Is there anyway to make this a pleasurable act? My husband would love for me to do this to him and I just can't. It completely turns me off. I don't allow him to do it to me either.
Rimming
02/02/2012
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If you're really not into it I don't think anything will help it become pleasurable for you.
Although if you're still willing to try maybe make a nice romantic night out of it. Draw a bath and cleanse the area, perhaps shave the hair off if that's something both of you would like and then go for it. Perhaps a little bit of flavored lube on that area would also help mask any unfavorable tastes that you may be worried about.
Although if you're still willing to try maybe make a nice romantic night out of it. Draw a bath and cleanse the area, perhaps shave the hair off if that's something both of you would like and then go for it. Perhaps a little bit of flavored lube on that area would also help mask any unfavorable tastes that you may be worried about.
02/02/2012
yes, there is no way to make something you are not "into" more pleasurable. dont force your self to do something you dont like.
02/04/2012
Rimming is a matter or preference - I will rim my wife any day - but I never let her do me. Is that odd - yes it is, but that's just the way it is!
02/04/2012
suck it up and eat it out, dont be a whimp! WOman up!
02/06/2012
Just out of curiosity, what is making the thought of rimming so unappealing? Is it a cleanliness issue or something else?
Maybe if you can address the things you don't like about it that could help. But if it is that unappealing for you, maybe you should just talk with your partner and see if there are other things you can do to please him!
Maybe if you can address the things you don't like about it that could help. But if it is that unappealing for you, maybe you should just talk with your partner and see if there are other things you can do to please him!
02/06/2012
If you don't want to do it then don't. Talk with your husband about it and find something else to do - he should love and cherish you enough to want you to be comfortable.
That said do figure out why, both for you as a couple and you personally. Sometimes you can get around things when you think about them - for instance, if it's a cleanliness issue then use a barrier (slit a glove or use plastic wrap - crumple it up a few times to keep it from being too clingy). There's no reason that you should feel you have to do something you don't want to, so if you don't get around it then don't do it.
That said do figure out why, both for you as a couple and you personally. Sometimes you can get around things when you think about them - for instance, if it's a cleanliness issue then use a barrier (slit a glove or use plastic wrap - crumple it up a few times to keep it from being too clingy). There's no reason that you should feel you have to do something you don't want to, so if you don't get around it then don't do it.
02/06/2012
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you could try showering together and then try rimming afterwards...makes sure to soap him up down there if that's what grosses you out!
Originally posted by
Ash1141
Is there anyway to make this a pleasurable act? My husband would love for me to do this to him and I just can't. It completely turns me off. I don't allow him to do it to me either.
02/06/2012
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