Do your "anal sessions" go right for the back door, or is it usually part of general sex play?

Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
When you end up having anal, since some of you do quite a bit of "prep", is it usually the entire activity, pretty much, or is it part of a "full range of activities" that same session?
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When I am going for anal, that is pretty much where all the attention is.
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When I am going for anal, it is usually part of a session involving more "tradiional sex".
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When I am going for anal, it is usually part of a session involving toys, used elsewhere as well
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When I am going for anal, it kind of just happens, as part of a regular love making session
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OTHER?
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Total votes: 48 (32 voters)
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06/26/2011
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Contributor: TheeGirlNextDoor TheeGirlNextDoor
I usually have anal sex with i am on my period or just really really horny. I also tend to use toys vaginally during anal sex.
06/26/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
it just happen
06/26/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
Sometimes it'll just happen, sometimes after some foreplay or sex. Sometimes with toys (DP!)

Pretty much all of the above with me. I don't require prep or anything, I love anal so I'm happiest if it just happens, but if we're fooling around or in the middle of sex I don't mind if we start anal then either
06/26/2011
Contributor: curmudgeoncat curmudgeoncat
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Originally posted by TheeGirlNextDoor
I usually have anal sex with i am on my period or just really really horny. I also tend to use toys vaginally during anal sex.
Same here.
06/28/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I definitely prefer vaginal penetration along with it. Makes it more comfortable & arousing.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
If I want anal, (I have to also feel ready) during our play, I just ask for it.
If my b/f wants to be pegged, he usually chooses a harness and dil and just puts the combo on the nightstand.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
depends on what mood i am in if i want anal i just say after ur done eating me put it in my butt but then sometimes i want it while sex is happening and sometimes we just go right to anal. i never know with me where its going to end!
07/15/2011
Contributor: Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
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Originally posted by Bignuf
When you end up having anal, since some of you do quite a bit of "prep", is it usually the entire activity, pretty much, or is it part of a "full range of activities" that same session?
I chose all of the above. Most commonly, I'll know in advance that Teh Butt Secks is on the menu and there'll be some toys, foreplay (either oral or rimming), sometimes PIV sex, sometimes bondage/BDSM/kinky stuff... never know! That's part of the fun!

But overall I guess "we get right to it" is a good catchall, if Anal is the main event so to speak.
07/15/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
This depends on the partner a bit... with a partner who likes to rim sometimes we'll just jump right to that, and then straight into anal from there.

With a partner who doesn't like to rim (and rimming's not the kind of thing I'm going to try to convince someone to try if they're not into it) then usually vaginal sex is the warmup. Some positions really make me crave a cock in my ass (like knees over shoulders, for one). These serve as good warmup for DP, or for plain anal.

Anal's always the finisher for hygiene purposes, though.
07/15/2011
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
For me I know anal is going to be a big part of our sessions, along with the whips, breath play, and other things involving BDSM. I have the lube at a stand right next to the bed along with everything else layed out for Him.
07/15/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Antipova
This depends on the partner a bit... with a partner who likes to rim sometimes we'll just jump right to that, and then straight into anal from there.

With a partner who doesn't like to rim (and rimming's not the kind of thing ... more
Oh, I only answered for partner sex.


For masturbation, if I'm in an anal mood I'll line things up with toys back there first, and add vaginal play as an afterthought.
07/15/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
It is not to often that it is part of sex with the wife, mostly because I am the only one that plays back there. If it does happen during that time the wife will use a plug/probe/dil as part of foreplay.

For solo time I start out back there and end with dual stimulation with a stroker or hand.
07/15/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Having anal or not depends on the condition I'm in, if I'm not bloated or feeling gassy, I'll take a nice, long shower and put my Pure plug in before I hop into bed.
Anal sex is always only a part of the main activity for us, my husband prefers virginal much more than anal.
07/15/2011