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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
So I believe it was Kendra who posted a forum question about anal fissures JUST this morning. Oddly enough, my husband found out he has a minor one. I was almost positive it was just an issue with stomach acid, but it turns out our toys have hurt him Nothing as ugly as you see in pictures... but from now on, our anal play has to be very light.

I am curious if anyone knows of the best anal sex toys that are THINNER, and best for BEGINNERS? Preferably something small, made of silicone, and less texture.

Thank you so much!
09/28/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Captivating topic discussions on Anal Sex:

Begs, Barters and.............Damn!
This was inspired by my genesis of anal sex, and so many of the conversations I hear from my friends about trying anal sex! link

Is anal sex an every day thing for you??
I know for some people it is and for some it isnt and i just wondered.

Every night of the week??
How often do you experience anal sex within a week??

Am I gay?
I do enjoy anal sex and prostate stimulation. Does it make me gay?

Anal Fissures or Tears from Sex? If so, what DID you do, after that?
Anyone ever develop anal fissures or tears from anal sex? If so, how did you treat them, and has it caused you to avoid anal sex, or change how you do
09/28/2011
Contributor: Kissaki Kissaki
The Silk Small would fit those requirements. We use it for warm up. It's about the size of a finger.
09/28/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I don't want to throw stones - but if he has developed a fissure, it's because you (plural) are going too fast. You need to take more time to and use more lube - the old adage is there cannot be too much lube - and if you think you have enough lube - add more!

Until he heals there should be no anal play - even for a good period of time after the pain goes away. Then start with a finger and go from there.

My wife just gave me a mind blowing experience last night using what she calls 'the popper'. It the glass Silenzio - and she's referring to how my anus opens and closes around the wavy texture of the glass - it's amazing - but not a beginner toy.

As a beginner I actually found the small end of the Pure Wand @ just 1" to be very easy to accommodate and the curve gets right to the p-spot.

Don't give up - the pleasure is too intense to by-pass.
09/28/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I don't want to throw stones - but if he has developed a fissure, it's because you (plural) are going too fast. You need to take more time to and use more lube - the old adage is there cannot be too much lube - and if you think you have ... more
Well of course, about going slow and using lubricant. We did get the whole talk about that at the doctor's office. What's happened is he hates feeling the lube drip and he'll have me use less and we don't go fast... it's the texture he likes. This is why I was looking for good, untextured anal toys that we can use.

And I know that we cannot play for a long time but I just got paid and I would like to buy toys now.

I'm not a complete idiot when it comes to these things as I worked at a healthcare clinic specifically for STD's, sexual injuries, pregnancies, etc. We came across fissures a lot. I don't mean this in a rude way, I just mean that I am educated on the issue and I know not to touch him anally for a long time. Our doctor is recommending at least a month and a half but we are giving it 2 months.
09/28/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by Kissaki
The Silk Small would fit those requirements. We use it for warm up. It's about the size of a finger.
Thanks so much!
09/28/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
You might look at the Tantus Acute, it is fairly small (1 1/4") and has a light texture. Above all, the silicone is soft and it will still stimulate the prostate.
09/28/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Wait until it is completely healed and start with a finger. Fingers hold lube better than toys and have sensation so the finger-driver can tell what's going on better than a toy-driver.
09/30/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Have you considered glass toys? There should be plenty non textured & we like them better than silicone most times.
10/11/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
Have you considered glass toys? There should be plenty non textured & we like them better than silicone most times.
Well as a glass collector, I own a whole lot of glass. We have a very small toy called the "Prickler" but it has subtle yet easily felt texture that I think wouldn't work well. It is very thin though, like the size of a finger. I've been trying to find other thin glass toys but EF is sold out of a lot right now.
10/11/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Wait until it is completely healed and start with a finger. Fingers hold lube better than toys and have sensation so the finger-driver can tell what's going on better than a toy-driver.
That's a really good tip actually. It's funny that I didn't even think of that. That way I can tell if he's tightening up then he might be in pain and whatnot.
10/11/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
You might look at the Tantus Acute, it is fairly small (1 1/4") and has a light texture. Above all, the silicone is soft and it will still stimulate the prostate.
I will definitely look into that. It sounds just right. The texture worries me but I'm sure once he's entirely healed we could work with it. Thanks!
10/11/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
sedeux please This one is rather small also. This one has slight texture, you can not see it until you get it. You can tell there are some bulbs.
10/11/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Obviously wait until he is healed and then I would suggest the NJoy Pure Plug, med and the Pure Wand. They both go in so easy and overall with little lube.
10/11/2011