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Have you ever used a toy for anal...and then said "oh, oh...I wish I hadn't done that"???

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER going there again!!! Has anyone else had a toy that was a mistake for that type of play (even if it is sold as an anal toy...which this one was?)
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Falsepast , PuddlePuppy , ladychristie , MrWishyWashy , Pi , mlmac , ViVix , Two Grand
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leanright69 , Peggi , vanilla&chocolate , BlooJay , Ghost , Gunsmoke , wildorchid , dhig , NurseKitty , bayosgirl , potstickers , Stagger13 , unfulfilled , brevado , LavenderSkies , DreamWolf
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funluvinmama , Badass , hillys , sunkissedJess , Rossie , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Melan!e
7
Total votes: 31 (31 voters)
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Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
I don't put anything back there. I don't do anal.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
i dont put anything back there at all...
04/03/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
no have never put ant thing there and won't
04/03/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I always make sure I'm aroused, as that helps greatly with anal. I also use lubricated condoms with my toys.
04/03/2012
Contributor: hillys hillys
never used a toy back there.
04/03/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Kind of. I've used toys that are too large too quickly and without adequate warm up - and then immediately had the "on, no - too fast" second thoughts as my anus spasms with pain. I've still come back to them later.

Even experienced people do stupid things now and then.
04/03/2012
Contributor: sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
Never tried anal before...so I have not had this problem.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I've never used anything other than anal plugs. My regrets are buying plugs with the wrong material and wasted my money when I took my first step into anal play.
04/03/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
No not yet.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
I'm slowly experimenting with anal toys but I know that I am really tight back there too and am trying to relax but I don't put anything in there that I'm not 100% I will be ok with.
04/04/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
If I'm going to do something big - I warm up to it by starting small, going to medium - then the large toy. Seems to work for me.
04/04/2012
Contributor: PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER ... more
I used the inflatable black dildo on myself.
It's huge to begin with, made of a kind of clingy grabby rubber, and I didn't use the choicest of lubes.
I thought get a bit in, pump it up a bit to stretch, release valve some air out, push in more, repeat...
Did NOT end well for my butt.

[Didn't mean to quote]
04/04/2012
Contributor: ladychristie ladychristie
Yes I have it was a toy for anal and I was less experienced but J bought it and tried it, to this day I'm still scared of it, he tries getting it out and I scooch across the bed holding my butt, it was a traumatic experience.
04/04/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
Not so far...but I am going very very slow...
04/04/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
no regrets! lol
04/04/2012
Contributor: NurseKitty NurseKitty
I have no regrets but I'm very choosy with what I buy to put back there.
04/05/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Nope, I know my body and how to prepare myself so nothing is ever too much.
04/05/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Nope, I know my body and how to prepare myself so nothing is ever too much.
Be careful of hubris! That's how I get in trouble (very rarely, only about twice) - "I've used this toy many times, and last time I had to do hardly any warm-up. I'll just lube it up and pop it in right now. OWWWW!"
04/05/2012
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I so enjoy anal stimulation but I am super cautious as to what I insert. I know my limits, state of arousal and my mood. If something doesn't just "feel right"" even if I have used it before, I just don't persist.
I usually masturbate with a butt plug in place, so I have my favorites.
04/05/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I haven't. I'm still learning, but so far in my kit I start out with very small beads then small plug, medium plug, and then larger plug.
07/08/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Never been down that road, but I can understand experience.
07/08/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
I have. I bought a toy awhile back that I thought I could handle. Was I ever wrong. Ouch !
07/08/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Be careful of hubris! That's how I get in trouble (very rarely, only about twice) - "I've used this toy many times, and last time I had to do hardly any warm-up. I'll just lube it up and pop it in right now. OWWWW!"
I can second that... occasionally I have thought "this is one of my favorite toys... there is no way it will be a challenge." Oopss.
07/09/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER ... more
Even toys that are meant for anal sometimes aren't meant for my behind!
08/20/2012
Contributor: Two Grand Two Grand
I tried a larger plug, lubed it up well and tried to insert it, it wouldn't fit so dumb ass me if it don't fit force it, and force it I did ouchy, ouch, it hurt so bad Itried to pull it out and that hurt more. So I finally got it out and threw it in thee trash. I learned my limits.
08/21/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
I don't use such toys at all, not interested, so nope.
08/24/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER ... more
No, that hasn't happened to me.
08/24/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
I don't use such toys at all, not interested, so nope.
Never happened with me... ^^
08/24/2012
Contributor: DashO'Roark DashO'Roark
I took on Belladonna's bitch fist and got KO'd in the first round...
I wasn't quite up to the challenge but kinda forced her in anyway.. Big mistake! She scratched me up something awful inside....Ouch!

08/25/2012