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Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
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I am not offended by pocket pussies or similar toys. The wording on the banner offends me. No big deal, just not real thrilled or impressed (or proud).

I hope no one is using it, it's bad enough it is available.
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VanillaFreeSex , Dusk , DeliciousSurprise , indiglo , NarcissisticLust , pixieluv , ZenaidaMacroura , toxie m , KrissyRoro , Vegan Silk , VieuxCarre , ToyGurl , 724-6924 , PassionQT , Owl Identified , ashaxmarie , mama2007 , PiratePrincess , ellieprobable , DCorrelle , Noira Celestia , ily , Anjulie , domsub1993 , emiliaa , lilly555 , Tessa Taboo , kitty377 , llellsee , oopsy , SweetSurprise , mikebooks , MamaDivine , GONE! , mpfm , tufails , Beck , switzerland , curious kitten , joja , x203 , catsin , chantalgiardina , spiceboy , Emerlyn , Thomas90 , pasdechat , solitudinarian , RosesThorns , palindromic , funforall7 , Girly Juice , Tangles , kanida , wwwww , Strider
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i think its funny
M121212 , Starrr , Sweet-Justice , cujo467 , Lady Venus , ToyBoy , SexyLilPixi , P'Gell , Rayne Millaray , Sex'и'Violence , Liz2 , deletedacct , LambChop , dopy , BeautifulDarkness , Kitty Grub , Maiden , Jon S , CreamySweet , Seventeen , -BillD , SaraU29 , Mr. E , TakeHimAway , L&P3040 , Checkmate , Heatherbipoly , momoxd11 , BrittaniMaree , luvslukin , Badass , kanida
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don't give a crap
Ajax , Misfit Momma , |Scheibe| , kelaaa33wish , Starrr , ~KillerQueen~ , krisvida , Donord , cherryredhead88 , AgnesTrevejo , B8trDude , Shellz31 , Inwitari , Petite Valentine , Lady Venus , ichigostrawberry , ToyBoy , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , froggiemoma , Howells , big b , Sir , P'Gell , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , ofackmird , Bellimum , Sex'и'Violence , MaryExy , Kdlips , bluekaren , sarki , tim1724 , SamsDelight , The Curious Couple , aigott2 , slynch , deletedacct , gehuwd , RonLee , LambChop , CAKES , EvilHomer , mama2007 , wetone123 , teeny <3 , Sinfully , Lio , NuclearTeapot , bayosgirl , ily , The Mother of a SiNner , LostBoy988 , Nissa Nissa , catgirl9 , loveshocks , Kynky Kytty , 0 , Nora , AndroAngel , Wildchild , amandaco2011 , CreamySweet , jeangel246 , Illumin8 , Teaser , *Huxley* , LQ , Vanille , - Kira - , UnknownGirl , WetJenn , Girly Girl , -BillD , Bignuf , Rarity , TheCleansing , Kitka , Rainbow Boy , aimtoplease , Princess-Kayla ♥ , Mihoshi4301 , Jake'n'bake , SexyStuff , blacklodge , geliebt , jc123 , mlgrant , Willow Wand , GONE! , Zombirella , EnterTheFist , Nkev , tufails , Kush , MAy86 , Tork48309 , unfulfilled , SmutGeek , Mr. E , Sunshineamine , jmex83 , joolie , ScarletFox , underHim , TakeHimAway , 12345678 , shySEXXaddict , TheHardOne , treefrog88 , starryeyedangel , ghent529 , Stinkytofu10 , Woman China , lovekink , Allison.Wilder , Checkmate , brevado , PropertyOfPotter , JennSenn , indiechick , srval69 , deltalima , bradav , mack90 , Vadim50 , BrittaniMaree , SkylarrStarr , bedorerc , Badass , lovelylolaa , Martiniman
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i use the banner proudly
Rod Ronald
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that is awful, let's demand it be removed!
Total votes: 220 (201 voters)
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Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
the best part....even when thinking sexual attributes, I've never thought...oh my best asset is my vagina
06/04/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Don't get me wrong, I'm a feminist. And that banner makes me laugh a lil'.
06/04/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
I don't find the banner offensive in any manner.

