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Best way to spice up a relationship?

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Contributor: Sweet-n-sensual Sweet-n-sensual
I want to get feedback on what you guys have experienced as the best ways to brig life to your sex life!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Role play
Sweet-n-sensual , Taylor , LoneOokami
3  (11%)
Toys
ChubbyNerd , js250 , edeneve , BlooJay , PropertyOfPotter , Mr. E , bratcat , Herzer , Gunsmoke , Rosen Rot , twelve13 , potstickers , nikki0668 , Lioncub , bayosgirl , SaucyxGirl
16  (59%)
Lingerie
spunkmonkey , dawnkye , Sera26 , Hummingbird , cburger , Checkmate , Pete's Princess , TJtheMadHatter
8  (30%)
Total votes: 27
Poll is closed
03/17/2013
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Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
For us, toys have spiced things up.
03/17/2013
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
Lingerie works for us.
03/17/2013
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
I would like to have chosen all of the above.
03/17/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
While the introduction of toys can for sure spice up ones sex life, as well and lingerie and role playing, it's best to talk with your partner openly about your sexual fantasies and what you two may or may not want to try out in the bed room before jumping right in with a toy or trying to role play - as one of you may find you dont care for one or the other. It's good to explore options in a safe consensual setting, where you both will feel comfortable with what is happening and know each others boundaries.
personally speaking all three have been a great addition to my sex life.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Herzer Herzer
I have to agree with bratcat. Talk it out and find out what your partner really wants or is willing to try.
03/18/2013
Contributor: dawnkye dawnkye
I like lingerie~
03/18/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Definable toys - lingerie use to be a turn on, but she resisted for so long that when she does, I could care less (but I don't tell her that).
03/18/2013
Contributor: Rosen Rot Rosen Rot
Everything in that list.
03/18/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
We like toys. A lot.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
In our case it was the lingerie first then the toys.
03/19/2013
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
All of the above works great!
03/24/2013
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Toys for sure. I would like to say lingerie but have too much trouble finding it to fit me and still look good.
03/24/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
(Review Program Mentor)
If you make your partner feel desired and loved that is the best way to spice up a relationship. Make him feel like a king and you get the keys to the kingdom.
03/24/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
By far toys for me. You can get creative, experience new sensations etc.Plus my partner and I love browsing and then waiting for the purchase to arrive so we can "test" it.
03/25/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
Lingerie has worked out great for us. He's not really into toys, but he's becoming more comfortable with me discussing them openly. That's a huge change, from even a couple of months ago. Hopefully we'll be bring my toys into the mix, very soon.
03/25/2013