Reviewers Spotlight - April 7th@ 6pm: Airen Wolf and ToyQuest

I am constantly reading and rating new reviews. I genuinely enjoy editing and just reading product reviews. I have had to cut back recently but I'm still there!

I do at least three reviews a month guarranteed for the Naked Reader's and Porn Club but I have a list of around 30 or so products waiting patiently for reviews!

I'll be honest...I thought Carrie Ann was nutz when she said there comes a point where you don't go look for new toys as much. I have reached that point! I place my orders much more thoughfully now and don't request as many free review items as I used to.

This is why I caution all new EFers to calm down and enjoy each toy as you get it. You will accumulate more than you know what to do with so quickly just by being here and involved! less

Well when I wasn't here I was busy with the kids and playing MMORPGs which is our shared passion as a family. As it is I split my time with WOW which we play on a private server! I am also an ordained minister of Eclectic Wicca so I spend lots of time simply listening to people. If I hadn't chosen to make the EF community my life project I would probably be writing for the local college and their comparitive religions curriculum.



I believe in Fred's vision of a place where it's safe to be 'freaky, different and weird' or to be so normal you bore yourself! I love the exchange of ideas and the acceptance found here. I also like that we can disagree with civility and without hurt feelings. less

The most difficult thin gis the damn border between our countries. He's Canadian and we're American and we are NEVER supposed to meet let alone fall in love according to the border patrol! I mean we have NOTHING in common! *eye rolls*



I want us to be together but our Countries are determined we should be apart. I could divorce Sigel and marry him but then myself and our son have no health coverage...I hate that this is the deciding factor.



We are actually very well suited to each other in most other ways but sometimes I fear that this line in the sand might cost us everything. It's sucks knowing that some officious prick at the border hasd the say in whether we can be together but already they have denied Arch the right to travel...he might be a terrorist after all. The world has gone crazy!



To be honest being in a poly relationship isn't really harder than being monogamous...it's just more intense when you face problems. You have to deal with them the way you should deal with any family disputes! less

The most difficult thin gis the damn border between our countries. He's Canadian and we're American and we are NEVER supposed to meet let alone fall in love according to the border patrol! I mean we have NOTHING in common! *eye rolls*



I want us to be together but our Countries are determined we should be apart. I could divorce Sigel and marry him but then myself and our son have no health coverage...I hate that this is the deciding factor.



We are actually very well suited to each other in most other ways but sometimes I fear that this line in the sand might cost us everything. It's sucks knowing that some officious prick at the border hasd the say in whether we can be together but already they have denied Arch the right to travel...he might be a terrorist after all. The world has gone crazy!



To be honest being in a poly relationship isn't really harder than being monogamous...it's just more intense when you face problems. You have to deal with them the way you should deal with any family disputes! less

I do not have any tatoos. The parlour that I was going to while I was in the market had a tatoo'er diagnosed with AIDS and a few of his clients tested positive as well. Now I know that more than likely he was sleeping with sid clients because I knew him quite well but the state shut them down and I haven't been to a tatoo artist since then. I would like a few small ones but I am also violently allergic to pain and quite the wuss when it comes to healing cuts.

This is subject to change as I get more comfortable in my skin so we'll see! less

I've had a few reviews that were sort of overlooked but to be honest I write so prolifically that it's never bothered me. I don't tend to put my reviews in the spotlight or promote them and I've found that as time went on even the one or two that didn't get a lot of votes starting to pick them up later on as people went searching for products. less

Free toys! LOL I admit it...shame on me, right? I liked that people wanted my opinion and since I read up on toys heavily before I order them I liked the idea of being part of that process. Besides I knew I could rely on ME to be honest and objective! It all boils down to the feeling I got when I was admitted to the 'advanced reviewer' status. You have no idea how it boosted my self worth and made me feel like my words had value. less

Lol Lots of work on myself and the school of hard knocks kinda ground off a lot os the rough edges. My father was a highly motivated and highly functioning alcoholic and my Mom has many problems emotionally as well so I learned at a very young age to sublimate any ideas and emotions that didn't fit in with their world view. When I moved out...and I had to run away from home at 18 TO move out, I began to unlearn what I had been taught about who and what I am.







I developed tolerance through my religious studies and through a genuine desire to understand what motivates people. I am becomeing comfortable in my skin and proud of who I am and this community is a major part of that. Discovering how much Sigel and I are alike and that I have the capacity to love many people has changed who I am and who I want to be.







I actively try to be gentle and kind though I can rip someone's head off just as quickly! I hide my insecurities and try to work through them all the time, though I am also willing to share them and talk about them openly as well. It's almost what you HAVE to do if you survive a horrible experience. Other PTSD sufferers know what I mean.







Thanks for the compliment though...I think you and Danelle are pretty keen too! less