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Contributor: Ansley Ansley


Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish to be a part of it!

New Year's Resolutions are most often made, then quickly broken. Especially the garden variety resolutions - lose weight, stop smoking, cut out processed foods, so forth and so on. Those seem the easiest of all to break. Who said our resolutions for a new year needed to be focused on those things in the first place?

What about sexual resolutions? If you had to make a list of five sexual resolutions for the New Year, what would they be and which do you think you are least likely to keep? Which ones are you most likely to keep?

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Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Try something new and surprising more often... I don't know if I'll keep up with it, but I'm sure I could for a while.
2. Have some kind of sexual activity at least once a day... I'd really want to keep up with this one, and probably will
3. To be more passionate while loving... I will do this because I love the man I'm with
4. Try a new position once a week... I can keep this as long as there is something to try
5. Have complete control every once and a while I probably won't keep that just because we are pretty even when it comes to taking care of each other.
01/07/2013
Contributor: Grellopop Grellopop
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
Sexual resolutions for me would probably be....
1. To enjoy it more and take my time, this is one I think I can keep pretty well.
2. Work past my own inhibitions, this will take time and some help from EF but I really want to do it.
3. Have sexual activity at least three times a week, I'm not sure if I can keep this one but I want to, badly.
4. Explore myself and find more 'pleasure buttons', this one will be difficult....
5. Learn to give head. This ones 50/50 so well see lol.

01/09/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
1. Be more passionate with my wife
2. Explore our sexuality
3. Be more creative
4. Try bondage and roleplay
5. Sex more often

We lead busy lives with children, but I think we can accomplish all 5 items on the list.
01/09/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
1. Be more affectionate towards my husband
2. Show him I appreciate him more with physical emotions
3. Be more sexually open with my husband
4. Find more about my sexual needs that I don't know about myself
5. Be more open to my husbands sexual needs and fantasy's.

My husband and I do have a good relationship but it has a lot of room for improvements. I really want to get more out of life with my husband so I need to really work on his needs and what turns him on so we can reconnect and bond more sexually. Not sure if I can improve the way I see myself but will try to that has always been hard for me.
01/09/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Try something new
2. Give more oral
3. Buy more toys
4. Try new positions
5. Be more spontaneous

i would probably be less likely to be more spontaneous only because we have kids.
01/09/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by Grellopop
Sexual resolutions for me would probably be....
1. To enjoy it more and take my time, this is one I think I can keep pretty well.
2. Work past my own inhibitions, this will take time and some help from EF but I really want to do it.
3. Have ... more
have you never given oral?
01/09/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Grellopop
Sexual resolutions for me would probably be....
1. To enjoy it more and take my time, this is one I think I can keep pretty well.
2. Work past my own inhibitions, this will take time and some help from EF but I really want to do it.
3. Have ... more
Number five is a good one to tackle.

Try this: Tickle His Pickle
01/09/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Sounds like a lot of common goals.

Is everyone just really stressed and busy or is there more to the story? (You don't have to elaborate to confirm.)

It's very frustrating when things start to go south in a relationship and the bedroom often takes the biggest hit. I'm glad to see everyone so far has something they want to work on; that's always the first step! Admitting the problem areas, once you identify them the work gets easier!
01/09/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
1. Be more expressive
2. Have more confidence in my sexuality
3. Continue to explore our kinky sides
4. Give more massages
5. Try to master squirting
01/09/2013
Contributor: Leo Kun Leo Kun
1. Explore sexuality with my partner
2. Try we-vibe (is on the way)
3. Try roleplay
4. Sex more often
5. Teach my partner how to make massage %)
01/09/2013
Contributor: BabyGirl25 BabyGirl25
1. Fully take advantage of my single status
2. Learn how to have a G-spot orgasm (very important to me)
3. Gain confidence
4. Stop making apologies to those who don't understand my sexuality
5. Experiment!
01/09/2013
Contributor: gingerhiker gingerhiker
1. Do kegel exercises 5 days a week.
2. Find a new position in which I can orgasm during masturbation.
3. Talk to my partner about 3 or more fantasies.
4. Be honest about my sexual and emotional boundaries.
5. Learn more about BDSM and begin trying some power or pain play.
01/09/2013
Contributor: deb2483 deb2483
1. Love and accept my body as it is & relax about my partner seeing it.
2. Express my sexual desires openly.
3. Make sex fun!
4. Be more open to acting out my partners sexual fantasies.
5. Have sex in a variety of locations outside of the bedroom.
01/09/2013
Contributor: Jo22 Jo22
1. let go of my restraint on 'one night stands', I don't want a relationship and I want to end my way too long period of abstinence 2.Find my g-spot, I have to stop over thinking it and get lost in a fantasy 3. Try new toys that I've been wanting 4.I want to play out some of my new favorite fantasys/needs-but I need a damn partner(see #1 lol) 5. Have at least one orgasm a day no matter how much I don't feel in the mood
01/09/2013
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
1. Kegels 3 weeks out of every month, five times a week
2. Learn to G-spot orgasm
3. Come up with a better storage spot for my toys
4. Teach/get my boyfriend to give me an orgasm
5. Become great at deep-throating (gag reflex, you must go!)

