Dear Mrportman, choosing a masturbator is actually a little bit more complicated than that. First of all, don't get fixed on fleshlights - they are, indeed, one of the best on the market, but if you are a beginner, you should look into other options, as well. You might not be into textures, but do you want vibration or not? How discreet you want it to be or how realistic?

In regards to tightness, a great idea would be to choose a sleeve without a case or a one that is easily removable from the plastic case. With a sleeve, you can actually regulate tightness really effectively with your hand. You just squeeze it more to make it feel more intense and vice versa for a lighter spur. Our classy Donna is what I mean - check it out.

Another way to go around the tightness issue is to pick something that isn't supposed to be tight at all - that way you are sacrificing a realistic look to some extent, but it just might be worth it. For example, our beautiful Scout doesn't stick around too tight, it stimulation with sensual petals instead.