Does anyone have advice on how to "gape" ?

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Does anyone have advice on how to "gape" ?

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Contributor: TheOnenOnly TheOnenOnly
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Originally posted by cmm
Is there a specific position to be in after your plug gets removed? For me, everything just kinda closes right back up almost immediately. How do you get it to linger at a diameter similar to the plug or toy?
The easiest way to have this happen is to hold a toy inside and squeeze down on it for a minute or two, then pull it out and suck in your stomac like you're trying to look skinnier. The air will be pulled into your hole (It's harmless) And then will stay open until you release.
11/08/2019
Contributor: Jrdallas Jrdallas
When pregnant , my wife and I did way more anal . We had anal almost daily , I got to the point that anal was about 80 percent of the time . If after a couple of minutes of thrusting into her , I would pull out and she would gape and stay open if she didn't move . Wow it was fantastic to see her gaping ! I could then go balls deep in a single motion !!!
04/03/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
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Originally posted by C&K0143
It involves years of stretching and long periods of toy use. I’m talking 2 inch diameter dildo in your ass for several hours at a time. The problem is the sphincter muscle is designed to contract so no matter what you do, it will eventually close. ... more
I can distinctly remember my fiancee and me watching porn that involved anal sex. The gist of it was my fiancee spontaneously telling me that anal sex is nothing like it's depicted in porn.
04/03/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
I am so anal sex naive that I had no clue of gaping.

My fiancee told me that her former boyfriends had to dilate her ass before they could have anal sex with her. According to my fiancee, as long as guys knew how to have anal sex with her, she has had no problems due to having anal sex save her first experience with it. She has not told me about gaping. She assured me that anal sex does not cause medical problems as long as there was no damage to her ass, which was why a lot of silicon lubricant was necessary.

From memory alone, my fiancee told me that they are no detrimental consequences from having anal sex. It sounded reasonable. The sphincter is a muscle. Like all muscles, working it should make it stronger. She was absolutely adorable when she told me that her pussy was a muscle, and the more she worked it the stronger it got. So I work her pussy and mouth.

Unless a guy is preparing to have anal sex with his wife/girlfriend, why would a woman want her sphincter to gape? To me it, it sounds contrary to biology. The sphincter is the only muscle in the human body that remains in contraction. Logic reveals why.

This is just a guess: gaping could cause permanent alteration of a woman's sphincter which would cause more serious problems.

I would not advise women to use drugs to relax their sphincter muscles without prior consultation with their physicians.

BTW, my fiancee did tell me that alcohol made anal sex a lot easier for her.
04/05/2020