Do you think you should be upset if your lover watches porn?

Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
Nah, it's no big deal.
02/15/2013
Contributor: bettyboom bettyboom
I like porn. I think it can add some kink to the bedroom, I know it gives me ideas that can be expanded upon (haha, unintentional pun, but I like it) However, never been much of a sound girl. I know it may sound strange, but I watch a lot of porn on mute.
02/19/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
For normal porn I don't see why people would get upset. If it's something you view is wrong or even illegal you might have a problem though.
02/24/2013
Contributor: shotjuan shotjuan
It's just entertainment. Even fantasizing is better than cheating.
04/08/2013
Contributor: mailroomorder mailroomorder
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Originally posted by Anne
Just wondering.
Sometimes porn can be fun. It can be incorporated into a relationship. I don't think that just because my partner watches porn that he doesn't want me anymore. Sometimes porn can just be FUN.
04/08/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Anne
Just wondering.
No way! He loves porn. That has nothing to do with me.
04/09/2013
Contributor: vittmsk vittmsk
Not at all. i'd watch it with my wife!
04/09/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
If it's in excessive amounts, worrisome genres or he prefers it over me, then yes. Otherwise, it's all good.
04/09/2013
Contributor: DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
Nah. Only if they are open and honest about it.
04/23/2013
Contributor: CarmenCaligula CarmenCaligula
Quote:
Originally posted by Anne
Just wondering.
If your partner likes porn, watch it with them!
04/23/2013
Contributor: dustykatt dustykatt
No but I would prefer that he invite me to watch with him.
05/11/2013
Contributor: Bme Bme
If they hide the fact they are watching then I would be upset. If they choose porn over a real willing person in front of them then I would be upset. I am saying is if it takes away from our relationship then it is wrong.
05/11/2013
Contributor: LilyPoole LilyPoole
I'm a cam girl and I make my own amateur porn, and I've gotten mad at a partner for over indulging in porn secretly. He had a horrible addiction though. He was getting on cam sites trying to get girls to do things for free and telling them he'd rather have them than me. I think that is what got me the most mad.

It was the secrets and the fact that he would go to my turf and tell these girls he'd rather have them.
05/29/2013
Contributor: TiffanyW TiffanyW
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Originally posted by Anne
Just wondering.
Sometimes I think porn can help a couple's sex life... You can get a lot of different ideas on new things to try
05/29/2013
Contributor: joiedejouets joiedejouets
No, that's ridiculous!
05/29/2013
Contributor: GingerSpice GingerSpice
i only got mad when he hid it, if he would just let me know, i would watch it with him! lol
05/29/2013
Contributor: Pierced Blaqk Skies Pierced Blaqk Skies
Quote:
Originally posted by Anne
Just wondering.
I think if it's killing your sex lives than yea I would be but if it's just a passive thing, no big deal.
05/29/2013
Contributor: srexom srexom
not really. Seems a pretty normal thing to me.
05/29/2013
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
as long as the person doesnt become desensitized and has to get crazy to get off because of it I don't care. Also I'd rather not take a back seat to it either.
05/29/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
I don't care if he watches porn, a lot of people do. Some stuff out there shouldn't exist but it does...that is the only time I would be upset.
05/29/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
Generally speaking no, but certain types of porn would make me uneasy. For example, a supposedly homophobic bf watching gay male porn would raise a red flag, as a man with anger issues watching porn involving women being forced to perform sexual acts. I'm fine with fantasy, but I would need to know that it was just that, and nothing more in cases like that.
05/29/2013
Contributor: Augustxsins Augustxsins
No, not at all. I watch porn when I feel like it; he can watch porn when he feels like it, too. I'm not the type to get jealous over porn (unless, of course, it were of someone we knew - then, there would be problems).

We watch porn together sometimes, but honestly it's a mostly solo activity for us. And I'm completely ok with that.
05/29/2013
Contributor: brandi2009 brandi2009
Quote:
Originally posted by Anne
Just wondering.
not at all. i would actually be pleased if i watched it with them
06/04/2013
Contributor: GirlyGirlRed GirlyGirlRed
Not unless they are hiding it or it is a definite interference with the relationships romance
06/16/2013
Contributor: luv 2 sex luv 2 sex
I think it is crazy to be upset about something like that. If anything watch it together.
07/09/2013