Can pegging make you gay

Contributor: Love getting pegged Love getting pegged
We have been begging for several years now I love it it is the best orgasm I have ever had but it seems lately I want to try the real thing more and more all the time does anybody else feel that way
11/05/2018
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Originally posted by Love getting pegged
We have been begging for several years now I love it it is the best orgasm I have ever had but it seems lately I want to try the real thing more and more all the time does anybody else feel that way
Dear LGP,
I may not be the best person to advise here - I'm sure our LGBTQ+ contributors would have a more experienced go at your answer - but I believe that nothing can "make" you other than what you already are. No amount of anal play will ever turn a straight man into a gay man. It can be possible that you are only just discovering and facing these feelings now although you've had them for a long time - maybe you're just curious, maybe there's more to it. I encourage you to investigate those feelings, listen to yourself, talk to your partner. I'm sure some great advice will appear here, as well.

Best of luck!
11/09/2018
Contributor: PolyGirl PolyGirl
Arousal is complex and includes a spectrum of experiences. People can enjoy a sensual experience or fantasy that wouldn't really work for them sexually in real life. They could enjoy a sexual experience but not have romantic feelings that match. They could try something for the adventure or novelty and be done with it, or it could open doors to new experiences and relationships.

As long as people are safe, healthy, and respectful of others, exploring can be great way to learn about themselves and relationships.

You ask if other people feel that way, not about that particular practice, but I definitely expanded my experience beyond what I thought it would be as I learned and experienced more. In other words, my turn-ons definitely changed over time as I was exposed to more experiences, but my fundamental sexual orientation didn't change.
11/09/2018
Contributor: Love getting pegged Love getting pegged
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Originally posted by PolyGirl
Arousal is complex and includes a spectrum of experiences. People can enjoy a sensual experience or fantasy that wouldn't really work for them sexually in real life. They could enjoy a sexual experience but not have romantic feelings that match. ... more
I believe you are right I never realized anal sex could be so enjoyable I love it it's the best sex I ever had but I often wonder what the real thing would feel like even though I do not find men attractive or am I attracted to them I just got all these Curiosities on what a real dick would feel like in my ass
11/09/2018
Contributor: Love getting pegged Love getting pegged
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Originally posted by GingerAnn
Dear LGP,
I may not be the best person to advise here - I'm sure our LGBTQ+ contributors would have a more experienced go at your answer - but I believe that nothing can "make" you other than what you already are. No amount of anal ... more
Thank you for the good advice I guess I have always been a good looking cute man I have had women tell me that ever since I was a teenager I am a service man so I go to many different houses I have had many women hit on me along with many men also I want to one house in Detroit a very wealthy black man's house him and three of his gay buddies were there in the four of them are trying to talk me into staying and partying with them I know what they wanted I told them no in a real nice way but I always wonder what would have happened if I would have stayed I even fantasize about it sometimes
11/09/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Originally posted by Love getting pegged
Thank you for the good advice I guess I have always been a good looking cute man I have had women tell me that ever since I was a teenager I am a service man so I go to many different houses I have had many women hit on me along with many men also I ... more
Well, that's just like PolyGirl said - you may have different fantasies, some of them may even seem a bit "weird", but it's absolutely ok.

For example, one of my fantasies include gettin' sexy with more than one partner, but, due to many reasons, I would never act on that fantasy. It doesn't mean I will ever quit fantasizing about it

On the other hand, you may go even further than splitting your sex life into fantasy vs reality. You can have things that would remain fantasies forever, some things you tried once and won't go back to them, and then other things that become part of your erotic menu forever.

Experiencing SEXperiences is fun
11/12/2018
Contributor: Love getting pegged Love getting pegged
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Originally posted by GingerAnn
Well, that's just like PolyGirl said - you may have different fantasies, some of them may even seem a bit "weird", but it's absolutely ok.

For example, one of my fantasies include gettin' sexy with more than one partner, ... more
You're right I think you like it better as a fantasy I never thought anal sex could be so enjoyable honestly it is the best sex that I have ever had I wish you girls could experience a prostate orgasm but I will never quit wondering what the real thing feels like especially since I had a chance to sleep with those four guys think about it everyday
11/12/2018
Contributor: Shark09 Shark09
Are you attracted to men?
That's the question you need to find the answer to. Getting pegged doesn't make you gay. Having anal sex doesn't make you gay either. If you have feelings for or are finding other men attractive, then you might be gay.
11/22/2020