I've never bought a sex toy in person. Well, okay, except once and it was a junky jelly vibrator from Spencer's (my very first sex toy, in fact). I buy all my sex toys right here on EdenFantasys. As for lingerie, etc., I've bought a few sexy bra and panty sets in stores but I just recently got a free assignment on a sexy corset, garter belt, and thong set that I am excited to try out. I was afraid it wouldn't fit because I'm a slightly bigger girl (though not exactly plus-sized) but the corset fit just fine (and with room!) and I'm pretty sure the rest is going to fit. So I've had no complaints about either option so far.