Also undulating.
Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex (January 11, 7-11 EST)
01/11/2011
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Another thing I've found personally, as well as observed in other women, is that we tend to have fantasies where we don't have control. What I mean is, that we fantasize about things we would like, but maybe shouldn't. So somehow woven into the fantasy the control is taken away from us.
Originally posted by
Kristina Wright
Absolutely. The most primal sexual acts are often the most arousing for the mind, but not the safest for the body...
Does that make sense?
01/11/2011
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Another great word!
Originally posted by
Emma (Girl With Fire)
Also undulating.
01/11/2011
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Absolutely makes sense! Most of my fantasies involve power play of some sort, but I'm a very strong, independent person in my real life.
Originally posted by
removedacnt
Another thing I've found personally, as well as observed in other women, is that we tend to have fantasies where we don't have control. What I mean is, that we fantasize about things we would like, but maybe shouldn't. So somehow woven
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Another thing I've found personally, as well as observed in other women, is that we tend to have fantasies where we don't have control. What I mean is, that we fantasize about things we would like, but maybe shouldn't. So somehow woven into the fantasy the control is taken away from us.
Does that make sense? less
Does that make sense? less
01/11/2011
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I have read a really great book about sexual fantasy, I cant for the life of me remember what it was but the writer did pose a theory on this that made very good sense. Her theory was that because women are taught to be good, and clean and respectable, and many of the things we want are not, the idea of having no power is attractive because with no power comes no responsibility for the dirty things we want to have done to us.
Originally posted by
removedacnt
Another thing I've found personally, as well as observed in other women, is that we tend to have fantasies where we don't have control. What I mean is, that we fantasize about things we would like, but maybe shouldn't. So somehow woven
...
more
Another thing I've found personally, as well as observed in other women, is that we tend to have fantasies where we don't have control. What I mean is, that we fantasize about things we would like, but maybe shouldn't. So somehow woven into the fantasy the control is taken away from us.
Does that make sense? less
Does that make sense? less
01/11/2011
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Same here. I'm actually a very type A person. And I need to be in control. In bed...and especially in my fantasies....not so much.
Originally posted by
Kristina Wright
Absolutely makes sense! Most of my fantasies involve power play of some sort, but I'm a very strong, independent person in my real life.
01/11/2011
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I agree! I love fantasies where I'm "helpless"
Originally posted by
removedacnt
Another thing I've found personally, as well as observed in other women, is that we tend to have fantasies where we don't have control. What I mean is, that we fantasize about things we would like, but maybe shouldn't. So somehow woven
...
more
Another thing I've found personally, as well as observed in other women, is that we tend to have fantasies where we don't have control. What I mean is, that we fantasize about things we would like, but maybe shouldn't. So somehow woven into the fantasy the control is taken away from us.
Does that make sense? less
Does that make sense? less
Damsel-ish almost.
I spent all my life growing up being feared cause I was so tall.
Stupid mean kids, and boys would never ask me out cause I was a tomboy until 11th grade.
I kinda wanna be delicate and helpless and feminine
01/11/2011
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I think part of the power of fantasy is the sense of the unattainable, physically or culturally. So, yeah, it makes a lot of sense
Originally posted by
removedacnt
Another thing I've found personally, as well as observed in other women, is that we tend to have fantasies where we don't have control. What I mean is, that we fantasize about things we would like, but maybe shouldn't. So somehow woven
...
more
Another thing I've found personally, as well as observed in other women, is that we tend to have fantasies where we don't have control. What I mean is, that we fantasize about things we would like, but maybe shouldn't. So somehow woven into the fantasy the control is taken away from us.
Does that make sense? less
Does that make sense? less
01/11/2011
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Exactly! You hit the nail on the head.
Originally posted by
Emma (Girl With Fire)
I have read a really great book about sexual fantasy, I cant for the life of me remember what it was but the writer did pose a theory on this that made very good sense. Her theory was that because women are taught to be good, and clean and
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more
I have read a really great book about sexual fantasy, I cant for the life of me remember what it was but the writer did pose a theory on this that made very good sense. Her theory was that because women are taught to be good, and clean and respectable, and many of the things we want are not, the idea of having no power is attractive because with no power comes no responsibility for the dirty things we want to have done to us.
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01/11/2011
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I actually have the winners in my email, Kristina sent them to me yesterday!
Originally posted by
Tori Rebel
Hey Laurel, when are the top 3 questions from Kristina's interview being announced? I'm very curious as to what was chosen.
01/11/2011
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I need to become more strong. I'm such a worrywart and scared to speak up for myself.
Originally posted by
Kristina Wright
Absolutely makes sense! Most of my fantasies involve power play of some sort, but I'm a very strong, independent person in my real life.
01/11/2011
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It's nice to give up control in a fantasy!
Originally posted by
removedacnt
Same here. I'm actually a very type A person. And I need to be in control. In bed...and especially in my fantasies....not so much.
01/11/2011
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Totally.. shock..danger... fear, all fun things as long as they are locked safely in your head!
Originally posted by
removedacnt
Isn't it interesting that what turns us on is often things we would never do? I think it's the shock factor that revs our engines.
01/11/2011
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I can't take credit, I just read it. (haha that rhymes.) Credit goes to whoever wrote the book. If I ever come across it again I will be sure to let you guys know. It was one of the best I have ever read and very eye opening.
Originally posted by
removedacnt
Exactly! You hit the nail on the head.
01/11/2011
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I'm on the same boat as you are on this one.
Originally posted by
Illusional
I need to become more strong. I'm such a worrywart and scared to speak up for myself.
01/11/2011
Sorry I'm late...house guests!
01/11/2011
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Yes! I agree. Besides, if we lived out all of our fantasies, what would we have to think about during our "me" time?
Originally posted by
LicentiouslyYours
Totally.. shock..danger... fear, all fun things as long as they are locked safely in your head!
01/11/2011
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Hey!
Originally posted by
Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Sorry I'm late...house guests!
01/11/2011
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Evening!
Originally posted by
Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Sorry I'm late...house guests!
01/11/2011
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Yellow!
Originally posted by
Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Sorry I'm late...house guests!
01/11/2011
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I've been watching for that too! there were some great questions!
Originally posted by
LicentiouslyYours
I actually have the winners in my email, Kristina sent them to me yesterday!
01/11/2011
Did we cover Violet's great podcast? She did a reading from her book a while back. Violet is fantastic!
01/11/2011
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yay!
Originally posted by
LicentiouslyYours
I actually have the winners in my email, Kristina sent them to me yesterday!
01/11/2011
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We haven't! I didn't know she'd done a reading from it!
Originally posted by
Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Did we cover Violet's great podcast? She did a reading from her book a while back. Violet is fantastic!
01/11/2011
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Hi!
Originally posted by
Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Sorry I'm late...house guests!
01/11/2011
Hi Mr & Mrs. Peg!
01/11/2011
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01/11/2011
Hi, all. Thanks for the welcome.
We have really enjoyed the Eden community since we joined. You are all so very welcoming.
We have really enjoyed the Eden community since we joined. You are all so very welcoming.
01/11/2011
Violet Blue's podcast is here: link
if anyone is interested.
if anyone is interested.
01/11/2011
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I agree! The Eden community is fantastic!!
Originally posted by
Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Hi, all. Thanks for the welcome.
We have really enjoyed the Eden community since we joined. You are all so very welcoming.
We have really enjoyed the Eden community since we joined. You are all so very welcoming.
01/11/2011