Prostate Milking? Is this real?

Contributor: SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
I've heard of "prostate milking". This is basically the ability to make your man orgasm AND ejaculate by simply stimulating the prostate. Now, I've made my husband orgasm without ejaculation by stimulating his prostate, but never have I made him ejaculate. Is this even real, or is there a trick to this?
02/17/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Engaging topic analysis of Prostate massagers:

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02/17/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
It's definitely real! What my wife does is use her middle finger and makes the "come here" gesture once she's found my prostate...makes me orgasm and ejaculate for pretty much as long as she's doing that thing with her finger. I can only really take 30-45 seconds of it once I start to climax, because it's so intense compared to a regular orgasm...I start hyperventilating and punching the wall/headboard. Good stuff!!!
02/17/2012
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Yes, it's true. I've done it, hands free...zero contact with my penis.
02/17/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
There are three types of "orgasm/ejaculation" that you can get from anal/prostate stimulation.

The first is a full on "anally triggered orgasm" with contractions, stars, and spraying semen.

The second is a "semen only" sort of "orgasm". The pressure on the prostate causes an emission of semen without much of the accompanying orgasmic fanfare.

The third is an "anal orgasm" where you get the contractions and stars but no semen.
02/17/2012
Contributor: babyrock babyrock
it's real and ScottA is right. there will be lots of stars if you do it right.
02/19/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Yes its totally real.
02/19/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Definitely real. ToyTimeTim did a full thread thingie on it a while back. Very informative. Message me for the link, if no one else posts it first.
02/19/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
I've heard of "prostate milking". This is basically the ability to make your man orgasm AND ejaculate by simply stimulating the prostate. Now, I've made my husband orgasm without ejaculation by stimulating his prostate, but never ... more
I don't know about this for everyone but I know it works for some. With my partner, I like to use toys on him while he jerks himself off until he cums, and it always seems to be a larger volume once his prostate has been stimulated.
02/20/2012
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
True!
02/20/2012
Contributor: jg19 jg19
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
I've heard of "prostate milking". This is basically the ability to make your man orgasm AND ejaculate by simply stimulating the prostate. Now, I've made my husband orgasm without ejaculation by stimulating his prostate, but never ... more
Very real. My wife gets close,but usually if i use a vibrator i can get it to happen myself.
02/22/2012
Contributor: jenny10 jenny10
Quote:
Originally posted by Eliyahu
It's definitely real! What my wife does is use her middle finger and makes the "come here" gesture once she's found my prostate...makes me orgasm and ejaculate for pretty much as long as she's doing that thing with her finger. ... more
how far in does she put her finger? Like all the way in or partially. and is the prostate gland noticeable or do u have to already know what u r looking for?
02/23/2012
Contributor: woofcub woofcub
its definitely true, ScottA pretty much explained it right on. the length differs with each person but once you get there you will both know its the right spot.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
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Originally posted by jenny10
how far in does she put her finger? Like all the way in or partially. and is the prostate gland noticeable or do u have to already know what u r looking for?
It's easiest to find it when the guy is already aroused...the prostate will firm up and enlarge, making it easier to find. She usually has her finger all the way in when she's fingering/massaging my prostate - she tells me it's far easier and less tiring to use two fingers (the first two), rather than just her middle. A nice glass dildo is good too, but wifey just *loves* sticking her fingers in my ass
02/23/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
I've heard of "prostate milking". This is basically the ability to make your man orgasm AND ejaculate by simply stimulating the prostate. Now, I've made my husband orgasm without ejaculation by stimulating his prostate, but never ... more
I do it to my lover all the time. I use a well lubed finger and simply rub his prostate gently, without touching anything else. He still has a HARD orgasm in about two minutes that way. It is really a big TEASE however, since most of the time, when I am playing with his prostate, I enjoy sucking on him and it turns his "10 scale" "BIG O" into a 20!!!!!
02/23/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
There are three types of "orgasm/ejaculation" that you can get from anal/prostate stimulation.

The first is a full on "anally triggered orgasm" with contractions, stars, and spraying semen.