I know the boyfriend gets off best during PIV than any other way so for him....it probably is the best part. And as far as his toys go his masturbators are by far his favourites.
06/04/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I'm a tad offended and I find it a tad funny. Either way, I don't think it's a positive message.
06/04/2011
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
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Originally posted by Dusk
I'm a tad offended and I find it a tad funny. Either way, I don't think it's a positive message.
i agree exactly. I wasn't horribly offended, but I was caught off guard.
as far as it being a tad funny, it is actually similar to things that have been written on gifts I've given for bachelor parties, so I do see the humor. Just not as a form of advertising.
06/04/2011
Contributor: kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
Where do we get a banner to upload , not that I want the one you showed in the link but would like to get a different one.
06/04/2011
Contributor: Starrr Starrr
I don't find that offensive at all. hahah
06/04/2011
Contributor: krisvida krisvida
Not really a big deal
06/04/2011
Contributor: clp clp
Tacky. Either too snarky for its own good or honestly thinks saying a vagina is the best part of a woman will sell more toys. I've never thought a cock is the best part of a man... and don't find it particularly funny to say so.

Awesome, EF. :\
06/04/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I agree it's a bit offensive. My favorite part of the body isn't the genitals. It's a mixture of things depending on the person.
06/04/2011
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
When I click the link I don't get a banner. Can someone tell me what category it's under, or did EF remove it?
06/04/2011
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
When I click the link I don't get a banner. Can someone tell me what category it's under, or did EF remove it?
They didn't remove it, maybe try refreshing your page or right click and open in a new tab.

I don't really find it too offensive, because if that's what a guy thinks then whatever. I've seen/heard a lot worse.
06/04/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I don't really like it, tbh. I'm actually kind of surprised that EF would have something like that as an advertisement! Especially considering that the majority of members here are women. I would think they would feel the wallet is the best part of a woman!
06/04/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I really don't get how its offensive :|
06/04/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Personally, I just brush those sort of things off.
I can see how some females would find it offensive.

It wasn't a very smart or thought out idea for a banner.
This isn't meant to offend, but I have to wonder if a guy came up with it. Or perhaps a female and the offensive part just didn't occur to them.

Either way, I'm not allowing that to offend me. I have bigger things to worry about.
06/04/2011
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
They didn't remove it, maybe try refreshing your page or right click and open in a new tab.

I don't really find it too offensive, because if that's what a guy thinks then whatever. I've seen/heard a lot worse.
I guess Firefox is offended because it absolutely won't display the banner no matter what I do (clear the cache, clear cookies, delete history, etc.)
06/04/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
This is what it looks like:

Offensive Banner
06/04/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
I really don't get how its offensive :|
Well, it's saying that the best part of a woman is the vagina, and by purchasing a masturbator you can take the best part with you. I don't like being objectified like that without my direct permission
06/04/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by Dusk
Well, it's saying that the best part of a woman is the vagina, and by purchasing a masturbator you can take the best part with you. I don't like being objectified like that without my direct permission
they do show an anal masturbator as well, so its not just objectifying the vagina
06/04/2011
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by Dusk
This is what it looks like:

It's bizarre. Firefox will not display the picture for me.

Popped the link over to IE and it worked just fine, and for the record, I am not offended. It's an ad for a sex toy, I'm not going to read too much into it.
06/04/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
nah. I'm not easily offended.
06/04/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
I find it slightly insulting and am disappointed to see an add like this from such a sex positive company.
06/04/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
I think it is somewhat funny...a little juvenile, but still kinda funny. I can see how someone could be offended, but I don't have a vagina, so I'm not.
06/04/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I don't want to offend anyone who's offended by it by saying I'm laughing about it, but I am. I can't lie.
06/05/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I am surprisingly not offended (personally). However, this is still generally offensive, and it's still objectifying, so yes, it should be removed.
06/05/2011
Contributor: pixieluv pixieluv
I don't really think this is funny and do find it offensive as it encourages the idea that the focus of men regarding set is to get it in a hole. I don't mind these type of products and have one that is fun for me and my hubby. This however suggests that women can be replaced by a product.

How would a man feel if we put up a vibe and state, "Man not necessary"
06/05/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
doesnt bother me, dont think its funny, dont care
06/05/2011
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by pixieluv
I don't really think this is funny and do find it offensive as it encourages the idea that the focus of men regarding set is to get it in a hole. I don't mind these type of products and have one that is fun for me and my hubby. This however ... more
If there was a "Man not necessary" one I'd be ROTFLMAO.

Honestly, it seems to me like people are making an effort to be offended by this one.
06/05/2011
Contributor: KrissyRoro KrissyRoro
I see all sides of this, but it is a bit tacky, or just not well thought out atleast.
06/05/2011