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Do you use your Fleshlight strictly for solo play, or do you use it with your partner as well?

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Contributor: That Guy That Guy
I dig my Fleshlight, but I'm not a huge fan of solo play in general. I recently discovered that my girlfriend is totally into using the Fleshlight to mix it up during playtime, so I'm curious: guys, do you use your Fleshlight alone, with a partner, or both? Girls, are you into this sort of thing?

Feel free to offer some creative ideas on how to incorporate the Fleshlight into couple's play. I'm sure we can all figure out at least one, but I'm interested to see if anybody's come up with more than a new twist on the "old-fashioned."
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm a guy and I only use my Fleshlight for solo play.
16
I'm a guy and I use my Fleshlight both for solo play and with a partner.
17
I'm a guy and I only use my Fleshlight with my partner.
1
I'm a guy and I would like to use my Fleshlight for partner play, but my partner isn't interested or I don't want to ask her/him.
1
I'm a girl and I use or have used a Fleshlight with my partner.
22
I'm a girl and I haven't used a Fleshlight on my partner, but would like to.
7
I'm a girl and why the hell would I need a Fleshlight? The stupid thing was made to simulate the perfection that is me.
10
Total votes: 74 (71 voters)
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Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I have to say it gets used for solo time the most but the wife does use it on me form time to time.
01/13/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Both, solo and with my wife.

Hell, the Fleshlight was my wifes idea in the first place. She had read about them in one of her books and thought it would be fun to integrate into our bedroom activities. I had no idea how much I would like it.
01/13/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
We have only used out fleshlights together.
01/13/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
My b/f travels most of the time and he never leaves w/o his Fleshlight or his Tanga Flip Hole.
We do use sleeves occasionally together.
01/13/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I tried to get my bf interested in them but he said he'd rather have me. Hard to argue with that!
01/13/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I love using my bf's Fleshlight with him. He uses it without me too though.
01/13/2011
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
I didn't vote yet, because mine is on the way. I plan on using it mostly solo, but would not mind using it with the wife when she is on her period or at other times.
01/13/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
We use all of our Fleshlights together. It's much fun to watch him use them on himself. We bought the Mounts too since thrusting is nommy to watch too.
01/14/2011
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
My hubby and I have used it together and he has used it solo. We like both!
02/06/2011
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
I have already used it with the wife one time, and it was a lot of fun.
02/06/2011
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
Mostly use it together. One of mine is a clear model, both sleeve and case, which offers a view of what is going on. My wife enjoys watching with this one much more than the others.
02/07/2011
Contributor: eyeneerg1984 eyeneerg1984
Quote:
Originally posted by Checkmate
Mostly use it together. One of mine is a clear model, both sleeve and case, which offers a view of what is going on. My wife enjoys watching with this one much more than the others.
I just got a clear one as well and I'm looking forward to having my wife watch along as well.
02/09/2011
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
Quote:
Originally posted by eyeneerg1984
I just got a clear one as well and I'm looking forward to having my wife watch along as well.
Which texture did you get with it? Let us know how it goes.
03/03/2011
Contributor: MontereyJak MontereyJak
At first I mainly used it for solo usage but now I don't have much solo time anymore so we try to use it together. She gets pretty turned by watching too.
03/15/2011
Contributor: ChicaPrize ChicaPrize
I guess it will be nice for him to use when he wants a 2nd round.
03/15/2011
Contributor: callsignhusker callsignhusker
we use it together infrequently
04/06/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
That could be so cool when your girl uses that on you. I want that experience
04/17/2011
Contributor: YoungSpunkyLove YoungSpunkyLove
We're getting a brand new design sent to us for a review, and we're both stoked! I [L] love watching A get the pleasure, and with me knocked up and knowing my libido will start to wane soon, I love knowing he'll have something to turn to on the nights I'm crabby! [not all preggo women are like me- some get horny as hell... don't I wish!]

... can't wait to get it in the mail!
04/26/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Wow, with all this good talk of the Fleshlight, I know what to get my guy friends now.
04/28/2011
Contributor: l'amour l'amour
I love using my Fleshlight with my fiance!
10/19/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I have a Tenga Flip Hole rather than a fleshlight but my partner and I use it together.
10/19/2011
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
I'm receiving our first Fleshlight this week, and I'm actually going to USE the Fleshlight first in front of my boyfriend. It was our condition, I buy, I use, then it's his; I'm going to use my strap on and a small dildo, and jerk myself off. Mouahahaha, I can't wait.

Then, whether he plays with it alone or with me, I'm all for it.
10/19/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
I have used mine for parter play, and will do it again.
10/19/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
To this date, my partner has now used his Fleshlight a few times by himself. Most times, it is a partner thing.
10/19/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I've suggested it to the man a couple times, but he's been pretty solidly uninterested. Fine by me, but I feel weird having tons of toys for me when he has none! I do think it would be fun to use it together.
10/20/2011
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
i use it on my hubby all the time
01/17/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Personally, these things creep me out lol
01/27/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
It's not a fleshlight, but my partner and I use a non-realistic sleeve toy during foreplay pretty frequently. I'm not sure how I'd feel about a realistic one.
01/27/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Most of the time solo, sometimes she uses it on me, and my my is it a turn on
02/01/2012