Who likes anal in your relationship?

Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
We both enjoy it on occasion. Everything is worth trying once
04/18/2011
Contributor: jcprice02 jcprice02
Quote:
Originally posted by sexy19364
I'm wanting to try anal, but my fiance dislikes it. So, I guess this is a question for straight couples, but other couples' (or groups') input is welcome.
been trying to get my wife into it, but she isn't interested
04/19/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
We both love it.
04/19/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
We both love it!
05/07/2011
Contributor: Judas Iscars Judas Iscars
Both (my wife and me).
05/07/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
Neither of us are interested. Everyone has their thing, I guess.
05/07/2011
Contributor: uu uu
Both!
05/07/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
both! She is usually the one to initiate and can even orgasm from just anal.
05/07/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
Both. Started out having to work her into trying it, but once she did it has become a rather regular part of our more extended sessions.
05/08/2011
Contributor: yoham45 yoham45
Both!
05/08/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Hubby likes giving, but wants nothing to do with receiving.

I love receiving. But I'm still having no luck persuading hubby to let me even just fingering him! Pegging/licking with my tongue is another matter, he's OK with that and seems to enjoy it.
05/09/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
We both really like it. He got me into it, actually. I'm always the receiver.
05/09/2011
Contributor: Collodion Collodion
I absolutely love anal play with my SO (and a few other partners), especially giving rimming and/or pegging. Hell, some of my favourite sessions with him are just me shoving him onto the bed and licking him until he's a moaning mess. *grin*

I have trouble receiving from him because he's so girthy and doesn't have much transition between head and "ohmigod that's a coke can". *laughs*

But with other partners I'm a big fan of slower, sensual anal explorations. I love penetration and I kinda like rimming, but I absolutely can't stand having my arse fingered. To each their own, I guess.
05/11/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by sexy19364
I'm wanting to try anal, but my fiance dislikes it. So, I guess this is a question for straight couples, but other couples' (or groups') input is welcome.
When we got married decades ago, we both vowed we would try ANYTHING together, at least twice (once, you just don't know about it). Anything that we have tried...we happen to have liked. Anal included. However, whatever the activity, be it in bed, or going to the symphony....one partner has to want to do it, of course, but the other must at least find it enjoyable, otherwise you BOTH should really not do it (or else the one who does enjoy the activity, gets to do it alone). Bottom line is that ANY activity should give some level of pleasure to you BOTH, even if that means the "lesser" enjoying party is really only enjoying the fact that their partner is happy (in which case it is a "relationship GIFT" and that is okay too, sometimes..so long as you BOTH offer those once in a while. However, when it comes to things "bedroom", we BOTH have ended up enjoying everything...as time and experience of what feels good, is learned together. ENJOY.
05/29/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
He hates anal. Both giving and receiving (he wont even let me try it on him) But I love it
05/29/2011
Contributor: need4fun2469 need4fun2469
both of us enjoy it, but she likes it more frequently than I do.
05/31/2011
Contributor: clp clp
We both enjoy giving and receiving
05/31/2011
Contributor: Devz Devz
we both like it
06/01/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by sexy19364
I'm wanting to try anal, but my fiance dislikes it. So, I guess this is a question for straight couples, but other couples' (or groups') input is welcome.
i like it but he does not
06/02/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I haven't had anal sex, but we enjoy anal play!
06/06/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
We both enjoy anal. My b/f initially enjoyed giving me anal but did not want to be pegged; he got so over his reluctance...frequentl y he chooses a harness, lubes a dil and is so ready to be fucked anally. No complaints from me, I so love to give it!
06/07/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Both, no question. How much each wants it just seems to ebb and flow, like all things human.
06/10/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
I really want to try it but the doesn't. She has let me use my finger on her some times but when I have tried my penius she says it's to big and then get nervous and tenses up which just doesn't work
If she is letting you use your fingers, then you need to DISCUSS the issue. Find a lube she REALLY likes..something thick, MADE for anal and then perhaps buy a few toys that go gradually up in size so that she can 1. Control the action 2. Get used to increasing sized toys back there, and 3. She can enjoy the sensation and NOT worry about pain...since there won't ever be any, since you will be such a GENTLE and SLOW, considerate lover and make sure SHE knows she is FULLY in control of how long, how far, and how fast. It WILL work for both of you...I know, I have been there.
06/10/2011
Contributor: Mikey Likesit Mikey Likesit
I love it but she won't budge on it which is fine with me as long as she likes to give it.
06/10/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
Quote:
Originally posted by sexy19364
I'm wanting to try anal, but my fiance dislikes it. So, I guess this is a question for straight couples, but other couples' (or groups') input is welcome.
We both enjoy it.
06/10/2011
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
We both enjoy it, primarily fingers or a toy. I've been pegged by my wife a few times and am more often on the receiving end, but she has yet to receive my cock back there, but is now willing to try it.
06/16/2011
Contributor: CharlieBrown CharlieBrown
Mostly I enjoy anal, but my wife is very open and she does it with me on occasion. She just asks that I pay attention to her body and get her really turned on during foreplay.
06/20/2011
Contributor: Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
Considering I am a gay guy... I would say if I had a relationship... we would both want and like anal sex lol
06/28/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
I like it, my partner isn't really interested.
07/25/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Definitely both of us like it at different times.
07/25/2011