We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER going there again!!! Has anyone else had a toy that was a mistake for that type of play (even if it is sold as an anal toy...which this one was?)
Kind of. I've used toys that are too large too quickly and without adequate warm up - and then immediately had the "on, no - too fast" second thoughts as my anus spasms with pain. I've still come back to them later.
Even experienced people do stupid things now and then.
I've never used anything other than anal plugs. My regrets are buying plugs with the wrong material and wasted my money when I took my first step into anal play.
I'm slowly experimenting with anal toys but I know that I am really tight back there too and am trying to relax but I don't put anything in there that I'm not 100% I will be ok with.
We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER
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We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER going there again!!! Has anyone else had a toy that was a mistake for that type of play (even if it is sold as an anal toy...which this one was?)
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I used the inflatable black dildo on myself.
It's huge to begin with, made of a kind of clingy grabby rubber, and I didn't use the choicest of lubes.
I thought get a bit in, pump it up a bit to stretch, release valve some air out, push in more, repeat...
Did NOT end well for my butt.
Yes I have it was a toy for anal and I was less experienced but J bought it and tried it, to this day I'm still scared of it, he tries getting it out and I scooch across the bed holding my butt, it was a traumatic experience.
Nope, I know my body and how to prepare myself so nothing is ever too much.
Be careful of hubris! That's how I get in trouble (very rarely, only about twice) - "I've used this toy many times, and last time I had to do hardly any warm-up. I'll just lube it up and pop it in right now. OWWWW!"
I so enjoy anal stimulation but I am super cautious as to what I insert. I know my limits, state of arousal and my mood. If something doesn't just "feel right"" even if I have used it before, I just don't persist.
I usually masturbate with a butt plug in place, so I have my favorites.
Be careful of hubris! That's how I get in trouble (very rarely, only about twice) - "I've used this toy many times, and last time I had to do hardly any warm-up. I'll just lube it up and pop it in right now. OWWWW!"
I can second that... occasionally I have thought "this is one of my favorite toys... there is no way it will be a challenge." Oopss.
We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER
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We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER going there again!!! Has anyone else had a toy that was a mistake for that type of play (even if it is sold as an anal toy...which this one was?)
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Even toys that are meant for anal sometimes aren't meant for my behind!
I tried a larger plug, lubed it up well and tried to insert it, it wouldn't fit so dumb ass me if it don't fit force it, and force it I did ouchy, ouch, it hurt so bad Itried to pull it out and that hurt more. So I finally got it out and threw it in thee trash. I learned my limits.
We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER
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We tried one toy with a thin bead, then a thick bead, a thin bead, then a thick bead. I am pretty tight and after the thick bead went in...it really didn't want to come out. We managed with patience and lots of extra lube...but that toy is NEVER going there again!!! Has anyone else had a toy that was a mistake for that type of play (even if it is sold as an anal toy...which this one was?)
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I took on Belladonna's bitch fist and got KO'd in the first round...
I wasn't quite up to the challenge but kinda forced her in anyway.. Big mistake! She scratched me up something awful inside....Ouch!
