Men who have been pegged or anally stimulated are more considerate. I think that if a man wants to give anal sex and a woman wants to give anal sex then they should both get it or neither.
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Do you think that if a guy wants to do anal on a girl it's only fair for him to let the girl peg him back?
02/10/2013
This topic came up and I was curious about it but she was not. The deal was if she could do it to me, then she would consider it as well. I tried it and loved it, but she still wasn't convinced so only I partake in it now. I don't push the subject because I don't feel that there should be any pressure to try something new for someone else. All I can do is show how much I enjoy it and see if she ever changes her mind to give it a go.
02/21/2013
No way. I think the male should only do anal with the woman if they BOTH want anal. And the woman should peg the male if they BOTH want him to be pegged. This also implies that anal is just an act that should just be tolerated by women. However, many women (and men) love it. But it's fine if they don't, too. Just like some men and women love pegging. But it's fine if they don't.
Related example. If a woman wanted her guy to perform oral on her (and he liked doing so), the woman shouldn't feel a need to perform oral on him afterwards if she didn't want to (even if he enjoyed it). No one should feel obligated to do things sexually with their partner(s).
Related example. If a woman wanted her guy to perform oral on her (and he liked doing so), the woman shouldn't feel a need to perform oral on him afterwards if she didn't want to (even if he enjoyed it). No one should feel obligated to do things sexually with their partner(s).
02/23/2013
Only what a person wants to do, It is not good other wize
02/25/2013
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I wouldn't force anyone to do something they weren't completely comfortable with trying.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
03/02/2013
I don't personally have an interest in pegging, but it's whatever works for your relationship dynamic
03/02/2013
I don't think anyone is ever obligated to do anything. If he wants to give but not receive, that is his right. But, if she doesn't want to receive, that is her right too. However, I do think that if a man wants someone to take it up the ass, he is obligated to at least educate himself about what it will feel like for his partner. He can do that through reading, experimenting with himself, whatever. But he shouldn't ask his partner to do something he doesn't understand.
03/16/2013
As long as everyone has a good time and no one gets hurt, things are ok in my opinion! So if she doesn't want to take it in the butt and he does, and that works for them, good!
The idea of someone receiving out of a sense of obligation is really off to me. My boy has offered to try pegging and has experimented with some anal before but he's really not that into it and only does it because I like it, and it feels so weird and uncomfortable for me.
The idea of someone receiving out of a sense of obligation is really off to me. My boy has offered to try pegging and has experimented with some anal before but he's really not that into it and only does it because I like it, and it feels so weird and uncomfortable for me.
03/17/2013
Hey, so long as everyone's happy (and not just suffering through because they've been pressured into it), then I don't care.
03/17/2013
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^this. It's obvious to me that there should be no pressure or expectations to do what is outside the comfort zone (unless it is to try something new, in which case both partners should take it easy and have open communication on what is/is not working)
Originally posted by
Kayla
There's no "should" in this case. That's how uncomfortable relationships start. If the person is comfortable with it, then yes, it could be done. But if the person is uncomfortable, there should be no pressure to do it. Same to be
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There's no "should" in this case. That's how uncomfortable relationships start. If the person is comfortable with it, then yes, it could be done. But if the person is uncomfortable, there should be no pressure to do it. Same to be said with both male or female.
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03/25/2013
i wish my boyfriend would let me
04/02/2013
I agree with others here that there should be no forcing or making someone uncomfortable doing something. Sex isnt 'tit for tat' and I hate when women (usually anti-anal) say 'Let me do it to you first!' Sex shouldn't resemble childish games.
The best lovers are those with open minds who strive to please their partner. Any new activity can be discussed to see what works for both people. The above 'only if I get to do it to you too!' is more done out of spite or revenge or something, not out of a genuine desire to penetrate her man. If a woman does get turned on by the thought of pegging she should approach her partner and see how he feels and then go from there, taking small steps if need be. Which is exactly how men should approach women about engaging in anal sex.
If both partners main goal is to please the other, then the sky is the limit for sexual exploration and pleasure.
The best lovers are those with open minds who strive to please their partner. Any new activity can be discussed to see what works for both people. The above 'only if I get to do it to you too!' is more done out of spite or revenge or something, not out of a genuine desire to penetrate her man. If a woman does get turned on by the thought of pegging she should approach her partner and see how he feels and then go from there, taking small steps if need be. Which is exactly how men should approach women about engaging in anal sex.
If both partners main goal is to please the other, then the sky is the limit for sexual exploration and pleasure.
04/05/2013
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The guy shouldn't HAVE to. I think he should...somethings are one sided...but she can always counteroffer!
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
05/13/2013
I'm married and my husband has done anal sex with me but he only ever gives, but I think he would be up for a rim job and maybe even a finger or 2 in there. But he knows I love to get anal sex so I don't bother him about me doing anything to him anally..
