I know that anal toys always have flared bases on them to prevent them from heading up north further than they're supposed to, and that it's not generally recommended to put anything else up there lest you risk losing it rather unpleasantly.

My boyfriend recently discovered that having vaginal sex with me from behind while the bullet vibe from the Vibrating Leo is in my butt feels AWESOME. (I think, "Oh my God. Your vagina vibrates." was the saying that was used.) I didn't think about it at first, because it has a long string that's securely tied to the end that's meant for removing it from the bottom of the dildo (if you click the link you'll see), but could this potentially be some kind of hazard? He had me bent over the bed the one time we did it, so I figured he could keep an eye on it.

If the general consensus is there's nothing too harmful with this, I guess we'll keep doing it. But if it's an awful idea and unsafe, could anyone recommend something comparable? I don't really like big toys anally, so I need something small. Help! less

To make it totally safe you could use it with a harness, not necessarily ON your partner but just to prevent it from disappearing. It has a flared base so as long as your bum isn't majorly enjoying itself and wanting more it should be fine but I would put it in a harness or actually buy an anal vibrating toy meant to be used during sex. Use your best judgement and ask your partner to be aware and keep a watch on the toy while you use it! less

I know that anal toys always have flared bases on them to prevent them from heading up north further than they're supposed to, and that it's not generally recommended to put anything else up there lest you risk losing it rather unpleasantly.

My boyfriend recently discovered that having vaginal sex with me from behind while the bullet vibe from the Vibrating Leo is in my butt feels AWESOME. (I think, "Oh my God. Your vagina vibrates." was the saying that was used.) I didn't think about it at first, because it has a long string that's securely tied to the end that's meant for removing it from the bottom of the dildo (if you click the link you'll see), but could this potentially be some kind of hazard? He had me bent over the bed the one time we did it, so I figured he could keep an eye on it.

If the general consensus is there's nothing too harmful with this, I guess we'll keep doing it. But if it's an awful idea and unsafe, could anyone recommend something comparable? I don't really like big toys anally, so I need something small. Help! less