I am very curious about anal, and how to go about trying it. I have been told it is very pleasurable. I am just worried about moving to fast. Is it pleasurable for both men and women? What you is the best starter? What is the best lube? Do people actually use latex gloves to explore anal play? how long can you use one toy until you graduate to something bigger?
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06/06/2012
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I'm also very curious too....
06/06/2012
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we both need advice then where are all the advice people?
Originally posted by
FeKitten
I'm also very curious too....
06/06/2012
Lol agreed....
06/06/2012
I am a female and I enjoy anal sex - but it hasn't always been that way. I have only done anal with two partners. The first one was my first husband. I absolutely hated it, but would do it occasionally. He wasn't attentive to my body and unless I specifically told him to stop, he would continue even if I were uncomfortable or in pain.
I really enjoy anal sex with my now husband. He takes his time and pays close attention to my body to adjust what he is doing so it is not only more comfortable, but also more pleasurable for me. When he does it right, it is amazing.
I would say start out with some play around the outside. Be sure to use a good lube. We really love Maximus - in my opinion its the best for anal play. Start off with a very slender vibrator or finger and go slow.
I wouldn't say there is a set time frame for when to move on to a bigger toy, but just take your time and be ready.
Good luck and enjoy. And by all means don't be afraid to tell your partner they have gone far enough and you don't want to continue.
I really enjoy anal sex with my now husband. He takes his time and pays close attention to my body to adjust what he is doing so it is not only more comfortable, but also more pleasurable for me. When he does it right, it is amazing.
I would say start out with some play around the outside. Be sure to use a good lube. We really love Maximus - in my opinion its the best for anal play. Start off with a very slender vibrator or finger and go slow.
I wouldn't say there is a set time frame for when to move on to a bigger toy, but just take your time and be ready.
Good luck and enjoy. And by all means don't be afraid to tell your partner they have gone far enough and you don't want to continue.
06/06/2012
Thank you so much!!!!
06/06/2012
There are a lot of books and DVDs with excellent information about the dos and don't - anything by Tristan Taormino is excellent link
06/07/2012
Think big - start small If you want to get into the anal play area with comfort and ease I guess the best thing is to start with smaller dildo like the:
Blush UR3 Anal Starter
or a silicone alternative:
Sedeux Please
To grow up I'd suggest:
Pure Skin Player jr
The silicone alternative is:
VIP Super Soft
For Butt Plugs:
The best training of all times (after you grow out of the beginners toys):
Triple Ripple
Best Butt Plug (I guess many will agree):
Ryder
And finally my personal favorite among plugs:
Gapers Organic
Generally speaking that's my product advice. For lubes you have to look for yourself what suits you more. Just don't use silicone lube on silicone toys, it really kills them. The rest as usual, hygiene, foreplay, foreplay, lube -> and plenty of fun
Blush UR3 Anal Starter
or a silicone alternative:
Sedeux Please
To grow up I'd suggest:
Pure Skin Player jr
The silicone alternative is:
VIP Super Soft
For Butt Plugs:
The best training of all times (after you grow out of the beginners toys):
Triple Ripple
Best Butt Plug (I guess many will agree):
Ryder
And finally my personal favorite among plugs:
Gapers Organic
Generally speaking that's my product advice. For lubes you have to look for yourself what suits you more. Just don't use silicone lube on silicone toys, it really kills them. The rest as usual, hygiene, foreplay, foreplay, lube -> and plenty of fun
06/07/2012
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thank you so much for your input, that make me rethink it a little bit. I want to do it with the right person. Cause Well let face it I haven't done it. Thank you for the comment!
Originally posted by
lilgrump
I am a female and I enjoy anal sex - but it hasn't always been that way. I have only done anal with two partners. The first one was my first husband. I absolutely hated it, but would do it occasionally. He wasn't attentive to my body and
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I am a female and I enjoy anal sex - but it hasn't always been that way. I have only done anal with two partners. The first one was my first husband. I absolutely hated it, but would do it occasionally. He wasn't attentive to my body and unless I specifically told him to stop, he would continue even if I were uncomfortable or in pain.
I really enjoy anal sex with my now husband. He takes his time and pays close attention to my body to adjust what he is doing so it is not only more comfortable, but also more pleasurable for me. When he does it right, it is amazing.
I would say start out with some play around the outside. Be sure to use a good lube. We really love Maximus - in my opinion its the best for anal play. Start off with a very slender vibrator or finger and go slow.
I wouldn't say there is a set time frame for when to move on to a bigger toy, but just take your time and be ready.
Good luck and enjoy. And by all means don't be afraid to tell your partner they have gone far enough and you don't want to continue. less
I really enjoy anal sex with my now husband. He takes his time and pays close attention to my body to adjust what he is doing so it is not only more comfortable, but also more pleasurable for me. When he does it right, it is amazing.
I would say start out with some play around the outside. Be sure to use a good lube. We really love Maximus - in my opinion its the best for anal play. Start off with a very slender vibrator or finger and go slow.
I wouldn't say there is a set time frame for when to move on to a bigger toy, but just take your time and be ready.
Good luck and enjoy. And by all means don't be afraid to tell your partner they have gone far enough and you don't want to continue. less
06/07/2012
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i am not in to adult DVDs but thanks.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
There are a lot of books and DVDs with excellent information about the dos and don't - anything by Tristan Taormino is excellent link
06/07/2012
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thank you for sharing the toys with me I was thinking ab out toys a lot smaller.
Originally posted by
Chou Wang
Think big - start small If you want to get into the anal play area with comfort and ease I guess the best thing is to start with smaller dildo like the:
Blush UR3 Anal Starter
or a silicone alternative:
Sedeux Please
To grow ... more
Blush UR3 Anal Starter
or a silicone alternative:
Sedeux Please
To grow ... more
Think big - start small If you want to get into the anal play area with comfort and ease I guess the best thing is to start with smaller dildo like the:
Blush UR3 Anal Starter
or a silicone alternative:
Sedeux Please
To grow up I'd suggest:
Pure Skin Player jr
The silicone alternative is:
VIP Super Soft
For Butt Plugs:
The best training of all times (after you grow out of the beginners toys):
Triple Ripple
Best Butt Plug (I guess many will agree):
Ryder
And finally my personal favorite among plugs:
Gapers Organic
Generally speaking that's my product advice. For lubes you have to look for yourself what suits you more. Just don't use silicone lube on silicone toys, it really kills them. The rest as usual, hygiene, foreplay, foreplay, lube -> and plenty of fun less
Blush UR3 Anal Starter
or a silicone alternative:
Sedeux Please
To grow up I'd suggest:
Pure Skin Player jr
The silicone alternative is:
VIP Super Soft
For Butt Plugs:
The best training of all times (after you grow out of the beginners toys):
Triple Ripple
Best Butt Plug (I guess many will agree):
Ryder
And finally my personal favorite among plugs:
Gapers Organic
Generally speaking that's my product advice. For lubes you have to look for yourself what suits you more. Just don't use silicone lube on silicone toys, it really kills them. The rest as usual, hygiene, foreplay, foreplay, lube -> and plenty of fun less
06/07/2012
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you're very welcome, have tons of fun
Originally posted by
Squirtz Starz
thank you for sharing the toys with me I was thinking ab out toys a lot smaller.
06/09/2012
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