I was never interested in it until joining Eden but now I really want to try with my boyfriend. He has always been against it but the other night when talking I mentioned wanting to try it (he was laying on his stomach with me laying on top of him, tummy to back) because I was getting kind of turned on having my front to his back for once. I was very surprised when he agreed to try it sometime. Just messing around I was slowly rocking my pelvis into his butt and I was pleasantly surprised when he flipped onto his back and I seen that he was hard. I assume this is because he was sort of excited about the idea.

Anyway, I want to know how to go about actually doing it. Should I work it in while we are being intimate? Or would it be better to *plan* it out with him first? When it comes down to actually trying it out HOW should I do it? I want it to be pleasant for him but don't really know I'd do it. I don't want it to just feel like I'm sticking a finger or toy in there (which would be better initially?) and not actually trying to stimulate him.

All help will be greatly appreciated!