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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
There is a whole genre of adult videos dedicated to "gape", where they film as big a relaxed anal opening as can be achieved with penis or toy insertion. Since I have a very "tight" little bottom, regardless of toy, finger or penis play, my little "pink rosebud" as my hubby lovingly calls it, "snaps right back closed..tight as a drum" (according to him...I sure cannot see it).

However, having taken a prescription muscle relaxant for some serious aches caused by a shoulder pull (as I was ripping down a "popcorn ceiling" (my smooth finish looks REALLY good, thank you!!!), we discovered something last night. I had a little "gape" for the first time, after he withdrew his "pole" from my "tail"!!!

He was SO amazed he said, "DON'T MOVE"...and ran to get his camera and took some "gape shots" for our personal little "remember when" album. I must admit....while certainly anything but shy, I felt strange laying there, butt high in the air, waiting for him to get his camera to photograph my butt hole!!! However, I am proud he now has a real "gape" photo all his own to cherish of me!!! (He said he wishes he could add it to my other photo on his desk, to think of me all day....but we both felt it might be a bad idea...ha, ha).

Anyway, does anyone else "try" to create "gapes"? Does anyone find them "sexy", a "turn on" or ever take photos of their lovers "gape" or is this the venue of "professional porn" only (and now OUR photo album)?
07/16/2011
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Contributor: Acorn Acorn
My wife's not into anal so I have never had the chance to try this with her. I have seen it a lot in porn, however, and I do find it sexy. I'm not really sure why, though.
07/16/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Like Acom007, I can only wish. Congratulations for achieving your gape!
07/16/2011
Contributor: String of Lights String of Lights
YEEESSS!!!! Its so hot to me. I'm not sure why though? If i think about it i think its because im impressed that the submissive could take so much anally and a nice gape is like the naughty badge of honor. I still have yet to tell me girlfriend that though, she's.....not as open about sex as I am, but no rush! I know all good things have their own time
07/18/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I heard it straight from one of the industry insiders herself, those women you see in porn that have huge anal gapes are on muscle relaxers and have been sitting on butt plugs for hours before their scene! Swear on my grandmother's eyes!


It's not something I'm into and I'd seriously be concerned about possible damage to the muscles over time.
07/18/2011
Contributor: godweensatan godweensatan
it is possible to gape without muscle relaxers, and I know quite a bit about this and I can assure you MOST porn stars do not take muscle relaxers to do this, only in some of the most extreme cases (ie double anal fisting). It takes some serious anal sex to do it right. It also depends a bit on the persons anatomy just how wide the hole will get, but ANYONE can gape. Yay!

The use of things bigger than the average mans penis maybe called for. Putting medium and large butt plugs in for a while is good warm up (15mins+ for each size) and inflatable dildos/plugs work nice as well

Also this is a the biggest hint to a nice gape and what porn stars do before scenes and during scenes: Start by spreading your ass cheeks open with your hands to pull you're butt-hole "tight" and having a partner or friendly neighbor use a good sized dildo or their cock to go in and out repeatedly in shallow motions-- this tends to help the sphincter muscle relax and open up the asshole. It can cause air to enter the butt and make for some air farts, but a small price to pay for a nice gaped hole. I would suggest a couple small enemas/butt fingering in the shower before attempting any of this.

I personally like to spit in the hole after a good proper gaping on a nice young lady and watch it drip down and keep it lubed up.

Most important thing to remember is the asshole always goes back to its original happy puckered self even if you sit on a full sized freakin road cone, tight as ever and ready for its next reaming.
12/08/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ansley
I heard it straight from one of the industry insiders herself, those women you see in porn that have huge anal gapes are on muscle relaxers and have been sitting on butt plugs for hours before their scene! Swear on my grandmother's eyes! ... more
1. NO muscle relaxers, drugs or even alcohol used. 2. I am TIGHT AS A TICK back there, despite YEARS of anal play, and truth be told, that "gape" didn't stay that way long....still tight as a tick. Sorry. Just fact.
12/08/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Like Acom007, I can only wish. Congratulations for achieving your gape!
Oh thank you. I know my hubby appreciates all the skills I offer him!!!! d

The muscle relaxants used that ONE time, probably what allowed it to happen, were legit and for a medical issue (for which I ended up having to have rotator cuff repair!!!!)

NOT something I would do for just "sexual" fun.
12/08/2011
Contributor: AF AF
The story of muscle relaxants is not true. I can gape pretty easy without it, it's just learning to relax your ass. So when you pull the toy out of your ass, stay relaxed and try to avoid closing your anal sphincters where you really have the feeling of being in control of your anal sphincters. A little bit of pushing the toy out can help (but not too hard, just a tiny tiny bit). And of course when you try larger toys/plugs, the muscles in your butthole are more relaxed so more success for an anal gape.

I personally love it, the feeling of a fully relaxed and dilated butthole.
10/12/2012