My wife recently finished the 50 Shades trilogy. As a result, I'm now in trouble as we had 0 items of fun prior to her reading. Recently, I purchased her first ben wa set, a Pyrex icicle style dildo, and a waterproof wabbit (none from this site as I hadn't discovered EF yet).

The question now becomes, what's next? She's open to trying new things but pretty shy about actually picking out items. Everything I purchased for her was a bit of a surprise. From what we've talked about, she's open to anything while I'm a bit more reserved with typical male, well, reservations.

Any thoughts on what to pick out next? We figure an item a month would make things exciting!

We're also looking for some lubricant that would be compatible with her Wabbit and anything else in the future that we may purchase.

I know this is somewhat of a loaded / open ended question but I'm not sure what to get next. Thanks! less

If she is shy about what she wants to pick out have her look online when you aren't around to pick things out she can put them in a wishlist and you can order to surprise her. As for lubes not knowing what material the wabbit is it will be hard to say. If you are using silicone toys water based lubes are the best. An being open to trying new things doesn't help much either not knowing what type of play and toys you both are interested in. less

You need a good waterbased lube to use with toys. I like the sliquid brand as they are glycerin free and paraben free. Not all women have issues with those ingredients though. I would read lots or reviews and there are tons of forum threads on lubes too you could read. Here is my favorite one ride h2o.

As far as toys go you are welcome to visit my profile and look at my favorites. I would be happy to answer any questions you might have about any of those toys. Some folks use the favorites as a type of wishlist while other contributors use it to show case the things they have that they like best. I would look around at several of those and see which things are universally loved!

Welcome to EF! There is so much to learn! less

I'm not into anal lpay for myself but my wife said she's open to anything. I think our next purchase might be some sort of restraint system. Our se life went from vanilla to interesting ever since she read those books so there's quite a bit we're taking in while expanding our horizons. less

My wife recently finished the 50 Shades trilogy. As a result, I'm now in trouble as we had 0 items of fun prior to her reading. Recently, I purchased her first ben wa set, a Pyrex icicle style dildo, and a waterproof wabbit (none from this site as I hadn't discovered EF yet).

The question now becomes, what's next? She's open to trying new things but pretty shy about actually picking out items. Everything I purchased for her was a bit of a surprise. From what we've talked about, she's open to anything while I'm a bit more reserved with typical male, well, reservations.

Any thoughts on what to pick out next? We figure an item a month would make things exciting!

We're also looking for some lubricant that would be compatible with her Wabbit and anything else in the future that we may purchase.

I know this is somewhat of a loaded / open ended question but I'm not sure what to get next. Thanks! less