From a man's perspective, I would imagine it wasn't exactly the greatest feeling in the world when you were first penetrated vaginally. If it was a pleasant experience, excuse my rudeness and off the wall remark. If it was a little on the uncomfy side, then that is the point I am trying to make. With a little patience, experience, and trying to find out what feels good, the anus works in much the same way for both males and females. I started small (i.e. fingers, self-experimentation), trying to figure out what felt good for me. I have graduated up to toys and p-spot toys. I have not been pegged, but would be up for the possibility. Although I would imagine it varies from man to man, the prostate is generally located about about an inch to 2 inches inside the anus and is shaped like a walnut. I would recommend partner laying on his back. Once located, move your well lubed finger(s) in an upward motion along the wall of the rectal lining that faces the front of his body. Try to locate a round bulb of tissue — this is the prostate. Once you locate this area, move your finger(s) in a "come here" motion, as if you were asking someone to move closer to you so that you could whisper a secret.

For both of you, are you supposed to like anal play? Uhhmmm, no, obviously it is not for everyone. Patience, lots of lube, starting out slow at first and not rushing into it are the best advice I can give. And obviously if it is painful or you are not comfortable, try another day, and once again, take small steps!

Hope this helps....patience Grasshopper's, no need to rush! less