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Contributor: Thong man Thong man
Straight couples only. Who brought up the idea of anal play?
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Guy
25  (86%)
Gal
4  (14%)
Total votes: 29
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08/13/2013
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Me -- the wife!
08/13/2013
Contributor: C&K0143 C&K0143
I did. - C
08/13/2013
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I did. I still like it more than he does, so it's only a once in a while thing.
08/14/2013
Contributor: Thong man Thong man
I did with my wife
08/14/2013
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
It's always been my boyfriends.
08/14/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I tried for 23+ years before succeeding with my wife. Now she's really into it! My only questions is what took you so long!
08/14/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Thong man
Straight couples only. Who brought up the idea of anal play?
We both had a lot of anal experience when we started dating, so it was not like it was new to either of us, but I do remember the first time we were in bed together, we were going at it "doggy style" and I reached back, pulled him out of my vagina, and put his penis tip into my tush and said "I want it". We had not discussed anal or anything else sexual to that point, but I sure didn't need to "tell him twice" and he quickly understood I was no "newbie" to making love back there!!! Likewise, his skills were world class and primed (his prior girlfriends taught him well)...good for me!!!!
08/15/2013
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I tried for 23+ years before succeeding with my wife. Now she's really into it! My only questions is what took you so long!
My husband talked about it for 15 or 16 years before I entertained that. He still asks me what took so long.

Gunsmoke, nice to see you are still here.
08/15/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Thong man
Straight couples only. Who brought up the idea of anal play?
Early in our relationship Sigel assumed the role of mentor and sexual innovator. It is a role he has decided has outlived its usefulness and now I am as likely to suggest new stuff as he is.
08/15/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I've always been the one to bring up anal play in all of the relationships I've been in, particularly within my "straight" relationships.
08/15/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by Thong man
Straight couples only. Who brought up the idea of anal play?
I did and I am a girl
08/16/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Me -- the wife!
that is very cool
08/16/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by Mwar
I did. I still like it more than he does, so it's only a once in a while thing.
me too
08/16/2013
Contributor: Pretties Pretties
I put me, but it was kinda of her too - the knew I was bi so was the first to suggest us doing it but then I was the one who said I was bi...
08/16/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I think it was men.
08/16/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
He did, I'm glad he did!!!
08/20/2013
Contributor: cmm cmm
Quote:
Originally posted by Thong man
Straight couples only. Who brought up the idea of anal play?
It's almost always the guy haha.
08/25/2013
Contributor: matry matry
I didn't vote because it was kind of both of us.
Neither one of us had ever experienced any kind of anal play with previous partners but we were both curious about it. One time early on in our relationship we were fooling around and he "accidentally" touched my "other hole" haha (I think he was just testing the waters). I liked it so we just went with it.
08/25/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
Quote:
Originally posted by Thong man
Straight couples only. Who brought up the idea of anal play?
girl
08/25/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by Thong man
Straight couples only. Who brought up the idea of anal play?
Woman
08/25/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Me -- the wife!
I did too
08/25/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by stacylyn12
I did and I am a girl
Me too
08/25/2013
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Drunkly, and on HIS birthday nonetheless, he shoved a finger in without saying anything or previous discussion. It was really bad, but I was not completely against it happening again with some discussion. He didn't bring it up at all for a few months, then asked before trying it again. I informed him of some necessary changes (i.e. lube!). Since then, over the past year and a half, we've obtained a number of plugs. He likes putting them in during foreplay and keeping them in during intercourse, but he still doesn't like the idea of putting his penis in. He also does not want anal play directed towards him at all. He quietly asked one time long ago and was really not into it. I'm okay with that.
08/25/2013
Contributor: peppermintgal peppermintgal
He did. We were fooling around/foreplay and he put his finger in. I was surprised but like it. One thing led to another.
08/25/2013
Contributor: EBJL EBJL
I have always been the one to bring it up. Never been turned down though.
08/26/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
he did something once. I'd never heard of doing that. I prefer not to say what it was.
09/17/2013