a good idea of the guidelines people follow. And I would love to hear about guidelines you've encountered that I don't mention. And please feel free to ask any questions you have.

Also, not too long ago, Smokedawg reminded us on EdenCafe that "kink" doesn't just encompass BDSM. There are other fetishes and types of "kinky" relationships than those with some form of BDSM-related dynamics. For example, swingers and furries have parties too! If any of you have anything to say about etiquette at these types of events, please tell us about it! I'll admit I have no idea about either, really, besides what they've shown on television. And we all know how accurate television is. /sarcasm

In any case...

Without further ado, let's start with etiquette at munches. Have any of you ever been to a munch? Were there any rules you were expected to follow?
12/22/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Peeking in!
12/22/2011