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Make a turn-off a turn-on??

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Contributor: Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
I'm in a bit of a pickle. I received a butt plug for review and it rather intimidated me. My hubby immediately offered to review it for me and ended up using the plug that night. It was really weird for me to see him enjoy it. Almost a turn off... Is there a way to get over that?? If he enjoys it I want him to be able to enjoy it and I would like to be able to enjoy him enjoying it. Does that make sense??
02/28/2013
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Contributor: deejay deejay
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Originally posted by Chastity Darling
I'm in a bit of a pickle. I received a butt plug for review and it rather intimidated me. My hubby immediately offered to review it for me and ended up using the plug that night. It was really weird for me to see him enjoy it. Almost a turn ... more
Not my thing, but if he seems into it, then I guess you could just ask him not to use it in front of you. Iif you find it turns you off, just tell him to do it alone, durring masturbation. He enjoys it, you don't have to endure it.
03/01/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
It's called classical conditioning. Do something that arouses you while he is using it... every time you watch him.


Eventually, you WILL start to get aroused at watching or possibly even the thought of watching him.


Make your brain subconsciously associate a reward with hubby using a plug on himself.

This is Pavlovian classical conditioning boiled down to probably the simplest it can be, but try it.
03/01/2013