Some of this is new to me, but a turn on none the less.
Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: He's On Top (May 24, 8-10 PM EST)
05/24/2011
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If that's the current definition of kinky, then I'm outright depraved.
Originally posted by
BBW Talks Toys
I would agree. OFF TOPIC: I had a friend a while back ask me about spicing up her marriage. I didn't know her level of "fun" in the bedroom. I asked her if they engage in oral sex. She looked at me like I had spinach in my teeth.
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I would agree. OFF TOPIC: I had a friend a while back ask me about spicing up her marriage. I didn't know her level of "fun" in the bedroom. I asked her if they engage in oral sex. She looked at me like I had spinach in my teeth. So, immediately, I was like, "Okay, well, how about positions?" Again, I'm the "kinky one" *arches eyebrow*
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05/24/2011
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Dear god, me too!
Originally posted by
Petite Valentine
If that's the current definition of kinky, then I'm outright depraved.
05/24/2011
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That's why on my profile here it says, "My friends think I'm kinky, but I'm not really." While we engage in scene play, and have loads of toys, and are amazingly adventurous, I'm not what I'd call "kinky"
Originally posted by
bluekaren
Haha! That's funny, to this crowd at least!
05/24/2011
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Lol, well good for you! You are in good company
Originally posted by
Petite Valentine
If that's the current definition of kinky, then I'm outright depraved.
05/24/2011
The levels of submission were interesting as well, how far would you go?
05/24/2011
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Me too lol.
Originally posted by
Dusk
Dear god, me too!
05/24/2011
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I'm going to hell
Originally posted by
Dusk
Dear god, me too!
05/24/2011
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I'm probably driving the bus.
Originally posted by
BBW Talks Toys
I'm going to hell
05/24/2011
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I think the distinction could be made that "vanilla" BDSM might be on the light side-- fur cuffs, satin blindfolds, mild spankings, etc. Of course, your mileage may vary!
Originally posted by
bluekaren
I was thiking vanilla would be someone who doesn't do sub/dom in the bedroom that is...
05/24/2011
I'll be calling it a night soon. I got someone over and I feel the need to entertain *cough*.
05/24/2011
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The idea of a tack bra scares the shit out of me but turns me on at the same time. ... so probably there.
Originally posted by
bluekaren
The levels of submission were interesting as well, how far would you go?
I have requested being hit in the face before... I blame I Huckabees.
05/24/2011
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Another question for the group at large - how does this book compare to She's on Top?
Originally posted by
Kristina Wright
I think the distinction could be made that "vanilla" BDSM might be on the light side-- fur cuffs, satin blindfolds, mild spankings, etc. Of course, your mileage may vary!
05/24/2011
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LOL!!
Originally posted by
Petite Valentine
If that's the current definition of kinky, then I'm outright depraved.
05/24/2011
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We went out this past weekend and I came home with bruises and welts. Did we go too far? I don't think so, how do you find your limit unless you keep pushing it? That is what I loved about this book. Knowing I am not alone in this quest.
Originally posted by
Emma (Girl With Fire)
The idea of a tack bra scares the shit out of me but turns me on at the same time. ... so probably there.
I have requested being hit in the face before... I blame I Huckabees.
I have requested being hit in the face before... I blame I Huckabees.
05/24/2011
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Excellent question!
Originally posted by
Petite Valentine
Another question for the group at large - how does this book compare to She's on Top?
05/24/2011
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Originally posted by
Kynky Kytty
I'll be calling it a night soon. I got someone over and I feel the need to entertain *cough*.
05/24/2011
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That depends on who's at the Helm...... For the right Dom(me) I could get into pretty heavy humiliation and scene play, and even a 24/7 power exchange....
Originally posted by
bluekaren
The levels of submission were interesting as well, how far would you go?
For Mr, who's naturally a sub, impact play is really about as far as it goes.
I'm very much a switch, but prefer to top.
05/24/2011
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The Schoolgirl and Angel story had some pussy flogging and it isn't something I'd definitely call vanilla BDSM. I think it was have been what I'd considered the most hardcore of the book. I know it's not something I've done before, but it sounds worse than very mean nipple clamps.