5 should be like #2 but these are in no particular order.
01/09/2013
Contributor: Ichigo Renji Ichigo Renji
i've never had any sort of sexual experience at all, so i don't think i could come up with five specific resolutions really. i'd like to say my first (and prob only) one could be "get laid!" or some variation of it, but i'm not particularly in a rush anyway...and what's one more year?

though i would like to be more confident in my sexuality, as i'm not very open/"out" with most of the people in my life...and i would like to get a new vibe or two that are a little higher quality/more adventurous than mine, the ones i've tried have been pretty boring ^_^
01/10/2013
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
1. Lose weight so I can feel great about myself again. It may not sound like it, but this has a LOT to do with sex. :\ I am so feisty and passionate and awesome when I'm happy with my body. I know my boyfriend is happy with it, but that means nothing when I'm not happy about it.
2. Expand my toy collection!
3. Be more romantic
4. Be more adventurous!
5. Get better at deep throating. . . e_e

The only one I might have trouble with is losing weight. . . But I HAVE to. I can't keep living this way. I want to be happy again.

The one I will have no trouble at all with is buying more toys. XD
01/10/2013
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
1. More strap-on anal
2. More anal as the recipient
3. Moisturise my vagina (menopause is a bitch!)
4. Get SilverHubby's vasectomy done (We're still waiting on the urology referral)
5. Finally get a wand! I have reviewed so many sex toys, and have never tried the Hitachi Magic Wand or any of its competitors! Time to change that.
01/10/2013
Contributor: FlashFuchsia FlashFuchsia
1. Be more comfortable with the body I'm given
2. Love it more
3. Try something new
4. Get laid (? lol)
5. Slow down and stop worrying
01/10/2013
Contributor: ADrew ADrew
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
Wow five is a lot...
1) Have more sex
2) Be more sexually attentive to my wife
3) Be more willing to have sex with my wife that doesn't have to be just sex, massages, playing, those kind of things.
4) Help make sure our sex isn't becoming routine
5) Win more toys from Eden Fantasys!

So okay of the group I would guess the last one is the one that will be least likely to be held to...
01/10/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
1. Enjoy oral sex given to me again - I want this one real bad!
2. Have easier G spot O's - I need this one & crave it.
3. Learn to Think Off! - I know I can, I know I can"
4. Have an O during Intercourse - This is a hope for but don't ever think it will happen
5. Let my partner take the lead more often - This is going to be the hardest!
01/10/2013
Contributor: surfer surfer
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1. Have sex more frequently (most likely to keep)
2. Incorporate a bit of B/D
3. Be less inhibited
4. Be more open about my needs
5. Learn to use more toys with my partner (least likely to keep -- sometimes I find it interrupts the flow of things...)
01/10/2013
Contributor: Erotithon Erotithon
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Welcome to a New Year at Edenfantasys.com. You could say that 2012 was a transitional year for us, now that we've worked out some of the kinks we hope that 2013 is even bigger and better than 2012 ever hoped to be! We're happy all of you wish ... more
1- Surprising my wife in new, untried, and seductively innovative ways.

2- Take her in the washroom of our favorite restaurant.

3- She tends to sleep well on longer drives... So I'll make it a point to have her wake in a place she'll love but hadn't intended to be.

4- Submit

5- Dominate

As I'm the type that perseveres, each of these will be accomplished and none will go unpracticed. There are far worse things to commit to.
01/10/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
1. Have more swag by getting better at hip hop dance class, to then be able to show off and attract more people

2. Play more often at play parties, particularly in ways I never have before (i.e. needle play) and with people who have always seemed interesting but I was kind of jaded/ cynical to get to know, but feel like I should try to get to know

3. Get more toys via Eden

4. Have sex with that person who keeps implying they'd like to do it, and someone else if they do come to my state during the summer like they said they might

5. Be more open and honest about what I want out of people from the get go, when we form relationships/ meet
01/10/2013
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
1 ) Get in shape.
2 ) Play more video games.
3 ) Love my body AS IS.
4 ) Get more toys
5 ) Drink less.. unless I'm with my boyfriend.
01/10/2013
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
1.) Experience an orgasm: really don't know if this will happen, but I'm trying!
2.) get the royal pony butt plug all the way in: I've been working on this off and on for a while. I think I could do it in a year. XD
3.) get the Jimmy Jane Form 2 or eroscillator and fingertip attachment: I really want to finally get one of these!
4.) Learn to be happier with my body
5.) self fisting: I've been trying, but I always have to stop after 4 fingers, I'm not real confident in this one
01/10/2013
Contributor: zorya zorya
1. Be less shy about communicating my desires.
2. Try something new at least weekly.
3. Invest in a set of the smaller Luna Beads now that they exist.
4. Be more confident about my body.
5. Initiate play more frequently.
01/10/2013
Contributor: phroggielicker phroggielicker
1. try to be more sexually confident
2. try bondage
3. sex more often
4. be more understanding of his needs
5. learn to do anal to my bf and not be disgusted by it
01/10/2013
Contributor: EmuLove EmuLove
1. More everyday kisses
2. More Foreplay
3. Sex on a weekly basis
4. Cuddle more
5. Explore more together
01/10/2013