05/14/2013
It's a matter of personal preference and they need to respect their partners decision on the subject.
05/18/2013
I used to think that way. I think they should come to what ever is right in their relationship. If he wants to take it and she wants to give it, hey go for it.
05/18/2013
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My partner is very against any butt play on his cute little butt but he seems semi-curious about my behind though he's very softspoken about his wants. I want to peg him though! I would like mutual anal but for now, I'll take what I can get.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
06/13/2013
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lol yes and i have done that to my fiance
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
06/17/2013
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I don't think that things should function specifically on a "fair" basis, however if a guy reacts with something along the lines of "ew, that's disgusting and I'd never consider it" when a girl counters his suggestion of anal with pegging, then he deserves a smack upside the head.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
06/17/2013
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I think if the girl wants to do it back then the guy should be receptive, yes.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
06/24/2013
BP addictive
I was one of them guy's for year's said nothing was going up there it was exit only. Then my then wife divorce me and now 3 year's later and a new girlfriend who has shown me sex toys ( which was nonexistent in the marriage ) especially butt plugs she is a 24/ 7 wearer of butt plug except when we play with other toys my girlfriend ask me about using a butt plug at first said no then after a month or so I caved in and tired one. My girlfriend show me how to insert and to take it slow well I'm now a full time wearer myself and I can say she has pegged me a few times with her strap on she even dare me on a bet to take her 18 inch doublehead dildo all the way well I lose that one only got 17 inches in the chicken out
But yes a man should feel and understand what he doing to his wife or girlfriend in anal play this way he understands how to take it slow instead of fast at first.
But yes a man should feel and understand what he doing to his wife or girlfriend in anal play this way he understands how to take it slow instead of fast at first.
02/28/2019
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I would love to find a partner who would peg me back. Sometimes it's fun to be on the receiving end. I have tried with men to get the experience, but it is disagreeable with me because I have no attraction to men.
Originally posted by
sexysweetieshan
Yeah, they definitely shouldn't HAVE to let a girl do it back to him. I would love to do that to my hubby, but he just doesn't like it, so I can't.
07/24/2020
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I think this more encompasses the way I feel about it and why I voted yes to this one. I am extremely open to expanding my sexual horizons, but my wife is basically a prude. It gets old and makes sex too routine, no matter how much I try to make it more interesting. She just wants to do one thing and that's it, yet she thinks the sex has gotten boring. WTF?!
Originally posted by
ScottA
Interesting - I read it as "should he be willing to consider anal play" for which my answer was yes - if he wants his partner to be open to expanding horizons, then he should also make an attempt to be open to expanding his horizons. Does
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Interesting - I read it as "should he be willing to consider anal play" for which my answer was yes - if he wants his partner to be open to expanding horizons, then he should also make an attempt to be open to expanding his horizons. Does he have to like it? No. Should she tie him up and make him? NO!
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07/24/2020
Donb222
Yes I do.Especially if hes pressuring her to do it.
02/23/2021
To be honest, since I started pegging him he rarely go in my butt anymore. However I'm thinking I wouldn't mind it once in a while.
02/26/2021
WhiteFox
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Very fair answer!
Originally posted by
Sir
I agree with this.
In my own opinion, pegging is very different from anal sex. That requires a lot more comfort of the partners. Sure, anal sex requires comfort as well, but in a different way. Neither should or should not have to reciprocate ... more
In my own opinion, pegging is very different from anal sex. That requires a lot more comfort of the partners. Sure, anal sex requires comfort as well, but in a different way. Neither should or should not have to reciprocate ... more
I agree with this.
In my own opinion, pegging is very different from anal sex. That requires a lot more comfort of the partners. Sure, anal sex requires comfort as well, but in a different way. Neither should or should not have to reciprocate - it will happen of its own accord, when the partners are ready, or not at all. less
In my own opinion, pegging is very different from anal sex. That requires a lot more comfort of the partners. Sure, anal sex requires comfort as well, but in a different way. Neither should or should not have to reciprocate - it will happen of its own accord, when the partners are ready, or not at all. less
02/28/2021
I have always said if you wanna do anal you gotta clean up the mess AND get a taste of it yourself The dildo I use has got to be his size or bigger, it's just fair!
07/21/2021
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No.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
07/31/2021
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I became interested in anal sex from secretly watching a lot of porn in my early teen years. Then I spent time experimenting by myself to learn how it felt and how to enjoy it without pain or discomfort.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
08/02/2021
Mantus1
I don’t believe in tit for tat philosophy. What may be exciting for one person may not be for another. When it comes to sex, if someone doesn’t want it, that should be the end of the conversation. That being said, I think more guys would be into trying new things if they weren’t afraid of being judged for it. Just because a guy enjoys anal play, doesn’t mean he is attracted to other men. As long as all parties are secure and comfortable in their relationship, I think they should explore the world of sex together. Things done behind closed doors can make a relationship much more intimate.
08/13/2021