Originally posted by
Kristina Wright
I think the distinction could be made that "vanilla" BDSM might be on the light side-- fur cuffs, satin blindfolds, mild spankings, etc. Of course, your mileage may vary!
05/24/2011
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I think half of the fun IS pushing the limits.
Originally posted by
bluekaren
We went out this past weekend and I came home with bruises and welts. Did we go too far? I don't think so, how do you find your limit unless you keep pushing it? That is what I loved about this book. Knowing I am not alone in this quest.
05/24/2011
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I think only you can answer the question of whether you've gone too far. I think it's scary there are people who would like to make that decision *for* us!
Originally posted by
bluekaren
We went out this past weekend and I came home with bruises and welts. Did we go too far? I don't think so, how do you find your limit unless you keep pushing it? That is what I loved about this book. Knowing I am not alone in this quest.
05/24/2011
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Not to me. My nips are sensitive!
Originally posted by
Kynky Kytty
The Schoolgirl and Angel story had some pussy flogging and it isn't something I'd definitely call vanilla BDSM. I think it was have been what I'd considered the most hardcore of the book. I know it's not something I've done
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The Schoolgirl and Angel story had some pussy flogging and it isn't something I'd definitely call vanilla BDSM. I think it was have been what I'd considered the most hardcore of the book. I know it's not something I've done before, but it sounds worse than very mean nipple clamps.
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05/24/2011
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I agree, it is fun pushing the limits!
Originally posted by
Emma (Girl With Fire)
I think half of the fun IS pushing the limits.
05/24/2011
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"I think it's scary there are people who would like to make that decision *for* us!"
Originally posted by
Kristina Wright
I think only you can answer the question of whether you've gone too far. I think it's scary there are people who would like to make that decision *for* us!
While I'm not completely sure what or who you are talking about, I completely agree!
The government, or whoever, definitely needs to stay out of our bedrooms.
05/24/2011
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Ooh Good Point!
Originally posted by
removedacnt
"I think it's scary there are people who would like to make that decision *for* us!"
While I'm not completely sure what or who you are talking about, I completely agree!
The government, or whoever, definitely needs to stay out of our bedrooms.
While I'm not completely sure what or who you are talking about, I completely agree!
The government, or whoever, definitely needs to stay out of our bedrooms.
05/24/2011
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Some people just want control... and will take it in any form they can get it.
Originally posted by
removedacnt
"I think it's scary there are people who would like to make that decision *for* us!"
While I'm not completely sure what or who you are talking about, I completely agree!
The government, or whoever, definitely needs to stay out of our bedrooms.
While I'm not completely sure what or who you are talking about, I completely agree!
The government, or whoever, definitely needs to stay out of our bedrooms.
I believe that is where sociopathy comes in to play.... not a good scene.
05/24/2011
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Mine too, especially before my periods. Even a slight touch feels like I'm clamping them. It's insane.
Originally posted by
Emma (Girl With Fire)
Not to me. My nips are sensitive!
05/24/2011
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You know, it's funny that I say that because I have made people bite mine, and HARD.
Originally posted by
Kynky Kytty
Mine too, especially before my periods. Even a slight touch feels like I'm clamping them. It's insane.
05/24/2011
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Oh, I mean anyone-- friends who judge our sex lives, doctors who see a bruise and automatically assume it's domestic violence, conservatives who want to legislate what goes on in the bedroom or get up in arms over clubs being used as BDSM play spaces for consenting adults. Pretty much anyone who thinks BDSM is immoral, wrong or should be illegal simply because *they* don't get it or like it.
Originally posted by
removedacnt
"I think it's scary there are people who would like to make that decision *for* us!"
While I'm not completely sure what or who you are talking about, I completely agree!
The government, or whoever, definitely needs to stay out of our bedrooms.
While I'm not completely sure what or who you are talking about, I completely agree!
The government, or whoever, definitely needs to stay out of our bedrooms.
05/24/2011
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Isn't it funny that there are people in this world who look with disgust upon those who like to play bedroom games involving control, then do everything in their power to control what others do in their bedrooms. Ironic, don'tcha think?
Originally posted by
Emma (Girl With Fire)
Some people just want control... and will take it in any form they can get it.
I believe that is where sociopathy comes in to play.... not a good scene.
I believe that is where sociopathy comes in to play.... not a good scene.
05/24/2011