How to spice up a marriage that has been so spicy for years and all of a sudden the past two years it’s like we are buddies?

Yes, I have seen this happen with other couples in my family. I would first communicate with your husband about it (like the advice given in the other discussion post).

But as far as spicing things up in the bedroom--Eden has lots of neat items for that! You should check out the 'couples' section for some neat ideas. There's a bunch of items in the Sensual massage section that would really spice things up! There are Love games for couples and also Romantic sex kits!! Grab some nice scented candles to fill the room with a nice fragrance and candlelight. Pick up some whipped cream to add some sweetness to your play and invite your husband to have some fun!!