The second is a ... more
WOW...any time I have played with my hubbys prostate, it is all stars, gushing, contractions, moans and shudders. He has NEVER not had a powerful ejaculation. Frankly, since I am usually have my lips firmly around his tool at that moment (as I often do anyway), I KNOW how hard he cums that way, since I can FEEL the power as it hits the back of my throat!!! He goes from "squirt, squirt" normally, to "fire hose". I love it. Only gagged ONCE when he has come (after being together 36 years now) and that was after teasing the heck out of his prostate and NOT letting him get to the edge for about an hour. When he DID cum, his ejaculate HIT my tonsil so hard I coughed for about five minutes...then we both laughed our butts off!!!!!!!!!
02/23/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by jenny10
how far in does she put her finger? Like all the way in or partially. and is the prostate gland noticeable or do u have to already know what u r looking for?
If you use your index finger, which is MOST sensitive to touch, you will learn where the prostate is quickly. After that you can use other fingers. I use my middle finger as a rule. Anyway, just use WELL lubed finger (best if you sacrifice the nail and clip it short, for safety, really....your man will look at that finger and CHERISH you for he KNOWS it is for HIM), anyway, insert it AIMING FORWARD towards his BELLY BUTTON. GO as far as you need to (I have my finger in ALL THE WAY...but I know with a previous lover it was NOT in so deep), and then you will feel what really does feel like a WALNUT SURFACE. A walnut shaped, sized and textured (although SOFT, of course) organ. THAT is the prostate. DON'T bang it, scratch it or hurt it...it is DELICATE. Just massage it, up and down or around and the results will be amazing. Combine it with oral or a hand job with the other hand and your guy will have a more intense orgasm then he has EVER had...and he will likely thank you for it in a million ways!!!!
02/23/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by jg19
Very real. My wife gets close,but usually if i use a vibrator i can get it to happen myself.
My hubby is SO odd this way. We have tried every "P" spot vibe and toy in the world on him, and NOTHING hits that spot...EVER...except my fingers. Some of the expensive and best rated toys just "hurt" according to him..and he has no reason to lie about it. Every time some new "P" spot toy comes out, we buy it, try it and it then rots away in the bottom of the closet. Sad, but true. We wonder if HE is the only man in this situation? I will say, with MY FINGER, it is a 100% success rate. Always has been. Decades ago, he was "schooled" in anal sex by a previous lover, and she was "good" at prostate massages, but he still swears that "I AM THE BEST EVER" back there. Hum....he BETTER think so!!!
I let him play in my sensitive tushy all the time too...but he has never yet found MY prostate (THAT'S A JOKE PEOPLE!!!)...but I tell him to "keep looking...maybe some day"!!!!
02/23/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Mr. E
Yes, it's true. I've done it, hands free...zero contact with my penis.
Indeed, I can make my hubby explode just with prostate play, but it is SUCH a tease thing to do to the poor guy. Plus it wastes all that yummy precious juice he makes just for me!!!! Can't do THAT too often can we? Waste not, want not.
02/23/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
My hubby is SO odd this way. We have tried every "P" spot vibe and toy in the world on him, and NOTHING hits that spot...EVER...except my fingers. Some of the expensive and best rated toys just "hurt" according to him..and he has ... more
Word on the street is that he can now find your prostate. The G-spot is now referred to semi-officially as the "female prostate". He even has his choice of orifices to use.
02/24/2012
Contributor: kfdarling kfdarling
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
WOW...any time I have played with my hubbys prostate, it is all stars, gushing, contractions, moans and shudders. He has NEVER not had a powerful ejaculation. Frankly, since I am usually have my lips firmly around his tool at that moment (as I often ... more
Wow that sounds so hot! Wish I could get an o like that!
04/07/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I have never tried this with a man, but now I want to! It sounds so wonderfully intense!
04/07/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
It is real
04/07/2012
Contributor: prettynpink prettynpink
this is definitely on the "to-do" list lol
04/07/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Total myth for me. Can't do it and it wasn't for a lack of trying.
04/07/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
Total myth for me. Can't do it and it wasn't for a lack of trying.
Some guy's can't seem to have a prostate orgasm, though if you really want to be "milked" and can get something big enough to squeeze the prostate up there I'll guarantee that you can get something out - though the experience might not be as pleasant as you were wanting.

I think that this is one of those things where terminology is too loose. "Milking" is used for too many things, some orgasmic, others a component of BDSM and orgasm denial.
04/07/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I really want to try this out with my guy! I wish he wasn't so jumpy about me reaching back there...
04/08/2012
Contributor: PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
It took me about 15 minutes the first time I got milked. And through the first ten minutes it really just felt like someone fiddling around in my butt.
The last five I felt a large pressure building just behind my balls, and seriously started being loud the last few seconds before my orgasm. Huge load, I was completely spent when we were done.
04/09/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by ScottA
Some guy's can't seem to have a prostate orgasm, though if you really want to be "milked" and can get something big enough to squeeze the prostate up there I'll guarantee that you can get something out - though the experience ... more
Agreed, "Milking" to me only refers to massaging the prostate to release stagnant fluid from the gland. Stimulation (including massaging) of the gland leads to O's (Of one form or another).

Seems like some guys can have the Super O's, some blended O's, some just get anal O's and some can even get an O without ejaculation. As with most things, we are all different. I have heard that some guys can take a year or two to figure it all out. I can have blended O's and have had a few anal O's but not the Super O after two years of trying. No worries though, in this case the trip is more fun than the destination.

For those that would like to learn more about P-spot massage, Prostate massage 101
04/09/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
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Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
I've heard of "prostate milking". This is basically the ability to make your man orgasm AND ejaculate by simply stimulating the prostate. Now, I've made my husband orgasm without ejaculation by stimulating his prostate, but never ... more
Heard of it, never done it. My hub's not into the bum.
04/09/2012