Insightful topic debates on Pegging:

Best dildo/kit for a beginner?
My boyfriend and I want to start pegging and I want to find a smaller dildo to start with and a good (but cheap) harness. Any suggestions?

Has anyone ever been caught getting pegged, if so by who and what did you do?
Last week while my wife and I were going at it, our neighbor spotted us pegging. She just stood there while we finished. After we were done she came..

Does anyone else fantasize about pegging?
(pegging's where you wear a strap on and use it on your guy.)

Do men like pegging?
I want to see people's experiences with pegging please :3

Has anyone tried pegging?
I'm interested, but nervous.

Bignuf - It sounds as if your attitude to it is very like ours. For us it is just another way of loving - no D/s element to it, no gender role-reversal element, no sucking.
We just think all couples should realise is that the prostate is a very sensitive part of a man the stimulation of which can cause the most amazing orgasm. Unfortunately, it has been put it in a rather awkward place access-wise - the spark-plugs on a Subaru come to mind 8-)=
I agree with you about the non-realistic dildos. The Share XL is our favourite as the shaft seems designed with prostate stimulation in mind with no attempt at realism. One aspect I enjoy is that the performance pressure is off me. If I am stressed I can find it hard to relax and focus on my role in conventional sex and the 'equipment' can get temperamental. With pegging I don't need to worry.
We also favour the face-to-face position. I love looking up at my wife while I play with her breasts and she stimulates me, the leather of the harness moulding and accentuating her softness. The combined effect gives me tingling sensations all over my body - way beyond the areas being stimulated. Then there is her gently voice encouraging me to give myself up to the fantastic sensation she is giving to me and I know I can't hold back even if I wanted to...
It doesn't seem much like a gay thing from that perspective. I do think it gives me a better understanding of what it must be like for my wife to be penetrated and I think that can only be a good thing.
Hopefully one day pegging will be accepted as as much a part of a healthy hetero couple's lovemaking as oral sex is today.

When we play with a strap on, it's just for fun as well. I'm not sure if you'd consider it "pure hetero" since I'm only female in body, we both prefer realistic dildos, and he seems to enjoy sucking my silicone dick, but we do it because we both want to, not for domination purposes.

Either way, he considers himself heteroflexible, mostly for me... And Hugh Jackman, but that's a different story. With us it isn't really a gender thing at all, it's about giving and receiving pleasure.

It's just fun for us, there's no domination involved.

Just for fun

Yes, we also do it just for fun. Neither of us are really into fem or humiliation games. We do D/s games occasionally but usually just do whatever feels good at the time. Pegging started as just another thing that's fun and feels good that was a little different than the same-old same-old.

Fun, Fun, FUN!