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Ever used your own "body" lube successfully for anal play?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
This morning we woke up "spooning". We had some nice vaginal intercourse without needing any of our lubes. I was really pretty soaked, so I said, "why don't you try the back door using my own lube"? He used his fingers and then his penis to use my very wet vaginal juices to lube my tush, and got about an inch in before I realized this was going to be a "no way...no go". I asked him to "STOP" as I reached around for that wonderful bottle of "JO" that was at hand. We then continued our fun, BUT, that was one "failed experiment". Wet as I was, in less then a minute, that natural lube was "dry/gone", whatever. Sure NOT working.

SO, I am wondering....has anyone else actually succeed using their own natural lube when doing anal play??? Is it even possible? I know there is a porn star who always says "saliva is the best lube", but I am talking about vaginal/penis lube as the ONLY lube (saliva never did it for me either).
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
YES, I have been able to do that before.
29
Nope, never worked for me.
23
Never tried.
13
Other?
1
Total votes: 66 (64 voters)
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Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Lube is a relatively recent addition to our arsenal. Anal sex has been around longer for sure. I'm sure you're not supposed to bounce between anal and vaginal penetration, but I've never had a problem.
02/27/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Never tried
02/27/2012
Contributor: bsgs bsgs
it works with fingers but we havent tried with full on sex
02/27/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I would want to have lube for extra protection, but thats just me.
02/29/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
This morning we woke up "spooning". We had some nice vaginal intercourse without needing any of our lubes. I was really pretty soaked, so I said, "why don't you try the back door using my own lube"? He used his fingers and ... more
YES
03/01/2012
Contributor: jg19 jg19
Quote:
Originally posted by oneeyedoctopus
Lube is a relatively recent addition to our arsenal. Anal sex has been around longer for sure. I'm sure you're not supposed to bounce between anal and vaginal penetration, but I've never had a problem.
I think thats an interesting subject but i would be willing to wager that sexual lubricant has been around for thousands of years. Now i dont mean KY but im sure couples would have been able to figure out an improvised solution if they happened to have some type of oil around.
03/03/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by jg19
I think thats an interesting subject but i would be willing to wager that sexual lubricant has been around for thousands of years. Now i dont mean KY but im sure couples would have been able to figure out an improvised solution if they happened to ... more
They used to SELL almond oil, and other choices as well, in the bordello's of ancient Rome. Prior to that, the Greeks were using different thin and thick oils as well. Lube, that we KNOW OF, historically, goes back many thousands of years.
03/09/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
Nope, I haven't. I'm the kind of girl that literally soaks the sheets with my own lubrication, but I've still found that my own just dries up too quickly for anal. I prefer silicone lube for that act.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Yes regularly. I rarely use lube, just spit and vaginal juices.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Beck
Yes regularly. I rarely use lube, just spit and vaginal juices.
And this worked for you???? How LONG, honestly, can you engage in anal penetration before it all goes "poof" dry??? It took, literally, under a minute for me to realize that it was getting more dry by the second.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by dbm6907
Nope, I haven't. I'm the kind of girl that literally soaks the sheets with my own lubrication, but I've still found that my own just dries up too quickly for anal. I prefer silicone lube for that act.
Ditto. Even when I am soaked vaginally, it just didn't cut it as an "anal lube". Dried in minutes...or less.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by bsgs
it works with fingers but we havent tried with full on sex
Yes, fingers seem to not require that level of lubrication.
03/15/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
To me, saliva dries out really quick. That is why they say not to lick your lips because it dries them out.
04/07/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by MissCandyland
To me, saliva dries out really quick. That is why they say not to lick your lips because it dries them out.
Licking lips removes the oil layer that protects them.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
Nope, I love anal sex but I know I need A LOT of lube to get it to feel good for me. For that reason I always use A LOT of synthetic lube to make everything work well for me.
04/07/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
This morning we woke up "spooning". We had some nice vaginal intercourse without needing any of our lubes. I was really pretty soaked, so I said, "why don't you try the back door using my own lube"? He used his fingers and ... more
I need a LOT of lube, so..nope
04/09/2012
Contributor: Nightfademusic Nightfademusic
Yes. My stuff just doesn't seem to dry very fast and I produce a lot of it.
04/17/2012
Contributor: Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
We've tried and it works, but it's so much more comfortable with lube.
04/17/2012
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
i find that when i deep throat a dildo, i can use the spit i cough up as an excellent lube for buttsex
04/20/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I know you're not "supposed" to. We usually use bottled lube. Once in a while, though... Last night, for instance, I wasn't sure what he was doing, and then, I thought, "Well, this is fun, I'm not going to stop and get some lube now. I'm feeling good." I'm a little uncomfortable this morning. It was most likely less than 15 minutes, too. We really need to remember to just grab the lube, it's right there on the headboard of the bed.

Lazy butts.. both of us.
04/20/2012
Contributor: lecanis lecanis
I've had some pretty bad tears during anal, so I'm fairly paranoid about using enough lube. I've had a couple of partners try with just vaginal secretions, and it really wasn't enough for me.
06/27/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
When I was younger I would have copious amounts of precum. With enough patience and prodding I was frequently able to get enough in there to make anal quite comfortable for both parties. That is less of an option these days though.
06/27/2012
Contributor: Roshandala Roshandala
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
This morning we woke up "spooning". We had some nice vaginal intercourse without needing any of our lubes. I was really pretty soaked, so I said, "why don't you try the back door using my own lube"? He used his fingers and ... more
its nice
02/23/2013
Contributor: Troquandala Troquandala
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
This morning we woke up "spooning". We had some nice vaginal intercourse without needing any of our lubes. I was really pretty soaked, so I said, "why don't you try the back door using my own lube"? He used his fingers and ... more
that sounds cute!!!
02/26/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
I have a few times, but i have been doing anal for a while so it wasnt a big deal for me
03/02/2013
Contributor: dawnkye dawnkye
Yes, it works just fine for me actually. It's one less step to worry about, so I like it.
03/09/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
This morning we woke up "spooning". We had some nice vaginal intercourse without needing any of our lubes. I was really pretty soaked, so I said, "why don't you try the back door using my own lube"? He used his fingers and ... more
Never actually tried.
03/10/2013
Contributor: SYNNOIR SYNNOIR
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
This morning we woke up "spooning". We had some nice vaginal intercourse without needing any of our lubes. I was really pretty soaked, so I said, "why don't you try the back door using my own lube"? He used his fingers and ... more
My partner and I Never use regular lube we always use my natural self made lube lol it helps if your partner rubs it in and starts fingering your ass and then adding a finger and then slowly slide his dick in but then again I am kinda a masochist so the pain turns me on more
03/16/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
It has worked with fingers (mine and his) but for the "real deal" I need lube to be able to take him in my ass.
04/08/2013